Department of Family Services

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Michael A. Becketts
Director

5 Ways for Teens to Be a Healthy Bystander

(Posted 2024 January)

By building teens' abilities to identify and respond to unhealthy relationships, we can encourage our young people to interrupt the cycle of violence through bystander intervention. (Bystander intervention, or being an active bystander, means preventing violence when we are confronted with problematic situations.) Let's ensure people know dating violence is never tolerated, everyone deserves to feel safe in their relationships, and everyone knows how to act when they observe unhealthy behaviors.

  1. Speak out against statements, attitudes, or behavior that may perpetuate a culture endorsing violence as acceptable or inevitable.
  2. Name and stop situations that could lead to assault or violence. 
  3. Step in during a high-risk incident, whether by disruption, distraction, speaking up or calling for help so others can step in.
  4. Support and believe others when they feel uncomfortable or hurt.
  5. Help others respond to problematic situations.

teen girls standing beside lockers

Have questions or need help?

  • Domestic and Sexual Violence 24-Hour Hotline 703-360-7273
  • Domestic Violence Action Center 703-246-4573 
  • Domestic and Sexual Violence Services Main Office 703-324-5730 
  • If the threat is immediate, call 911.

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