Department of Family Services

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Michael A. Becketts
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Welcome to the 2026 February issue of Foster Family News, a monthly newsletter for current and potential Fairfax County foster parents. Our monthly newsletter shares resources, news, tips, events, and trainings relevant to foster and adoptive parents, children in care, and the resource workers who support them. 

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Table of Contents
Feature Articles
Events Central
Support Groups
FAQs, Story in Stats & Foster Care Facts
Trainings and Conferences

VDSS Launches Stories from Foster Families Series

A new Virginia Department of Social Services video series is highlighting the real experiences of foster families across Virginia. The campaign, Stories from Foster Families: Notes Passed with Love, includes six individual videos featuring families from around the Commonwealth sharing their journeys, challenges, and triumphs.

The highlighted stories offer a powerful way for prospective foster parents to hear directly from families who have walked this path, see themselves in the stories, and consider fostering. They reflect Virginia’s commitment to kinship first, family reunification, and ensuring children remain connected to the people they love. Please check out and share these videos with folks you know who might be interested in foster care.

Resource Parents – Understand and Respond to Mental Health Crises Better

Research consistently shows that youth with foster care experience (FCE) face significantly higher rates of mental health challenges than their peers in the general population. To counteract this trend, we are offering Youth Mental Health First Aid tailored for our resource parents, Tuesday, March 10 and Wednesday, March 11, 2026, 5 – 8:30 p.m., virtually via Zoom. Learn more about the training.


 

Unit Success Story: Caring Foster Family Helps Youth to Make Her Dreams a Reality

Lily entered the foster care system at 15 years old — shy, scared, unable to speak English, and facing the prospect of repeating the 9th grade. A caring foster family and a team of supportive foster care practitioners made a huge difference that is still having a ripple effect in Lily’s life and the lives of others she touches. Learn more about this remarkable young woman and her journey to becoming an educator. 

 



 

Developing Best Practices to Improve Outcomes for Young Adults Experiencing Foster Care

Learn how Julie Bowman, a Foster Care and Adoption program manager with Fairfax County Department of Family Services, contributed to the creation of a national playbook as a resource for best practices and change for youth. Each section of the playbook focuses on an area of support for young people moving through the child welfare system, such as employment, housing, permanency, and health. Learn more about this joint effort of the National Collaborative for Transition-Age Youth. 
 

Tax Deductions for Foster and Adoptive Parents

There have been some significant changes to the tax law impacting foster and adoptive parents. We’re not tax experts, but we’ve compiled some highlights about the 2025 Adoption Tax Credit and dependent and qualifying child rules. Check it out.



 

Foster Parent Research Participants Wanted

Researchers at Virginia Commonwealth University are seeking foster parents to complete a survey regarding their experiences caring for children and youth in foster care. The study seeks to better understand the experience of being a foster parent, including motivation to become a foster parent, and resources that are helpful. Learn more and complete the interest form. Please direct questions to the study leaders at 804-628-8772.


 

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EVENTS CENTRAL

generic calendar graphicMonthly Foster Care Information Meeting
Tuesday, Feb. 10
6:45-8:30 p.m.
Are you curious about becoming a foster parent? Are you or someone close to you ready for the next step to help children that need a temporary home? We need more foster parents, and information meetings are one of the ways we get to know prospective parents. Information meetings for prospective parents are by invitation only. To attend the meeting first complete a short interest form to help us get to know you better, and you will be contacted promptly by one of our specialists. The full 2025 meeting schedule and additional information are available online. Check it out and share it with others who might be interested.

 


Department of Family Services graphic logoThe Department of Family Services supports families and county residents of all ages and stages of life – and that definitely includes foster parents and families! Like and Follow @FairfaxCountyFamilyServices for news, events, tips, stories, training opportunities and more.

SUPPORT GROUPS

A variety of organizations offer support to adoptive, foster, and kinship care families in our region. Register online for a preferred support group. 

Various dates, 6:30-8 p.m. – Foster the Family Support Groups for foster, kinship, and adoptive moms throughout the region. Support group attendance may count towards training and recertification hours. Childcare registration is limited. Learn more about changes to their services in the DC area. Maryland County Support Groups.

Sunday, Feb. 1, 7:30-9 p.m. – Formed Families Forward Virtual Peer Support Groups for foster, adoptive, and kinship families.  

Thursday, Feb. 5, 6:30-8 p.m. – Formed Families Forward Virtual Fairfax Kinship Support Group for caregivers to safely share their experiences, concerns, and frustrations with their peers. In partnership with Fairfax County Government.

Wednesday, Feb. 18, 7-8:30 p.m. – Formed Families Forward in-Person Peer Support Groups for foster, adoptive, and kinship families.

Thursday, Feb. 19, 6:30-8 p.m. – Formed Families Forward In-Person Fairfax Kinship Support Group for caregivers to safely share their experiences, concerns, and frustrations with their peers. In partnership with Fairfax County Government.

 

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Each newsletter will include this section to help answer questions, spotlight the people who support foster families, highlight the donors and sponsors who generously give to foster care programs and activities and friendly reminders for foster families to sign-up for trainings.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

question marksHow long does the court/administrative process take for reunification, termination of parental rights and adoption?

Answer: Reunification: The initial court process to work toward reunification or relative placement is one year. However, this time can be extended for a variety of reasons. The first foster care-related court hearing is called a dispositional hearing and occurs within 60 days of a child entering foster care. This is the hearing where the permanency goal outlined on the child’s service plan is approved. Prior to this hearing, you will receive a copy of the service plan that describes the permanency goal (i.e., return home) and what needs to happen to achieve the goal. The next court hearing is called a foster care review hearing, and it is scheduled within four months after the 60-day dispositional hearing. The purpose of this hearing is to review progress made on the initial foster care service plan by all parties and to make changes to the plan.

Termination of Parental Rights: A third foster care hearing, known as the permanency planning hearing, occurs within five months of the foster care review hearing and within 11 months of the date. The purpose of this hearing is to establish a permanent goal for a child and to either achieve the permanent goal, or to defer through the approval of an interim plan. If an interim plan is approved, a second permanency planning hearing will occur within six months. Other outcomes for this hearing include a change of goal and/or requesting approval of a termination of parental rights petition. If approved, a subsequent hearing for a trial is scheduled. The timeframe for this varies. In some cases, the trial can occur at the time of the permanency planning hearing.

Adoption: After the court approves the termination of parental rights, cases are reviewed by the court on an annual basis. The purpose of these hearings is to monitor the progress toward the goal of achieving permanency through adoption. In addition, six-month adoption progress reports are sent to the court and all parties on the case. The permanency timeline for finalizing an adoption is 24 months from the time a child enters foster care. This timeframe varies based upon the adoption recruitment process, the needs of a child and those of the adoptive family. The adoption process will include the following:

  • an approved adoptive home study or mutual family assessment for the family
  • the adoptive family enters into a legal adoption agreement
  • the Department provides supervisory visits to the child and adoptive family for at least six months
  • adoption full disclosure is given to the adoptive family
  • an approved adoption assistance agreement for support and needed services
  • Adoption Consent given by the agency director
  • an adoption attorney contracted for/retained by the adoptive family
  • all legal documents completed and filed in Circuit Court
  • a Final Order of Adoption signed by the Circuit Court judge
     

Check out other frequently asked questions and answers from past issues.

Foster Care Facts That Might Surprise You

There are a lot of misconceptions about foster care, foster parents, and the children and families involved. This section aims to dispel some of those notions and provide clarity for those interested in supporting foster care.

Fact: You can foster or adopt a relative’s child.
Explanation: Relatives of children in foster care are preferred caregivers so long as they demonstrate that they can provide for the child’s safety and well-being.

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TRAININGS AND CONFERENCES

orange mechanical gearsFor Youth in Fairfax County Foster Care or Fostering Futures

Know Your Worth; Defining Your Relationship Values offered by the Fostering Futures Unit in partnership with Domestic and Sexual Violence Services
In Person 
Tuesday, February 10, 5-7 p.m.
or 
Virtually on Zoom
Wednesday, February 18, 5-7 p.m.
Join us for an engaging and empowering workshop designed to help YOU reflect on your personal life values and the qualities you seek in healthy relationships. Understand what healthy relationships look like. Identify your personal “deal breakers.” Gain clarity on what YOU truly deserve. Build strong, positive connections in your life. This mandatory Independent Living workshop is for current and former youth in Fairfax County Foster Care ages 14 and older. Contact us to register in advance.

For Parents/Caregivers

Heart & Mind: Using SEL Insights to Build Belonging and Resilience - Part 2 Trauma Informed Series hosted by Fairfax County Public Schools Family Resource Center
Wednesday, February 11, 10-11:30 a.m.
Building on the positive impact protective factors have on stress and trauma, this webinar deepens the focus on social-emotional learning (SEL) as the foundation for student engagement and success. The session highlights how feeling safe, seen, and valued at home and school serves as the springboard upon which SEL skills are built. Using accessible, brain-based concepts, families will explore emotional regulation and gain practical strategies to strengthen connection and support their child’s social-emotional growth over time. Register here.

You Can't Pour From an Empty Cup: Tips for Self-Care 
One of a series hosted by Fairfax County Public Schools Family Resource Center, presented by Formed Families Forward.
Friday, February 27, 2026 
10-11:30 a.m.
Join licensed clinical social worker and kinship caregiver Dr. Monique Lilakos to learn more about stress management and self-care. Register online.

Training for Fairfax County Licensed Resource Parents

Foster-to-Adopt
Wednesdays, February 18 and 25, 2026 (you must attend both sessions)
6:30-9 p.m.
Virtual (2 sessions) 
This training will help resource parents to identify adoption challenges that may affect your child’s life. We’ll define the unique roles of foster parenting and adoptive parenting. Other topics will include the impact of adoption and levels of openness. There is also a presentation to prepare parents for the financial side of adoption (i.e., adoption subsidy).

Participants will receive 5 hours of training credit. If you have questions, then please email Wilmer Ramirez or call 703-324-7202. Register online by February 13.

Mental Health First Aid presented by the Fairfax-Falls Church Community Service Board 
Tuesday, March 10 and Wednesday, March 11, 2026
5 – 8:30 p.m. 
Virtual via Zoom
During this training, resource parents will learn the signs, symptoms, and risk factors of mental health problems in youth and how to effectively help a youth in crisis. There is required pre- and post-work to complete this course.

Participants will receive over 10 hours of training credit and fulfill the annual family training requirement. If you have questions, then please email Dr. Patricia Aviles-Cubillos or call 703-324-7919. Preregister online by Monday, February 9.

Parent Opportunities to Build Your Knowledge & Understanding

Each year, our partner the Foster & Adoptive Care Coalition, provides thousands of hours of skill-building sessions and trainings to foster, kinship, adoptive, and guardianship caregivers. They are hosted by their programmatic staff, primarily The Institute for Child Welfare Innovation. Sessions are free, and most are held virtually. Some upcoming topics include Mental Health Considerations, Know Your Rights, Know Your Role, The Importance of Sibling Bonds, Separation, Loss & Grief, and many more. After registering, you will receive a confirmation email containing the meeting link and a follow-up email with information about joining the meeting and obtaining training materials. Please note that some sessions do not count for training credit hours, so email Jennifer Woods and Neda Ghodsi with questions regarding whether in-service credit may be provided for attending. 

Foster Parent College Available for Online In-Service Training!
Recently, the Virginia Department of Social Services renewed its contract with Foster Parent College which offers training on a variety of key topics. FPC is self-paced and can be accessed online from anywhere at your convenience 24/7. You may choose to take any class you believe will be helpful for your own personal growth and development. All classes are free to approved foster parents with Fairfax County, and you will receive in-service training hours for completing FPC courses.

If you would like to receive a list of courses for review or if you have any questions about registering or assistance with login, please reach out to one of the in-service trainers; Neda Ghodsi and Jennifer Woods

 

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