Department of Family Services – Children, Youth and Families

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Oriane Eriksen
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Welcome to the 2024 September issue of Foster Family News, a monthly newsletter for current and potential Fairfax County foster parents. Our monthly newsletter shares resources, news, tips, events, and trainings relevant to foster and adoptive parents, children in care, and the resource workers who support them. 

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Table of Contents
Feature Articles
Events Central
Support Groups
FAQs, Story in Stats & Foster Care Facts
Trainings and Conferences

Family Reunification a Cause for Celebration

CASA staff siting at tableDuring Reunification Month in June, the Department of Family Services and Fairfax County Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court hosted the Third Annual Reunification Celebration for families that were reunited between June 1, 2023-May 31, 2024. The highlight was a moving speech by a parent about the support her family received while she and her children were separated. Check out more details of this heartwarming ceremony and this amazing parent’s journey to be the best mom she can be for her kids. Thank you to Fairfax Community Church and Olive Garden for your sponsorship.

Spotlight on Dana Wade

Dana WadeMeet Dana. After a lengthy career as a social worker in some far-flung places around the globe, she has spent the last eight years here in Fairfax County in a variety of child welfare roles. Now, Dana is settling into a new position as the supervisor of the Foster Care and Adoption Placement and Resource Unit which supports foster families and children and youth in care. Learn more about Dana and her motivation for doing this meaningful work. 

 


 

Foster Care Unit Success Story: A Story of Resilience and Reunification

South County Foster Care Unit staff Check out this example of how a foster parent, a home-based worker, and a child’s extended biological family can form a community of support that enables a parent to be reunified with their child. This story also illustrates the power of resilience and the importance of a parent’s unwavering determination.


 

 

 

A Mandate for Designated Safe and Affirming Foster Homes

diverse group of teensIn April the federal government passed a rule requiring Title IV-E and IV-B agencies to designate safe and affirming homes for LGBTQI+ youth in foster care. The rule will require agencies to put specific plans and processes in place to ensure that LGBTQI+ children and youth in foster care will be placed with providers who are "trained to meet their specific needs related to their sexual orientation and gender identity and who would facilitate access to age-appropriate services to support their health and well-being." Learn more.

 

Sponsor Spotlight: Foster Youth Innovation

Harlee with DFS staff and donationsThank you to FYI, Foster Youth Innovation, and its inspirational young founder, Harlee Chapman who is on a mission to make a difference for youth in foster care, to support them, encourage their success, and educate local communities.  FYI recently hosted a couple of donation drives benefitting youth in foster care in Fairfax County and beyond. The Fairfax County Department of Family Services is grateful for Harlee’s support and wishes her and FYI continued success! Read more

 

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EVENTS CENTRAL

generic calendar graphic Respite Nights (in Fairfax or Rockville) hosted by Foster the Future D.C.
Saturday, September 28, 2024
4-7 p.m. 

Foster the Future D.C. offers local foster, adoptive, and kinship families regular Respite Nights in several localities in the DMV area. During a Respite Night, they provide three hours of free child care with fun activities, including outside time (weather permitting), dinner, and a movie in a safe, fun, trauma-informed space. Respite Nights are for ANY & ALL CHILDREN (ages 0-12) in the home of local foster, adoptive, and kinship families. Registration is REQUIRED by Monday, September 23, 2024.  


Department of Family Services graphic logoThe Department of Family Services supports families and county residents of all ages and stages of life – and that definitely includes foster parents and families! Like and Follow @FairfaxCountyFamilyServices for news, events, tips, stories, training opportunities and more.

SUPPORT GROUPS

A variety of organizations offer support to adoptive, foster, and kinship care families in our region. Register online for a preferred support group. 

Thursday, Sept. 5, 6:30-8 p.m. – Formed Families Forward Virtual Fairfax Kinship Support Group for caregivers to safely share their experiences, concerns, and frustrations with their peers. In partnership with Fairfax County Government.

Sunday, Sept. 8, 7:30-9 p.m. – Formed Families Forward Virtual Peer Support Groups for foster, adoptive, and kinship families to support and encourage each other. 

Monday, Sept. 9, 6-8 p.m. – Foster the Family D.C. Support Groups for foster, kinship, and adoptive moms throughout the region. As of Jan. 2024, support group attendance may count towards training and recertification hours. Childcare is limited and will close by Friday, September 6.

Wednesday, Sept. 18, 7-8:30 p.m. – Formed Families Forward in-Person Peer Support Groups for foster, adoptive, and kinship families.

Tuesday, Oct. 1, 6:30-8 p.m. – Stronger Together Youth and Young Adult Peer Support Group introduces teens and young adults (age 14 – 22) to skills to help navigate everyday challenges.

 

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Each newsletter will include this section to help answer questions, spotlight the people who support foster families, highlight the donors and sponsors who generously give to foster care programs and activities and friendly reminders for foster families to sign-up for trainings.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

question marksWhat do I do if my child gets sick?

Answer: The Medical Authorization form, which is given to foster parents at the time of the child’s arrival, explains explicitly what to do in a medical emergency. If a child has a fever or illness afterhours, foster parents can take them to the emergency room or any medical facility that accepts that child’s insurance. Foster parents are asked to call the Foster Parent Support Line at 703-257-3974 to inform the on-call person that the child will be taken to the emergency room. Foster parents should take the Medical Authorization form and Provider Agreement with them in case the facility asks for it. 


Check out other frequently asked questions and answers from past issues.

Foster Care Facts That Might Surprise You

There are a lot of misconceptions about foster care, foster parents, and the children and families involved. This section aims to dispel some of those notions and provide clarity for those interested in supporting foster care.

Fact: No matter your marital status, you can be a foster parent to a child in need.

Explanation: Single, divorced and married (including LGBTQ couples) people are all welcome to become foster parents!

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TRAININGS AND CONFERENCES

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For Youth in Fairfax County Foster Care or Fostering Futures

Political Advocacy & Voter Registration, a Fostering Futures Independent Living Workshop
Tuesday, Sept. 17, 5-7 pm. 
Offered Virtually

Whether it’s registering to vote in the upcoming election or advocating for legislation to benefit youth in foster care, you can get involved in our country’s political system. This presentation by S.P.E.A.K.O.U.T., a group of politically active foster care alumni, will help you find your voice! The League of Women Voters of Fairfax County will help you register to vote on the spot so you can cast your ballot in November. Incentives provided to all participants! For ages 14 and up. For more information, contact DFSIndependentLiving@fairfaxcounty.gov.

For Parents/Caregivers

Starting the School Year Safe and Calm by Formed Families Forward
Sept. 9, 20, or 23
In-person and virtual trainings are offered this September. The same training is presented three times. Register for only one to learn practical strategies for reducing risk and boosting safety for children and youth while promoting wellness for the whole family. Register online.

Chosen Training on Blocked Care and Executive Functioning by Foster the Family D.C.
Sept. 14, 3-8 p.m.
Participants can attend this live stream for free virtually or in-person at Fairfax Church of Christ in Fairfax for a small fee. Limited childcare (for ages 0-12) and dinner are available. Register online.

Training for Fairfax County licensed Foster Parents

All Children All Families “Building Safety and Trust”
Thursday, September 12 and 19
6:30-8 p.m.
Virtual via Microsoft Teams

Join us for a presentation by Lauren Wethers-Coggins, AFFIRM Program Coordinator. Foster parents will increase awareness and understanding of LGBTQ+ youth. You will increase skills for creating safe and welcoming environments, building trust and rapport. You will also gain information on resources and services available for supporting LGBTQ+ youth and their families. RSVP by Friday, September 6, 2024, to Emily Thomas. Attendance at both sessions is required for in-service credit.

Understanding Trauma, an In-Service Training Opportunity influenced by ARC Reflections 
Wednesday, Sept. 18
6:30 – 8:30 p.m. 
Virtual via Microsoft Teams 

Foster and kin parents are invited to learn to help children regulate emotions, feel connected, and build strengths. RSVP by Monday, Sept. 9, 2024, to Emily Thomas. Future dates and topics in this series will be offered the third Wednesday of each month. Attendance at all sessions is strongly encouraged but not required.

Foster Parent College Online Training
Foster Parent College offers training on a variety of key topics. Newly approved and seasoned foster parents can build new skills or reinforce information acquired from New Generation PRIDE. FPC is self-paced and can be accessed online from anywhere at your convenience 24/7. All classes are free to approved foster parents with Fairfax County. You may choose to take any class you believe will be helpful for your own personal growth and development. This month’s featured training is Substance-Exposed Infants (Also available in Spanish). Read more.


If you have questions or need additional support, please reach out to one of the in-service trainers; Emily Thomas. You may also contact FPC at 541-343-6636 or toll free at 1-800-777-6636, (PT) for technical difficulties. As always, once a class is completed, please email the certificate to Emily Thomas.

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