Department of Family Services – Children, Youth and Families

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12011 Government Center Parkway, Pennino Building
Fairfax, VA 22035
Oriane Eriksen
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Welcome to the 2025 April issue of Foster Family News, a monthly newsletter for current and potential Fairfax County foster parents. Our monthly newsletter shares resources, news, tips, events, and trainings relevant to foster and adoptive parents, children in care, and the resource workers who support them. 

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Table of Contents
Feature Articles
Events Central
Support Groups
FAQs, Story in Stats & Foster Care Facts
Trainings and Conferences

A Guide to Helping Children Navigate the Digital World

teens looking down at cell phonesOnline media is a big part of young people's lives, and it can have both positive and negative effects on their mental health. By modeling and encouraging positive online experiences, openly communicating with your children, setting age-appropriate boundaries, and keeping an eye out for warning signs, parents and caregivers can prepare young people to navigate the digital world in a healthy way. Learn more.

 

Preparing for Summer Camp: Tips for Foster Families

group of tweens playing outside with parachuteIt’s hard to believe that it’s time to make plans for the summer. In fact, summer camp registration has already begun for many programs. It’s important for children to stay active and keep their minds engaged while school is on break. Summer camps can provide those opportunities while filling a need for children to be occupied during the workday. Here are a few tips, resources, and guidelines about summer camps. Check it out.

 

Foster Care Unit Success Story: Fostering Mental Health Resilience

Adoption and Kinship Assistance Unit specialistsWhen a 16-year-old girl disengaged from treatment, lost all motivation, and spiraled into a mental health crisis, her devastated mother reached out to the Adoption and Kinship Assistance unit for support. Check out this success story to understand how this family got back on track with some help from our adoption assistance specialists, various therapies and community resources. Learn more

 

 

 

Making Birthday Dreams Come True

Sephora bag birthday cakeDid you know that Cakes4Kids is a non-profit organization that partners with local agencies to deliver birthday cakes to children and youth (ages 1-24) in Northern Virginia who otherwise could not afford them? These are not your ordinary run-of-the-mill cakes, but the spectacular custom cakes or sweet treats of every child’s dreams. These amazing one-of-a-kind creations are made by volunteers at no cost to the county or the families. They require two weeks’ notice to pull off these delightful desserts, so foster families should contact their assigned foster care resource and support specialist well in advance to request cakes for children and youth.

 

Our Future Matters – Recognizing April as Child Abuse Prevention Month

April is Child Abuse Prevention Month: Our Future MattersEvery child deserves to grow up in a safe, nurturing, and stable environment. The Fairfax County Board of Supervisors is recognizing Child Abuse Prevention Month in Fairfax this April with a proclamation on April 22 at their Board Meeting. Participate in Wear Blue Day on Friday, April 4 or plant a garden of pinwheels (the national symbol for child abuse prevention), join the conversation on social media, or help raise awareness in other ways. Check out our resources and learn about the theme, “Our Future Matters: Stronger Families, Thriving Community.” 


 

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EVENTS CENTRAL

generic calendar graphic Monthly Foster Care Information Meeting
Tuesday, April 8, 2025
6:45-8:30 p.m.

Are you curious about becoming a foster parent? Are you or someone close to you ready for the next step to help children that need a temporary home? We need more foster parents, and information meetings are one of the ways we get to know prospective parents. Information meetings for prospective parents are by invitation only. To attend the meeting first complete a short interest form to help us get to know you better, and you will be contacted promptly by one of our specialists. The full 2025 meeting schedule and additional information are available online. Check it out and share it with others who might be interested.

Kids Day Out (Previously known as Respite Nights), hosted by Foster the Family D.C. During a Kids Day Out, we provide 3 hours of free childcare in a safe, fun, trauma informed space. These events are for any children, ages 0 - 12 in the home of local foster, adoptive, and kinship families. Spots are limited and first come, first serve. Registration will close the Monday before the Kids Day Out. 

Foster the Family 5K and Family Fun Day at Lake Accotink Park
Saturday, April 26
9-11:30 a.m.

Registration is now open for this event. Local foster, adoptive, and kinship families can receive a free Fun Day admission using the code: FunDay. Registration and other details can be found here

Awareness to Action—Supporting Foster Care Changes Lives! 
Tuesday, April 29, 2025
 5-7 p.m.
Lorton Library
9520 Richmond Highway
Lorton, VA, 22079-2124

Are you interested in making a difference in the lives of children in need? Have you ever wondered what foster care entails? Come learn about the foster care and adoption program in Fairfax County and how you can raise awareness and support your community. This National Foster Care Month Open House is an opportunity to understand the foster care system, the process involved, the rewards of being a foster parent, as well as other ways to be involved. Whether you are simply curious to learn more or seriously considering becoming a foster parent, this meeting is the perfect chance to get all your questions answered. Register online.

Spring Forward Foster, Adoptive and Kinship Family Fun Day hosted by Formed Families Forward
Saturday, May 3
8:30 a.m. - 2 p.m.
10900 University Blvd
Manassas, VA 20110

Keynote and licensed professional counselor Leigh McGinnis will kick off the morning of learning and connection for parents, caregivers and professionals. Children and youth enjoy a day of structured and engaging outdoor activities. The event concludes with a family lunch. Learn more. Register early to take advantage of Early Bird rates.

*SAVE THE DATE* Family Fun Day in the Park hosted by Fairfax County Foster Care and Adoption
Saturday, May 10, 2025 
11 a.m.-2 p.m.
Lake Accotink Park

Fairfax County Foster Families join us for an open house in the great outdoors. There will be a fun movement learning activity for families and children to help with the development of their physical and emotional regulation skills. We’ll offer a light lunch, and snacks, and opportunities to enjoy the park’s amenities including boat rentals, carousel, trails, minigolf and more. Families must RSVP by May 2, 2025.


Department of Family Services graphic logoThe Department of Family Services supports families and county residents of all ages and stages of life – and that definitely includes foster parents and families! Like and Follow @FairfaxCountyFamilyServices for news, events, tips, stories, training opportunities and more.

SUPPORT GROUPS

A variety of organizations offer support to adoptive, foster, and kinship care families in our region. Register online for a preferred support group. 

Thursday, April 3, 6:30-8 p.m. – Formed Families Forward Virtual Fairfax Kinship Support Group for caregivers to safely share their experiences, concerns, and frustrations with their peers. In partnership with Fairfax County Government.

Monday, April 7, 6:30-8 p.m. – Foster the Family D.C. Support Groups for foster, kinship, and adoptive moms throughout the region. Support group attendance may count towards training and recertification hours. Childcare registration is limited and will close by Friday, April 4.

Thursday, April 17, 6:30-8 p.m. – Formed Families Forward In-Person Fairfax Kinship Support Group for caregivers to safely share their experiences, concerns, and frustrations with their peers. In partnership with Fairfax County Government.

Wednesday, April 23, 7-8:30 p.m. – Formed Families Forward in-Person Peer Support Groups for foster, adoptive, and kinship families.

 

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Each newsletter will include this section to help answer questions, spotlight the people who support foster families, highlight the donors and sponsors who generously give to foster care programs and activities and friendly reminders for foster families to sign-up for trainings.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

question marksWhat is the difference between day care and summer camp?

Answer: Day care is a service provided to foster parents on a consistent basis, depending on the foster parents’ schedule and the child’s needs. Summer camp is a special activity or interest that is provided for youth in foster care.


Check out other frequently asked questions and answers from past issues.

Foster Care Facts That Might Surprise You

There are a lot of misconceptions about foster care, foster parents, and the children and families involved. This section aims to dispel some of those notions and provide clarity for those interested in supporting foster care.

Fact: Did you know? You don’t need to have your own children to be a foster parent.

Explanation: Many foster parents do not have children. Regardless of your parenting experience, caring for children who have experienced trauma is made easier if you have the right training. Our department provides ongoing resources and training opportunities to help prospective foster (and adoptive) parents become comfortable.

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TRAININGS AND CONFERENCES

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For Youth in Fairfax County Foster Care or Fostering Futures

College Tour at Northern Virginia Community College
Tuesday, April 1

Youth, ages 14-21, who are currently in the care of Fairfax County Department of Family Services or Fairfax County’s Fostering Futures Program are welcome to attend this special tour of Northern Virginia Community College. Learn about opportunities for furthering your education and meeting your goals through the programs and courses offered at NVCC. Contact us to learn more or register.

For Parents/Caregivers

Child Abuse Prevention Month- Protective Factors and ACES hosted by Northern Region CRAAFT
Wednesday, April 16 
6:30 p.m.-8:30 p.m. 
Virtual Via Zoom

Knowledge and understanding of protective factors and adverse childhood experiences (ACEs), as well as the social-ecological model, can inform efforts to reduce the risk of maltreatment and prevent the recurrence of abuse or neglect by drawing on family strengths and acknowledging the impact of traumatic events. Register here


Working as a Member of a Professional Team hosted by Northern Region CRAAFT
Monday, May 19
6:30 p.m.- 8:30 p.m. 
Virtual Via Zoom

This training covers the roles of each member of the child welfare team and outlines key principles for effective decision-making. It focuses on developing your professional role as a resource parent and explores potential challenges you may face. Additionally, the training examines the nature of conflict, identifies various conflict styles within the team, and provides steps for effective collaboration among child welfare team members. Register here.

Training for Fairfax County licensed Foster Parents

Respond, Don’t React, an In-Service Training Opportunity influenced by ARC Reflections 
Wednesday, Apr. 23
6:30 – 8:30 p.m. 
Virtual via Microsoft Teams 

Foster and kin parents are invited to learn to help children regulate emotions, feel connected, and build strengths. RSVP by Wednesday, Apr. 16, 2025, to Emily Thomas. Future dates and topics in this series will be offered each month. Attendance at all sessions is strongly encouraged but not required.

Foster Parent College Online Training
Foster Parent College offers training on a variety of key topics. Newly approved and seasoned foster parents can build new skills or reinforce information acquired from New Generation PRIDE. FPC is self-paced and can be accessed online from anywhere at your convenience 24/7. All classes are free to approved foster parents with Fairfax County. You may choose to take any class you believe will be helpful for your own personal growth and development. This month’s featured training is Autism: A Strength-Based Approach. Read more.


If you have questions or need additional support, please reach out to one of the in-service trainers; Emily Thomas. You may also contact FPC at 541-343-6636 or toll free at 1-800-777-6636, (PT) for technical difficulties. As always, once a class is completed, please email the certificate to Emily Thomas.

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