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Foster Family News – 2025 January

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Welcome to the 2025 January issue of Foster Family News, a monthly newsletter for current and potential Fairfax County foster parents. Our monthly newsletter shares resources, news, tips, events, and trainings relevant to foster and adoptive parents, children in care, and the resource workers who support them. 

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Table of Contents
Feature Articles
Events Central
Support Groups
FAQs, Story in Stats & Foster Care Facts
Trainings and Conferences

New Video: Becoming a Foster Parent

Becoming a Foster ParentAre you curious about becoming a foster parent or know others who are? Hundreds of children in Fairfax County need a temporary loving home until they can safely return to their families. And we need more foster parents. Here are the six steps to becoming a foster parent with Fairfax County Foster Care and Adoption. It’s not as hard as it sounds, so check out this video to learn more! You can do it! Anyone can help! Check it out and share it with others who might be interested in becoming a foster parent. 
 

Tax Deductions for Foster and Adoptive Parents

person calculating taxesDid you know that adoptive parents and foster parents may be eligible for some tax credits for the children in their care? We’ve scoured the internet, so you don’t have to, and we pulled together some basic tax information to help you understand where to start. Check out our article for some general tax information and expert resources!


 

Americans' Views of U.S. Foster Care and Adoption

man and woman holding child with yellow backgroundIn a groundbreaking 2023 report, “Americans’ Views of U.S. Foster Care: Elevating Black Americans’ Perspectives and Experiences,” Kidsave and Gallup collaborated to examine how the American public — especially Black Americans — views the foster care system and adoption from foster care. Some of the results might just surprise you. Learn more.

 

 

Attend a Monthly Information Meeting

smiling group of teensDo you have questions about becoming a foster parent? Are you or someone close to you ready for the next step to help children that need a temporary home? We need more foster parents, and information meetings are one of the ways we get to know prospective parents. Information meetings for prospective parents are by invitation only. The next meeting is Tuesday, January 14 from 6:45-8:30 p.m. To attend the meeting first complete a short interest form to help us get to know you better, and you will be contacted promptly by one of our specialists. If that meeting is not convenient for you, the full 2025 meeting schedule and additional information are available online. Check it out and share with others who might be interested.


 

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EVENTS CENTRAL

generic calendar graphic Jan. 1 – First Day Hikes at Virginia State Parks or Fairfax County Parks. America’s State Parks encourages everyone to start the new year with a healthy, family-friendly hike. Start 2024 with a Virginia First Day Hike. Enjoy free entry and parking at all Virginia State Parks or Fairfax County Parks. 

Through Jan. 5 Holiday Light Shows in Northern Virginia. Drive, walk, or skate your way through these local Northern Virginia Regional Parks for a few more days of dazzling outdoor fun and outdoor festivals.

Respite Nights, hosted by Foster the Family D.C. 
Jan. 25 in Herndon and Silver Spring!
Offering occasional respite nights on Saturday evenings in three counties in the DMV area. During a respite night, they provide  three hours of free childcare in a safe, fun, trauma informed space. Respite nights are for any children in the home of local foster, adoptive, and kinship families. Contact hellodc@fosterthefamily.org for details.


Department of Family Services graphic logoThe Department of Family Services supports families and county residents of all ages and stages of life – and that definitely includes foster parents and families! Like and Follow @FairfaxCountyFamilyServices for news, events, tips, stories, training opportunities and more.

SUPPORT GROUPS

A variety of organizations offer support to adoptive, foster, and kinship care families in our region. Register online for a preferred support group. 

Thursday, Jan. 2, 6:30-8 p.m. – Formed Families Forward Virtual Fairfax Kinship Support Group for caregivers to safely share their experiences, concerns, and frustrations with their peers. In partnership with Fairfax County Government.

Monday, Jan. 13, 6:30-8 p.m. – Foster the Family D.C. Support Groups for foster, kinship, and adoptive moms throughout the region. Support group attendance may count towards training and recertification hours. Childcare registration is limited and will close by Friday, Jan. 10.
•    Prince William County, Register Here 
•    Fairfax County, Register Here 
•    Montgomery County, Register Here

Wednesday, Jan. 15, 7-8:30 p.m. – Formed Families Forward in-Person Peer Support Groups for foster, adoptive, and kinship families.

Thursday, Jan. 16, 6:30-8 p.m. – Formed Families Forward In-Person Fairfax Kinship Support Group for caregivers to safely share their experiences, concerns, and frustrations with their peers. In partnership with Fairfax County Government.

 

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Each newsletter will include this section to help answer questions, spotlight the people who support foster families, highlight the donors and sponsors who generously give to foster care programs and activities and friendly reminders for foster families to sign-up for trainings.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

question marksHow do I set up child care?

Answer: At the time of a referral, placement staff will ask foster parents if they need daycare and make a referral for child care assistance at that time.  Foster parents will be asked if they have flexibility to remain at home until daycare is arranged.  If daycare is necessary during a placement, a foster parent can request assistance from the foster care and adoption specialist or resource specialist.


Check out other frequently asked questions and answers from past issues.

Foster Care Facts That Might Surprise You

There are a lot of misconceptions about foster care, foster parents, and the children and families involved. This section aims to dispel some of those notions and provide clarity for those interested in supporting foster care.

Fact: Normalcy guidelines help to encourage positive experiences for children in foster care.

Explanation: There are reasonable and prudent parenting standards to help foster parents  encourage children’s normal, positive experiences? With planning (and in some cases) collaboration with social workers, foster parents can make decisions related to vacations, babysitters, playing sports, allowing teens to work part-time or get a driver’s license.

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TRAININGS AND CONFERENCES

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For Youth in Fairfax County Foster Care or Fostering Futures

ECMC College Night
Tuesday, Jan. 14, 2025
5-7 p.m.
Virtually on Zoom

Get your college - related questions answered! Learn more about college admissions, the financial aid process, scholarships, and more. A virtual Independent Living workshop for current and former youth in Fairfax County Foster Care ages 14 and older. Contact us to register in advance!
 

For Parents/Caregivers

2025 Families Rising Adoption Tax Credit Webinar
Tuesday, January 28, 2025
2 p.m.-3 p.m. CST

Have questions about how to claim the adoption tax credit? Families Rising’s adoption tax credit expert, Josh Kroll, presents a free webinar on the federal adoption tax credit outlining the steps to file. The focus is on filing for the 2024 tax year, but also covers applying for the credit for adoptions as far back as 2019. Josh explains what parents need to do to take advantage of the credit. Register online.

Training for Fairfax County licensed Foster Parents

Mirror Mirror, an In-Service Training Opportunity influenced by ARC Reflections 
Wednesday, Jan. 15
6:30 – 8:30 p.m. 
Virtual via Microsoft Teams 

Foster and kin parents are invited to learn to help children regulate emotions, feel connected, and build strengths. RSVP by Monday, Jan. 6, 2025, to Emily Thomas. Future dates and topics in this series will be offered the third Wednesday of each month. Attendance at all sessions is strongly encouraged but not required.

Opioid Overdose and Naloxone Education (REVIVE! Kit Training).
Tuesday, Jan. 21, 2025
7-8 p.m.
Virtual training via Teams.

Fairfax County foster parents are invited to attend a special training provided by the Community Services Board. Learn how to recognize the signs and symptoms of an opioid overdose, how to administer naloxone nasal spray to potentially reverse the effects of an opioid overdose, and what to do and not do when responding. Be on the lookout for a flyer with more details in your email. Register online by Friday, Jan. 17. The CSB also offers general virtual REVIVE! trainings. Visit their website for the available dates.

Foster to Adopt Training
Wednesdays, Feb. 5 and 12, 6:30-9 p.m. 
(You must attend both sessions)
Virtual Via MS Teams

Come learn about the transition from fostering to adopting and meet other families considering the same process. The training will cover issues such as transracial adoption and cultural sensitivity; the impact of adoption on child development; ongoing birth family and sibling contact; Adoption Assistance and resources. There will be a panel discussion during the second session. RSVP to Emily Thomas by Friday, Jan. 31.

Foster Parent College Online Training
Foster Parent College offers training on a variety of key topics. Newly approved and seasoned foster parents can build new skills or reinforce information acquired from New Generation PRIDE. FPC is self-paced and can be accessed online from anywhere at your convenience 24/7. All classes are free to approved foster parents with Fairfax County. You may choose to take any class you believe will be helpful for your own personal growth and development. This month’s featured training is Understanding Behavior in Foster Children. Read more.


If you have questions or need additional support, please reach out to one of the in-service trainers; Emily Thomas. You may also contact FPC at 541-343-6636 or toll free at 1-800-777-6636, (PT) for technical difficulties. As always, once a class is completed, please email the certificate to Emily Thomas.

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