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Foster Family News – 2024 March

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Welcome to the 2024 March issue of Foster Family News, a monthly newsletter for current and potential Fairfax County foster parents. Our monthly newsletter shares resources, news, tips, events, and trainings relevant to foster and adoptive parents, children in care, and the resource workers who support them. 

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Spanish Language Video: Adoptando a Alejandro: el viaje de Gina y Antoinette desde la crianza temporal hasta la adopción (Adopting Alejandro)

Gina, Alejandro, Antoinette- smiling at beachCuando conoces por primera vez a Gina y Antoinette, lo primero que le llama a uno la atención es la calidez y mentalidad abierta que ambas comparten. Estas latinas tienen mucho amor que ofrecer a todos los que las rodean y eso se nota, especialmente en la manera en la que cuidan de su hijo Alejandro. Estas nuevas madres adoptivas están marcando una diferencia en los niños en hogares de acogida. Para más información mira el vídeo (Learn more about these adoptive mothers who are making a difference for children in foster care and share their story with the community. English subtitles are available if you select them in the settings on YouTube.)

Helping Children Manage Their Anger

mother comforting upset daughterAnger is part of the human experience. We’ve all been angry at one time or another. It’s easy to recognize, but it can be difficult to control, especially for children. Check out these suggestions from the Parenting Education programs about how to help your child manage this difficult emotion and express it in a healthy way. Learn more.
 

 

Unit Success Stories: Foster Parents Are Often the Unsung Heroes

Reston Foster Care Unit specialists Our foster parents play such a pivotal role in bridging the gap between children and their biological families. Their diligent efforts can ultimately support the journey toward family reunification. Learn how one family made such a difference and helped establish lasting family connections. Read more.

 

 

The Fundamentals of Training

woman and man sitting on couch looking at laptopVirginia requires foster parents to complete 30 hours of training every three years to stay licensed- that’s only 10 hours each year. The good news is that with so many online training opportunities, it’s never been easier to get in those mandatory training requirements at the touch of a finger. So check out these suggestions for Fairfax County foster parents to boost your training hours.


 

Appreciating and Empowering DFS Social Workers

Social Work Month: Empowering Social WorkersSocial workers are uniquely qualified to handle societal troubles ranging from homelessness to opioid use, and mental health crises to child welfare concerns. Social workers enter the profession because they truly want to help others. They go through years of education, training, and supervision so they can do the delicate but important work of meeting people where they are and helping them achieve their goals. March is Social Work Month, a chance to learn more about the social workers in DFS and the ways they are helping to improve lives in our community. 

EVENTS CENTRAL

generic calendar graphicFamily Gathering in Falls Church
Saturday, March 2, 2024
11 a.m.-2 p.m.


Cherry Hill Park 
312 Park Avenue
Falls Church, VA
Join Foster the Family D.C. for a fun-filled family picnic at Cherry Hill Park. There will be face painting, sandwiches & snacks, and outdoor FUN. Register.


Spring Forward Foster, Adoptive and Kinship Family Fun Day 
Saturday, April 13, 2024 
8:30 a.m.-2 p.m.

George Mason University’s Science and Technology Campus
Manassas, VA
National trauma and resiliency expert and author Jessica Sinarski, LPCMH, will kick off the day for parents, caregivers and professionals.  Following the keynote, adults can visit exhibitors and then choose from a variety of great breakout sessions led by education, mental health and other experts. Designed just for formed families and professionals who work with them. Learn more.


Department of Family Services graphic logoThe Department of Family Services supports families and county residents of all ages and stages of life – and that definitely includes foster parents and families! Like and Follow @FairfaxCountyFamilyServices for news, events, tips, stories, training opportunities and more.

SUPPORT GROUPS

A variety of organizations offer support to adoptive, foster, and kinship care families in our region. Register online for a preferred support group. 

Sundays, Mar. 3 and Apr. 7, 7:30-9 p.m. – Formed Families Forward Virtual Peer Support Groups for foster, adoptive, and kinship families to support and encourage each other. 

Thursdays, Mar. 7 and Apr. 4, 6:30-8 p.m. – Formed Families Forward Virtual Fairfax Kinship Support Group for caregivers to safely share their experiences, concerns, and frustrations with their peers. In partnership with Fairfax County Government.

Saturdays, Mar. 2 and 9, 8-9:30 a.m. – Foster the Family D.C. Dad’s Breakfast for foster, kinship, and adoptive dads throughout the region. As of Jan. 2024, support group attendance counts towards training and recertification hours.

Mondays, Mar. 11, 6:30-8 p.m. – Foster the Family D.C. Support Groups for foster, kinship, and adoptive moms throughout the region. As of Jan. 2024, support group attendance may count towards training and recertification hours. 

Thursday, Mar. 21 and Apr. 18, 6:15-8 p.m. - Formed Families Forward In-Person Fairfax Kinship Support Group for caregivers to safely share their experiences, concerns, and frustrations with their peers. Dinner and child care provided. In partnership with Fairfax County Government.

Wednesday, Mar. 20, 7-8:30 p.m. – Formed Families Forward in-Person Peer Support Groups for foster, adoptive, and kinship families.


Each newsletter will include this section to help answer questions, spotlight the people who support foster families, highlight the donors and sponsors who generously give to foster care programs and activities and friendly reminders for foster families to sign-up for trainings.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

question marksWhat is Respite? How do I access it?

Answer: Respite is a service provided to foster parents when they need assistance caring for the child in their home. It is used to maintain or stabilize the family. Respite occurs when a child needs to stay with another foster family either overnight or for an extended period during the day. Respite may be used if the foster parents need to go out of town and are unable to take the child in their home. Respite funds may be used for preplacement visits or visits with siblings or when a youth is stepping down from a higher level of care. Respite is not to be used as punishment for a child. Foster parents can request respite through the foster care and adoption specialist, resource specialist or placement coordinator. The specialist may also request respite but should discuss it with the foster parent first. Respite can be provided in the home of the foster parent where the child lives or in the home of the foster parent providing the respite.


Check out other frequently asked questions and answers from past issues.

Story In Statistics

Fairfax County Foster Care and Adoption
Children Entering Foster Care by Region (FY 2023)

Children Entering Foster Care by Region (FY 2023)

 

 

 

 

 



Children entered foster care from the following regions In FY 2023:
Annandale 30% (Region 2)
Fairfax 26% (Region 4)
South County 23% (Region 1)
Reston 21% (Region 3)
Despite being significantly smaller, region 2 is more densely populated than the other three regions of the county. 

FOSTER CARE MYTHS

There are a lot of misconceptions about foster care, foster parents, and the children and families involved. This section aims to dispel some of those notions and provide clarity for those interested in supporting foster care.

Myth: You can’t foster if you've had a difficult time in your life.

Fact: Everyone faces challenges. What’s important is how you handle and overcome individual challenges. An essential part of foster parent training is exploring past experiences and learning how they may impact you as a foster parent. It’s important to be able to model to children in foster care healthy ways to process and rebound from trauma. This can even extend to situations where individuals who were in a foster care placement as a child become mentors or foster parents themselves.


Check out other myths from past issues.

TRAININGS AND CONFERENCES

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Styles 4 Kidz Haircare Workshop, hosted by C.A.S.E.
Saturday, April 13, 2024 
9:30 a.m.-12 p.m. or 12:30 p.m. – 3 p.m.

Prince George’s Community College
Student Lounge and Hollow Tree
301 Largo Road, Largo, MD 20774

This workshop is open to transracial adoptive and foster parents, caregivers, and social workers. You will get a brief introduction to textured hair basics for children of color, including which products to use and how to use them. With hands-on instruction, you’ll build confidence in your ability to style and maintain the health of your child’s hair. Space is limited. Registration is required for this free workshop. 

Training for Fairfax County licensed Foster Parents.

Foster to Adopt Training
Thursdays, Mar. 7 and 14, 6:30-9 p.m. 
(You must attend both sessions)
Virtual Via MS Teams
Come learn about the transition from fostering to adopting and meet other families considering the same process. The training will cover issues such as transracial adoption and cultural sensitivity; the impact of adoption on child development; ongoing birth family and sibling contact; Adoption Assistance and resources. There will be a panel discussion during the second session. RSVP to Emily Thomas by Friday, Mar. 1.

Attachment-focused Parenting: Parenting Children Who Have Experienced Trauma
Thursday, April 11, 2024
6:30-8:30 p.m.

Virtual Via Zoom
This training session gives foster and adoptive parents practical techniques and reassuring advice to help promote secure attachment with their children. Participants will learn about different attachment styles, how attachment develops and the life experiences, including neurobiological influences, that interrupt secure attachment. The session also covers sensory-related activities that promote emotional regulation and healthy parent-child connections. Email Kendra Smith or call 703-324-7660 to RSVP by Friday, March 29, 2024. 

Foster Parent College Online Training
Foster Parent College offers training on a variety of key topics. Newly approved and seasoned foster parents can build new skills or reinforce information acquired from New Generation PRIDE. FPC is self-paced and can be accessed online from anywhere at your convenience 24/7. All classes are free to approved foster parents with Fairfax County. You may choose to take any class you believe will be helpful for your own personal growth and development. This month’s featured training is Positive Parenting 1 and 2. Read more.


If you have questions or need additional support, please reach out to one of the in-service trainers; Emily Thomas. You may also contact FPC at 541-343-6636 or toll free at 1-800-777-6636, (PT) for technical difficulties. As always, once a class is completed, please email the certificate to Emily Thomas.

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