(Posted 2025 November)
Amidst crisp fall air and turning leaves, Fairfax County’s BeFriend-A-Child mentoring pairs got a treat — a day out at Cox Farms. On a sunny weekend in October, mentors and mentees spent an autumn afternoon exploring hayrides, pumpkin patches, farm animals, and seasonal games. They made memories and strengthened connections in a relaxed, carefree setting.
BeFriend-A-Child Builds Supportive Relationships
For over 40 years, the BeFriend-A-Child Program has served vulnerable youth (ages 5–12) in Fairfax County, offering one-on-one mentorship to children who are at risk of or who may have experienced abuse or neglect. The program’s goal is to reduce risk factors like social isolation and family stress, and boost protective factors, including self-esteem, social skills, and supportive relationships.
A key part of the program is the group outings held every other month, such as cooking together, going on hikes, learning how to skate, and holiday celebrations. These outings give mentors, mentees, and their families a chance to connect in fun, relaxed environments.
Highlights from the Cox Farms trip included:
- Exploring together: Mentors and mentees wandered through pumpkin patches, rode on hay wagons, visited farm animals, and enjoyed fall-themed slides galore. The setting provided natural opportunities for conversation, laughter, and building trust.
- Quality time outside the norm to strengthen relationships: Away from routine pressures or expectations, the day allowed mentors and children to see new sides of each other. Whether searching for the perfect pumpkin, competing in a friendly activity, or simply sharing snacks, the trip helped mentors and mentees to open up, connect more naturally and foster deeper bonds.
- Building community: When families, volunteers, and staff interact outside of formal program settings, trust and mutual understanding grow.
- Creating lasting memories: These kinds of experiences are often remembered long after school, tutoring, or case meetings are over. They help children feel valued, seen, and part of something joyful.
Looking forward
Cox Farms is just one of many enriching experiences BeFriend-A-Child organizes throughout the year. Upcoming events include a holiday celebration, bowling, a family picnic and a trip to Kings Dominion. Each of these outings is designed to expose mentees to new experiences and build community through supportive, fun experiences.
If you’re interested in volunteering as a mentor, or want to learn more about future outings, training, and support, check online or email the BeFriend-A-Child coordinators to attend our next training on Saturday, November 8.
This article posting is part of The Volunteer Post Newsletter for current and potential volunteers, sponsors and donors interested in supporting children and families in crisis. Learn more about Fairfax County Department of Family Services' Volunteer & Partner Services Program (VPS).