(Posted 2023 December)
Nearly 50% of survivors of interpersonal violence report they delay leaving a dangerous situation because they have no way to keep their pet safe. If you are in an unhealthy relationship and have pets in your home, it can be a good idea to make your pets part of your safety plan.
Here are some suggestions to ensure all your loved ones have a path to safety:
- Take steps to prove ownership of your pet. Have them vaccinated and licensed in the place where you live. Make sure the registrations are done in your name.
- Try to avoid leaving pets alone with a partner who causes harm.
- Have emergency provisions for your pet in case the person who causes harm withholds money. Keep the number of the nearest 24-hour emergency veterinary clinic handy.
- If your pet is microchipped, make sure your partner is not listed as a contact.
- If you’re planning to leave the relationship, talk to friends, family, or your veterinarian about temporary care for your pet. Fairfax County’s Animal Shelter has a PetHaven Program, which offers short-term temporary care for pets whose owners need to get out of a bad situation. The program asks no questions, you don’t have to give advance notice, and there’s full discretion. If that’s not an option, search for nationwide services that assist domestic violence survivors with safekeeping for their pets. For help finding an animal shelter, visit the Humane Society website.
- If you leave, bring extra provisions for your pets, including food and medications, copies of their medical records, toys, collar and leash, bedding, and important phone numbers. If you have to escape without your pet, leave food, water, and supplies. Consider seeking assistance from animal control to see if they can intervene.
- If you’re need a protective order, check Virginia’s regulations around protective orders and pets.
- After leaving, consider changing veterinarians and pet care providers, and avoid leaving pets outside alone to ensure their long-term safety. Do not walk your pet alone.
If you or someone you know is experiencing interpersonal violence, call the Domestic and Sexual Violence 24-Hour Hotline at 703-360-7273 for resources and support.
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