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Michael A. Becketts
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Foster Family News – 2024 October

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Welcome to the 2024 October issue of Foster Family News, a monthly newsletter for current and potential Fairfax County foster parents. Our monthly newsletter shares resources, news, tips, events, and trainings relevant to foster and adoptive parents, children in care, and the resource workers who support them. 

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Table of Contents
Feature Articles
Events Central
Support Groups
FAQs, Story in Stats & Foster Care Facts
Trainings and Conferences

Community Celebrates Achievements of Graduates in Fairfax County Foster Care

group of foster care graduates We are thrilled to announce that 14 youth in foster care overcame significant challenges to successfully graduate high school, college or obtain a professional certificate this year. Over the summer, the Fairfax County Foster Care and Adoption Program joined with friends, family, and community partners to celebrate their accomplishments at a special event. It was a special event with lots of fun surprises. Learn more

Spotlight on Danielle Rothrock

Danielle RothrockWorking in foster care and helping children has been Danielle’s dream job since she was a kid. In her position as the supervisor of the Foster Care and Adoption South County Unit, Danielle gets to put all her professional experience in social work to good use leading a team as they support children in care and their families. Learn more about Danielle and her background. 


 


 

Foster Care Unit Success Story: A Mother and Child Reunion

Annandale Foster Care Unit specialistsIn this moving case, a teen who was struggling to make it on her own and thought she had no one to turn to was given a second chance to reconnect with her mother and siblings. Check out this moving story about a mother who was willing to go the distance to get her daughter back.


 

 

 

Virtual Career Academy Readies Foster Youth for Job Market

Virtual Career AcademyThe Virtual Career Academy provides paid job readiness training and professional development for youth and young adults in foster care in the Northern Virginia region. This year’s participants balanced completing six weeks of webinars, career interviews, and virtual assignments, like mock interviews, resume building, budgeting, and more. Learn more about their accomplishments. 

 

New Legislation Puts Family First

Virginia capitol buildingAfter many years of effort by state advocacy groups, the Code of Virginia was amended this year to remove barriers and increase the percentage of children in child welfare that are placed with relatives or close family friends. The new legislation also makes it possible for those relatives to receive financial support to help with providing care for the children. Learn more.
 

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EVENTS CENTRAL

generic calendar graphic October 5: Prince William/Fauquier Fall Family Picnic
Foster the Family invites you to gather with them for a fall family potluck picnic for all foster, adoptive, and kinship families located in or around Prince William County. This is open to the whole family. Register here.
 


Respite Nights hosted by Foster the Family D.C.
We offer occasional respite nights on Saturday evenings in three counties in the DMV area. During a respite night, we provide 3 hours of free childcare in a safe, fun, trauma informed space. Respite nights are for any children, ages 0 - 12 in the home of local foster, adoptive, and kinship families. 


Department of Family Services graphic logoThe Department of Family Services supports families and county residents of all ages and stages of life – and that definitely includes foster parents and families! Like and Follow @FairfaxCountyFamilyServices for news, events, tips, stories, training opportunities and more.

SUPPORT GROUPS

A variety of organizations offer support to adoptive, foster, and kinship care families in our region. Register online for a preferred support group. 

Tuesday, Oct. 1-Nov. 19, 6:30-8 p.m. – Stronger Together Youth and Young Adult Peer Support Group introduces teens and young adults (age 14 – 22) to skills to help navigate everyday challenges

Thursday, Oct. 3, 6:30-8 p.m. – Formed Families Forward Virtual Fairfax Kinship Support Group for caregivers to safely share their experiences, concerns, and frustrations with their peers. In partnership with Fairfax County Government.

Sunday, Oct. 6, 7:30-9 p.m. – Formed Families Forward Virtual Peer Support Groups for foster, adoptive, and kinship families to support and encourage each other. 

Monday, Oct. 14, 6:30-8 p.m. – Foster the Family D.C. Support Groups for foster, kinship, and adoptive moms throughout the region. As of Jan. 2024, support group attendance may count towards training and recertification hours. Childcare is limited and will close by Friday, October 11.

Wednesday, Oct. 16, 7-8:30 p.m. – Formed Families Forward in-Person Peer Support Groups for foster, adoptive, and kinship families.

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Each newsletter will include this section to help answer questions, spotlight the people who support foster families, highlight the donors and sponsors who generously give to foster care programs and activities and friendly reminders for foster families to sign-up for trainings.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

question marksHow do we apply for free/reduced lunch for school-age kids? 

Answer: Please contact your foster care specialist. They will apply for free/reduced lunch for the child.


Check out other frequently asked questions and answers from past issues.

Foster Care Facts That Might Surprise You

There are a lot of misconceptions about foster care, foster parents, and the children and families involved. This section aims to dispel some of those notions and provide clarity for those interested in supporting foster care.

Fact: A consistent, reliable, caring support system can make all the difference for kids in foster care.

Explanation: Children are resilient. They can bounce back from trauma. Foster parents can support a child’s healing by providing love, structure, support, and a caring environment.

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TRAININGS AND CONFERENCES

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For Youth in Fairfax County Foster Care or Fostering Futures

To Buy or Not to Buy: Keeping Your Identity Safe as a Consumer by Fairfax County Foster Care and Adoption 
Tuesday, October 22, 2024 
5–7 p.m. 
In Person or Virtual 

Youth ages 14–21, who are currently in the care of Fairfax County Department of Family Services or Fairfax County’s Fostering Futures Program can join this informative hybrid training to protect yourself against identity theft. Learn what is identity theft, how to protect yourself, and how to know if someone has stolen your identity, and how to report it. Dinner provided for in-person attendees. Language interpreters and child care may be provided upon request. Email for more information.

For Parents/Caregivers

Mental Health Considerations hosted by Northern Region CRAFFT
Oct. 1, 2024
6:30-8:30 p.m.

Gain an understanding of mental health disorders and conditions that commonly occur in childhood. The session covers ‘survival’ behaviors and symptoms of grief not always connected with mental health disorders. Find out about commonly administered psychotropic medications, and how to obtain consistent, adequate and appropriate access to mental health services. Ask your resource worker for more information on registration.


Parenting a Child with a History of Sexual Trauma hosted by Northern Region CRAFFT 
Oct. 19, 2024
9:30-11:30 a.m.

Recognize the indicators of sexual abuse and the impact of interrupted sexual development, including the unique challenges associated with parenting children who have been sexually abused. Understand the potential risk factors for children who have experienced sexual trauma including re-victimization, sexual trafficking, and re-enactment behaviors. The training covers effective parenting strategies that can help keep children safe and help them heal from sexual trauma. Ask your resource worker for more information on registration.

Training for Fairfax County licensed Foster Parents

Behavior Makes Sense, an In-Service Training Opportunity influenced by ARC Reflections 
Wednesday, Oct. 16
6:30 – 8:30 p.m. 
Virtual via Microsoft Teams 

Foster and kin parents are invited to learn to help children regulate emotions, feel connected, and build strengths. RSVP by Monday, Oct. 7, 2024, to Emily Thomas. Future dates and topics in this series will be offered the third Wednesday of each month. Attendance at all sessions is strongly encouraged but not required.

Foster Parent College Online Training
Foster Parent College offers training on a variety of key topics. Newly approved and seasoned foster parents can build new skills or reinforce information acquired from New Generation PRIDE. FPC is self-paced and can be accessed online from anywhere at your convenience 24/7. All classes are free to approved foster parents with Fairfax County. You may choose to take any class you believe will be helpful for your own personal growth and development. This month’s featured training is Trauma-Informed Parenting (Also available in Spanish). Read more.


If you have questions or need additional support, please reach out to one of the in-service trainers; Emily Thomas. You may also contact FPC at 541-343-6636 or toll free at 1-800-777-6636, (PT) for technical difficulties. As always, once a class is completed, please email the certificate to Emily Thomas.

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