Article from Domestic and Sexual Violence Services, Department of Family Services
(Posted 2021 December)
Most people look forward to seasonal change–especially fall. But for some, fall’s shorter days and the impending cold of winter brings feelings of isolation, lower energy, and depression. There may also be greater risks for those experiencing interpersonal violence (IPV) at home or from caregivers.
Although Domestic Violence Awareness Month was in October, it’s important to raise awareness year-round, particularly during the holidays. IPV affects millions of women and men, of every race, religion, culture, age, and income level. It’s not just physical abuse. IPV can also be yelling, humiliation, stalking, manipulation, coercion, threats, and isolation.
Unfortunately, an often-forgotten population affected by IPV is seniors.
Older individuals face unique challenges when IPV happens to them and are often at a greater risk of harm. While every person’s experience with IPV is different, seniors in abusive relationships experience unique challenges when seeking help. Many older adults do not report domestic violence for several reasons. They may be dependent on the person causing them harm to supply basic needs, such as housing, food, or care. They may also be embarrassed or confused about their situation. They may even be isolated and have difficulty leaving the home to seek help.
Signs of Domestic Violence in Older Adults
The first step in helping an older adult seek help is to recognize the signs and patterns of IPV. If you suspect something is going on, look for these five indications of potential IPV:
Unexplained bruises or other injuries.
Withdrawal from enjoyed activities, sudden changes in alertness, or unusual depression.
Abrupt changes in financial situation.
Poor hygiene, bedsores, unusual weight loss, or unattended medical needs.
Belittling, threats, or frequent arguments with a caregiver.
What You Can Do to Help
If you’ve noticed a senior in your life may be the victim of IPV, or you are experiencing IPV, there are steps you can take. If danger is immediate, call 9-1-1.
Otherwise call the Domestic and Sexual Violence 24-Hour Hotline at 703-360-7273; TTY 711. Staff and volunteers are trained to provide information and resources that can help make choices right for you.
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