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Department of Family Services Alert:

CONTACT INFORMATION: Monday–Friday 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
703-324-7500 TTY 711
DFSinfo@fairfaxcounty.gov
12011 Government Center Parkway, Pennino Building
Fairfax, VA 22035
FairfaxCountyFamilyServices
Michael A. Becketts
Director

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Foster Family News – 2024 December

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Welcome to the 2024 December issue of Foster Family News, a monthly newsletter for current and potential Fairfax County foster parents. Our monthly newsletter shares resources, news, tips, events, and trainings relevant to foster and adoptive parents, children in care, and the resource workers who support them. 

 

Table of Contents
Feature Articles
Events Central
Support Groups
FAQs, Story in Stats & Foster Care Facts
Trainings and Conferences

 

New Video: Angel’s Foster Care and Adoption Story

Brazelton Family Adoption StoryMeet Don and Emily, who became Fairfax County foster parents in 2018. After providing respite care for a couple of children, they welcomed 15-month-old Angel into their home in 2021 and recently adopted him. Don and Emily developed a close relationship with Angel’s biological family along the way, which has been a blessing to everyone. Angel, who is now an active 4-year-old, is receiving the care and support he needs from the whole family and he is thriving. Check out the video to learn more about this family and how their choice to foster has led to such joy.

 

Celebrating Families in Honor of Adoption Awareness Month

Adoption Month ProclamationA joyful Adoption Recognition Event honored all the amazing families who have chosen to adopt children from foster care locally in the last few years. The Department of Family Services and Fairfax County Circuit Court partnered to host this event at the courthouse on Saturday, November 16. Friends and loved ones, staff and dignitaries, as well as others in the local child welfare community were there to celebrate. Guests were treated to the proclamation of November as Adoption Awareness Month, an adoption finalization ceremony, speakers, and a musical performance, followed by lunch, activities, games and raffles. Learn more.

Unit Success Story: Maintaining a Family Connection through Adoption

Adoption Foster Care Unit SpecialistsFoster care is full of ups and downs. For foster parents, supporting the primary goal of reunification with the biological family requires a lot of patience and flexibility. In this family’s case, it led to a strong bond between the foster parents and the biological relatives of the child that continues to this day. Learn about their story and how foster care workers supported them in growing that lasting relationship.

 

 

 

 Fostering Normalcy

girl sticking head out of wooden fence smiling It’s important for children in foster care to have normal experiences and grow up doing positive activities just like any other child. Foster parents can rely on their state’s reasonable and prudent parenting standards for guidance on how to encourage normalcy. Here are some resources from the Virginia Department of Social Services to help with encouraging normalcy for children in care. 

  • Normalcy Decision Tree
  • Online Training: CWSE3030: Normalcy for Youth in Foster Care 


 

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EVENTS CENTRAL

 

generic calendar graphic Thursday, December 5, 2024, 5-7 p.m. Healthy Holidays: Snacks & Sides: An Independent Living workshop for youth ages 14 and older in Fairfax County Foster Care or Fostering Futures. Join us as we learn about healthy cooking skills while making delicious snacks and sides! Dinner and prizes for all who participate! Contact us to register in advance!


Department of Family Services graphic logoThe Department of Family Services supports families and county residents of all ages and stages of life – and that definitely includes foster parents and families! Like and Follow @FairfaxCountyFamilyServices for news, events, tips, stories, training opportunities and more.

SUPPORT GROUPS

 

A variety of organizations offer support to adoptive, foster, and kinship care families in our region. Register online for a preferred support group. 

Thursday, Dec. 5, 6:30-8 p.m. – Formed Families Forward Virtual Fairfax Kinship Support Group for caregivers to safely share their experiences, concerns, and frustrations with their peers. In partnership with Fairfax County Government.

December Support Groups – Holiday Parties hosted by Foster the Family D.C.
Holiday Support Group parties for foster, adoptive, and kinship care moms are here! Join this time of community and holiday cheer. Please note that childcare is only available at the Montgomery Support Group Party and will be limited to single moms. 
•    Monday, Dec. 9: Manassas Support Group Holiday Party at Olive Garden 
•    Monday, Dec. 9: Fairfax Support Group Holiday Party, 
•    Monday, Dec. 9: Montgomery Support Group Holiday Party, 

Wednesday, Dec. 18, 7-8:30 p.m. – Formed Families Forward in-Person Peer Support Groups for foster, adoptive, and kinship families.

 

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Each newsletter will include this section to help answer questions, spotlight the people who support foster families, highlight the donors and sponsors who generously give to foster care programs and activities and friendly reminders for foster families to sign-up for trainings.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

 

question marksWhat are the expectations between the Department and Foster parents regarding communication and response time? 

Answer: Foster parents can expect a response from our specialists within 1 business day, but no more than 2 days. Please contact the supervisor if you, the foster parent, do not receive a response within this time frame. If you do not hear from the supervisor within 2 business days, please contact the case carrying program manager, Kamonya Omatete, at 703-324-7652. If you have questions regarding the resource specialists, contact Julie Bowman Resource & Support program manager at 703-324-7131.


Check out other frequently asked questions and answers from past issues.

Foster Care Facts That Might Surprise You

There are a lot of misconceptions about foster care, foster parents, and the children and families involved. This section aims to dispel some of those notions and provide clarity for those interested in supporting foster care.

Fact: Homeownership is not required to be a foster parent.

Explanation: Foster parents can either own or rent. The home must have adequate bedroom space for the children. Each child must have their own bed. 

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TRAININGS AND CONFERENCES

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For Parents/Caregivers

Staying Safe and Calm Over Winter Break and Beyond workshop hosted by Formed Families Forward
Monday, Dec. 16, 2024
Choose either session:
11:45 a.m.-1 p.m. 
Or
6:45-8 p.m.
901 Wythe St
Alexandria, VA 22314

Get new strategies for managing the winter break and for starting the new year strong! This training for parents and caregivers is designed to boost family safety and wellness as you prepare for all of the excitement and disruptions of your children’s winter break from school and their expectations for holiday celebrations. Meal provided. Register online.

Training for Fairfax County licensed Foster Parents

Cultivate Connection, an In-Service Training Opportunity influenced by ARC Reflections 
Wednesday, Dec. 18
6:30 – 8:30 p.m. 
Virtual via Microsoft Teams 

Foster and kin parents are invited to learn to help children regulate emotions, feel connected, and build strengths. RSVP by Monday, Dec. 9, 2024, to Emily Thomas. Future dates and topics in this series will be offered the third Wednesday of each month. Attendance at all sessions is strongly encouraged but not required.

Opioid Overdose and Naloxone Education (REVIVE! Kit Training).
Tuesday, Jan. 21, 2025
7-8 p.m.
Virtual training via Teams.

Fairfax County foster parents are invited to attend a special training provided by the Community Services Board. Learn how to recognize the signs and symptoms of an opioid overdose, how to administer naloxone nasal spray to potentially reverse the effects of an opioid overdose, and what to do and not do when responding. Be on the lookout for a flyer with more details in your email. Register online by Friday, Jan. 17. The CSB also offers general virtual REVIVE! trainings. Visit their website for the available dates.

Foster to Adopt Training
Wednesdays, Feb. 5 and 12, 6:30-9 p.m. 
(You must attend both sessions)
Virtual Via MS Teams

Come learn about the transition from fostering to adopting and meet other families considering the same process. The training will cover issues such as transracial adoption and cultural sensitivity; the impact of adoption on child development; ongoing birth family and sibling contact; Adoption Assistance and resources. There will be a panel discussion during the second session. RSVP to Emily Thomas by Friday, Jan. 31.

Foster Parent College Online Training
Foster Parent College offers training on a variety of key topics. Newly approved and seasoned foster parents can build new skills or reinforce information acquired from New Generation PRIDE. FPC is self-paced and can be accessed online from anywhere at your convenience 24/7. All classes are free to approved foster parents with Fairfax County. You may choose to take any class you believe will be helpful for your own personal growth and development. This month’s featured training is Supporting Normalcy (Also available in Spanish). Read more.


If you have questions or need additional support, please reach out to one of the in-service trainers; Emily Thomas. You may also contact FPC at 541-343-6636 or toll free at 1-800-777-6636, (PT) for technical difficulties. As always, once a class is completed, please email the certificate to Emily Thomas.

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