(Posted 2025 October)
This article is by Penny Talley, supervisor of the Annandale Foster Care Unit.
In the crisp air of early spring 2024, a baby girl named Michelle* entered the world under difficult circumstances. Born showing signs of withdrawal and testing positive for substances, she was placed in foster care at just seven days old.
While her mother, Dionne, loved her children, she was battling homelessness and addiction, leaving her unable to provide stability for Michelle. When asked about Michelle’s father, Dionne provided a name, but a paternity test came back negative. A month later, she offered another name: George.
George, a quiet, hardworking single father to a young son, was blindsided when the Department of Family Services (DFS) contacted him. A paternity test confirmed him as Michelle’s father, news that profoundly changed his life. Raising another child as a single parent would stretch him emotionally, financially, and logistically. Yet, George felt a swelling sense of purpose. Michelle was family, and she deserved to be with someone who loved her no matter what sacrifices it required.
A Father’s First Steps
From the moment his paternity was confirmed, George began working tirelessly to prove he could care for Michelle. His first visits were filled with nerves, but the bond between them grew with every meeting.
George worked diligently to meet the requirements of the Interstate Compact on the Placement of Children (ICPC) home study, which involved a thorough evaluation of his home and ability to parent two children. He was open about his concerns about finances, single parenthood, and balancing both his children’s needs, but his dedication outweighed his fears.
George showed up to every visit with toys and books, determined to bond with Michelle. Over time, he introduced her to her older brother, who at first struggled to adjust to the idea of a younger sibling. Through patience and love, George nurtured their budding relationship which grew into a deep connection.
Facing Challenges, Building Connections
For Dionne, watching George step into fatherhood was bittersweet. She deeply loved her daughter and wanted nothing more than to be the mother Michelle deserved, but she couldn’t provide her with the stability she deserved. Despite attempts at rehab, her addiction controlled her life and often led her to miss visits.
Recognizing George’s ability to offer a better future for Michelle, Dionne made the painful decision to support the transition into his care. This allowed her to be more emotionally present during her visits, finding some solace in the knowledge that Michelle would grow up in a stable environment.
To prepare George for the challenges ahead, DFS provided resources and counseling to guide him in parenting a child with prenatal substance exposure. Gradual steps, including overnight stays and extended visits, helped Michelle transition into George’s home.
Coming Home
After 15 months in foster care, Michelle officially came home. George’s unwavering efforts paid off as he created a loving, supportive environment for his daughter. Gaining custody wasn’t just about providing Michelle with a home. It was about rewriting her story. George has even encouraged Dionne to remain a part of Michelle’s life in a way that is safe and supported by DFS to ensure Michelle will know her mother.
George’s journey reminds us that fathers can also be heroes in their children’s lives. George’s journey is a testament to the power of love, determination, and resilience. He has built a home where Michelle can thrive, knowing she belonged.
*Names and some identifying information have been changed for confidentiality.
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