Department of Family Services – Children, Youth and Families

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703-324-7500 TTY 711
12011 Government Center Parkway, Pennino Building
Fairfax, VA 22035
Oriane Eriksen
Director

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Welcome to the 2026 January issue of Foster Family News, a monthly newsletter for current and potential Fairfax County foster parents. Our monthly newsletter shares resources, news, tips, events, and trainings relevant to foster and adoptive parents, children in care, and the resource workers who support them. 

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Table of Contents
Feature Articles
Events Central
Support Groups
FAQs, Story in Stats & Foster Care Facts
Trainings and Conferences

 

A Day in the Life of a Foster Parent

Today, more than 230 Fairfax County children are in foster care. The Department of Family Services' Foster Care and Adoption Program offers temporary foster homes for these children, and services to help their families. Check out a typical day for our foster parent, Carl Underwood! It’s all about showing up consistently! Thank you, Carl! Watch video

 

 

DPWES Packs Foster Care Housewarming Baskets

Foster Care and Adoption received a thoughtful donation from Fairfax County Department of Public Works and Environmental Services. Their Women of Works (WOW) group provided care packages that will benefit older youth in foster care. These donations will help to make for a smoother transition for older youth in our Fostering Futures program as they move into living more independently. Learn how you can support the Fostering Futures program.


 

Foster Families Enjoy Magical Children’s Holiday Party

We are so glad that so many of our foster families decided to spend the afternoon with us at the Arlington-Fairfax Chapter, Inc., IWLA’ Annual Children’s Holiday Party on December 13. This special event was a lovely opportunity for the community to show their appreciation for all that our foster parents do. Learn more
 



 

Mandatory Social Media and Youth Mental Health eLearnings

In response to Governor Youngkin’s Executive Order 43 (EO-43), the Virginia Department of Social Services in collaboration with the Office of Children's Services, launched two new mandatory eLearnings related to Social Media and Youth Mental Health. EO-43 mandates that all current Family Services Specialists (FSS), resource parents, Family Assessment and Planning Team (FAPT) members, and youth in foster care age 14-18 in Virginia complete training on safety and the use of social media. 

The target completion date for the training was December 5, 2025. So, please complete it as soon as possible. Each 45-minute training is available on the VDSS website:

If you have any questions, your foster care practitioner can support you. Once you complete the course and complete a brief survey to receive a certificate of completion, share the certificate with your foster care practitioner. 

Supporting Children Who Have Experienced Trauma

It can feel challenging to support your child through behaviors or emotions shaped by early trauma or loss. Finalizing an adoption doesn’t wave a magic wand and make those experiences all disappear. The good news is that parents don't have to do it alone or have every answer. There are resources and supports to help you. Check out this article from Adopt US Kids for meaningful steps you can take to support your child’s wellbeing so they can thrive. 

 

New Fairfax County Paid Work Program for Students

Fairfax County Neighborhood and Community Services (NCS) is looking for motivated students ages 16+, college students or young adults looking to jump into real-world experience through our new Work Student Program launching January 2026. Older youth can build your skills while making a meaningful impact in Fairfax County. Under the guidance of staff from the assigned department, work students will complete entry-level tasks that give them hands-on experience, career exploration opportunities and exposure to the field – all supported through mentorship. Students may work up to 900 part-time hours in 2026. Hours are flexible to fit around school schedules, and jobs are located throughout Fairfax County. To learn more about work student positions, visit NCS Internships.


 

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EVENTS CENTRAL

generic calendar graphicMonthly Foster Care Information Meeting
Tuesday, January 13
6:45-8:30 p.m.
Are you curious about becoming a foster parent? Are you or someone close to you ready for the next step to help children that need a temporary home? We need more foster parents, and information meetings are one of the ways we get to know prospective parents. Information meetings for prospective parents are by invitation only. To attend the meeting first complete a short interest form to help us get to know you better, and you will be contacted promptly by one of our specialists. The full 2025 meeting schedule and additional information are available online. Check it out and share it with others who might be interested.

 


Department of Family Services graphic logoThe Department of Family Services supports families and county residents of all ages and stages of life – and that definitely includes foster parents and families! Like and Follow @FairfaxCountyFamilyServices for news, events, tips, stories, training opportunities and more.

SUPPORT GROUPS

A variety of organizations offer support to adoptive, foster, and kinship care families in our region. Register online for a preferred support group. 

Various dates, 6:30-8 p.m. – Foster the Family Support Groups for foster, kinship, and adoptive moms throughout the region. Support group attendance may count towards training and recertification hours. Childcare registration is limited. Learn more about changes to their services in the DC area. Maryland County Support Groups.

Thursday, Jan. 1, 6:30-8 p.m. – Formed Families Forward Virtual Fairfax Kinship Support Group for caregivers to safely share their experiences, concerns, and frustrations with their peers. In partnership with Fairfax County Government.

Sunday, Jan. 4, 7:30-9 p.m. – Formed Families Forward Virtual Peer Support Groups for foster, adoptive, and kinship families.  

Thursday, Jan. 15, 6:30-8 p.m. – Formed Families Forward In-Person Fairfax Kinship Support Group for caregivers to safely share their experiences, concerns, and frustrations with their peers. In partnership with Fairfax County Government.

Wednesday, Jan. 21, 7-8:30 p.m. – Formed Families Forward in-Person Peer Support Groups for foster, adoptive, and kinship families.

 

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Each newsletter will include this section to help answer questions, spotlight the people who support foster families, highlight the donors and sponsors who generously give to foster care programs and activities and friendly reminders for foster families to sign-up for trainings.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

question marksHow do I identify a medical provider for a child placed in my home?

Answer: First, speak with their foster care specialist about previous medical providers the child has had. When possible, try to maintain the relationship your child has had with previous medical providers. If, however, your child does not have a primary doctor or maintaining that provider is not realistic, medical providers should be located through the Medicaid directory. Please speak with your foster care specialist when exploring new providers, because they may already have knowledge of medical/dental providers that accept new patients and Medicaid. They may also want you to choose a provider close to the birth family or relative home, if reunification is the plan. This helps ensure continuity of medical care for a child when they leave foster care. For youth who are undocumented, foster parents in conjunction with the child’s specialist can select a provider and the Department is responsible for medical costs.


Check out other frequently asked questions and answers from past issues.

Foster Care Facts That Might Surprise You

There are a lot of misconceptions about foster care, foster parents, and the children and families involved. This section aims to dispel some of those notions and provide clarity for those interested in supporting foster care.

Fact: Children enter foster care through no fault of their own. Children are placed in foster care due to parental abuse or neglect; and they need loving supportive families to help them overcome the trauma.

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TRAININGS AND CONFERENCES

orange mechanical gearsFor Youth in Fairfax County Foster Care or Fostering Futures

What Does the Future Look Like? Creating the Life You Want!
Tuesday, January 13
5 –7 p.m.
12011 Government Center Parkway
Room 1034
Fairfax, VA 22035
Or
Virtual via Zoom
Wednesday, January 21 
5 – 6:30 p.m.
Join us for a vision boarding activity to help you start identifying what matters most to you to help you set your goals. An Independent Living workshop for youth ages 14 and older in Fairfax County Foster Care or Fostering Futures. Contact us to register in advance!

For Parents/Caregivers

Recognizing, Understanding, and Responding to Impact of Traumatic Stress Webinar
One of a series hosted by Fairfax County Public Schools Family Resource Center, presented by Formed Families Forward.
Friday, January 14, 2026 
10-11:30 a.m.
Come learn how trauma impacts the brain and gather valuable information to help you recognize what is happening, why it is happening, and how to effectively respond in ways that promote safety and support. Register online.

Training for Fairfax County Licensed Resource Parents

Guiding with Care: Positive Discipline Strategies for Resource Parents
Wednesday, January 14, 2026 
6-7:30 p.m.
Virtual via Zoom
Resource parents will learn about common behaviors for youth and adolescents in foster care. Attendees will develop useful skills and methods to improve communication with children. We’ll also explore various ways to approach discipline and how to defuse potentially difficult situations such as tantrums and power struggles. We’ll cover expected behaviors by age and a wide range of ways to solve common challenges. 

Participants will receive 1.5 hours of training credit. For more information email Wilmer Ramirez or call 703-324-7202. Register online by January 9, 2026. 

Foster-to-Adopt
Wednesdays, February 18 and 25, 2026 (you must attend both sessions)
6:30-9 p.m.
Virtual (2 sessions) 
This training will help resource parents to identify adoption challenges that may affect your child’s life. We’ll define the unique roles of foster parenting and adoptive parenting. Other topics will include the impact of adoption and levels of openness. There is also a presentation to prepare parents for the financial side of adoption (i.e., adoption subsidy).

Participants will receive 5 hours of training credit. If you have questions, then please email Wilmer Ramirez or call 703-324-7202. Register online by February 13.

Mental Health First Aid presented by the Fairfax-Falls Church Community Service Board 
Tuesday, March 10 and Wednesday, March 11, 2026
5 – 8:30 p.m. 
Virtual via Zoom
During this training, resource parents will learn the signs, symptoms, and risk factors of mental health problems in youth and how to effectively help a youth in crisis. There is required pre- and post-work to complete this course.

Participants will receive over 10 hours of training credit and fulfill the annual family training requirement. If you have questions, then please email Dr. Patricia Aviles-Cubillos or call 703-324-7919. Preregister online by Tuesday, February 10.

Please note that Foster Parent College is no longer available. This is in conjunction with the Virginia Department of Social Services transition away from PRIDE and TOCC to the National Training and Development Curriculum for Foster and Adoptive Parents (NTDC) as the state endorsed foster parent curriculum. Right-Time trainings may be used for on-demand learning, like Foster Parent College. If you have questions or need additional support, please reach out to one of the in-service trainers; Neda Ghodsi and Jennifer Woods.

 

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