(Posted 2023 November)
As Election Day approaches next week, this is a reminder that survivors of intimate partner violence deserve to—and can—participate in all aspects of this country’s political process, including voting, without fearing violence from someone who has caused them harm.
Remember: It’s never a survivor’s fault if someone chooses to make them feel unsafe or afraid for exercising their right to vote. Some survivors may find it helpful to create a safety plan around voting if they suspect their partner will threaten this right. A voting safety plan might include some of the following elements, depending on what a survivor decides is best for them:
- Vote when a partner who has caused harm is busy. If a survivor is worried about being joined by, or running into, their partner at their polling place, try to schedule a time when their partner may be busy.
- Ask a friend for support. Even if a friend, family member, or other trusted person can’t go to the precinct with a survivor, they might be able to stay in touch via text. If a survivor knows a neighbor who’s voting in person, can see if they’re willing to head to the polling place together.
- Know the candidates and vote quickly. Planning how to vote can save time at the polling place, especially if a survivor is worried about seeing someone who caused them harm.
- Practice self-care before and after voting. Plan a fun or relaxing activity around voting to help minimize stress. Have a favorite grounding activity? Practice it while waiting in line.
- Ask a poll worker about secret voting. If a survivor is voting with a partner who has caused them harm and is worried the partner may force their vote, they can ask a poll worker about casting a secret ballot if it’s safe to do so.
If you or someone you know is experiencing relationship violence, call the Fairfax County Domestic and Sexual Violence 24-Hour Hotline at 703-360-7273. If you are in immediate danger, please call 911.
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