Department of Family Services – Domestic and Sexual Violence Services

CONTACT INFORMATION: Monday–Friday 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
703-324-5730 TTY 711
12011 Government Center Parkway, Pennino Building, Floor 7, Suite 740
Fairfax, VA 22035
Toni Zollicoffer
Director

Volunteer Voices – 2023 October

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Welcome to the 2023 October issue of Volunteer Voices, a monthly newsletter for current and potential Domestic and Sexual Violence Services (DSVS) volunteers.

In this Issue:

Table of Contents
  • Notes from the Staff
  • Self-Care Corner: Giving Back as Self-Care
  • Visit the Venture into Volunteering Fair
  • TED Talk: Battered Not Broken: The Journey of Redemption after Abuse
  • Quotables
  • Program Spotlight: HYPEing up Healthy Relationships
  • Join the Conversations!
  • Reviews: “I Am a Stalker”
  • Raising My Voice: Meet Maria Sayrs, Hotline Volunteer
  • Birthdays
  • Test Your Brain
  • Educational Resources
  • Make a Note!
  • Parting Shot

 

Notes from Staff

photo of Claudia BejaranoMy name is Claudia Bejarano. I am the new intake coordinator with DSVS Clinical Services. I help support both the Adapt and Counseling programs by serving as a liaison between community members and counselors. Some of my duties include providing program information, managing client referrals, managing client waitlists, screening clients for services, scheduling clients for intake appointments, and providing clients with emotional support and community resources when needed.

My passion for working with survivors of domestic violence, human trafficking, stalking, and sexual violence started when I was completing an internship with Artemis House in 2017. There, I had the opportunity to learn about the dynamics of abuse and work closely with survivors through their healing journeys. After completing my internship, I accepted a part-time position with the agency as a residential coordinator. In 2021, I accepted a position with the City of Alexandria Domestic Violence Program as a Family Service Specialist. There I had the opportunity to grow my skillset as a community and court advocate and engage in youth prevention services.

To me, volunteers are crucial to our organization because they extend the organization’s reach and amplify our ability to provide essential services and resources to survivors. Volunteers help bridge the gaps with their unique skillsets, dedication, and passion. I admire volunteers’ unwavering commitment to raise awareness, drive for societal change, and appreciate the fresh perspectives and ideas they bring to help improve service delivery.

Claudia Bejarano
Intake Coordinator
Clinical Services

 

Self-Care Corner: Giving Back as Self-Care

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The most powerful tool in our self-care toolbox is caring for others. We just need to expand our definition of self-care. Creating a healthy self-care routine includes making time to care for others. Learn more about this practice.

 

 

 

Visit the Venture into Volunteering Fair

venture into volunteer fair graphic Don’t miss the Venture into Volunteering Fair on the lower level of the Springfield Town Center Sunday, Oct. 15, 2023, Noon-4 p.m. Representatives from county and nonprofit organizations will be there to share information about a wide variety of volunteer opportunities throughout the region. DSVS will be there, and we would love to say, “Hi,” and answer any questions you may have. Please tell others about this event. This fair will take place in conjunction with the Beacon 50+ Expo, which will be located on the upper level. There will be a wide array of information on local resources, as well as an opportunity to get health screenings, flu shots, and vaccines. Both events are free and there will be giveaways and door prizes.

 

TED Talk: Battered Not Broken: The Journey of Redemption after Abuse

photo of Marica PhippsMarica Phipps, founder of Battered Not Broken, Inc., is a survivor of domestic abuse. Through her experience, her faith and patience were tested many times as she navigated through layers of the judicial system; she overcame her internal struggles and supported the healing process of her children’s journeys. Through this TED Talk, she addresses the societal perception that abuse is a random, uncontrolled act where the person has no control over their violent behavior. Trigger warning: Some images are graphic.

 

 

Quotables

hand and flowers drawing“Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give.” – Eleanor Roosevelt

 

 

 

 


Each newsletter will include this section to help share reviews, spotlight the people who support Domestic and Sexual Violence Services, recognize birthdays and list upcoming trainings and meetings.

 

Program Spotlight: HYPEing up Healthy Relationships

two teenagers datingThe Healthy Youth Prevention Education (HYPE) project is a youth-focused, 8-session curriculum that teaches participants about intimate partner violence and sexual assault prevention. Through hands-on activities, multimedia, role-play exercises and facilitated discussions, teens will have opportunities to examine various elements of relationships and develop skills to identify and replicate healthy dynamics in interpersonal interactions. Topics are also available as standalone workshops. Learn more about the HYPE Project.

Unscripted

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Join the Conversations!

Domestic and Sexual Violence Services has a new podcast, Unscripted: Conversations about Sexual and Domestic Violence. Stay in the know with these biweekly discussions!

 

 

 

Reviews

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“I Am a Stalker”

“I Am a Stalker,” a British Netflix true crime directed by Alex Nikolic-Dunlop, is an eight-episode docuseries, with each self-contained episode focused on a specific incident where victims and those convicted of stalking share their version of events. These stories range from relationships with romantic partners to those between best friends, neighbors, and people stalking previous spouses.

In nearly every episode, those convicted of stalking didn’t seem to hold themselves accountable for what they did. Many didn’t believe they had stalked their victims; some appeared angry in their storytelling, and the pain they caused was not acknowledged. Some of the people who stalked, now serving jail sentences, appear eager to rejoin the world specifically so they can track down their victims and cause them harm.

According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, 1 in 7 women and 1 in 18 men experience stalking by an intimate partner in their lifetime. Stalking is a crime that is often difficult to prove and, as a result, misunderstood, ignored, or flat out not believed. "I Am a Stalker" highlights the commonality of stalking. As DSVS endeavors to elevate stalking, and we all become more informed about this crime, this docuseries is an eye-opener to the minds of those who have committed these crimes and the residual impact they left with their victims.

This review was written by Tanisha Cox, volunteer manager in DSVS.
 

Raising My Voice

megaphone with flowerMeet Maria Sayrs, Hotline Volunteer

“The Latino community needs more support and information,” says Maria Sayrs, Domestic and Sexual Violence Services hotline volunteer. “I believe that as a volunteer, I am able to support my community more.” Learn more about Maria’s story.

 

Birthdays

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Bolivia Bustamante, 3
Karen Stokes Lockhart, 5
Shawn Desai, 9
Ni Hsieh, 11
Amber Gonzalez, 12
Allison Pickmans, 17
Norma Williamson, 20
Nancy Lee, 25
Dipti Maniar, 25
 

Test Your Brain

Have you been banned from word games at family functions? Show off your word nerd skills on this Hourglass brain teaser.

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Educational Resources

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Tier One
Tuesdays and Thursday, Oct. 3-Nov. 2, 2023

4-6 p.m.
Virtual

Tier One is an 18-hour training on the dynamics of domestic violence, the systems that respond to those experiencing violence, and available resources in our community. The training is designed for professionals interested in learning the dynamics of domestic violence to deepen their work with clients and community members, and anyone interested in volunteering with Domestic and Sexual Violence Services. Please note that you must attend all nine 2-hour sessions to receive a certificate of completion. This training is free, but registration is required.


Library Domestic Violence Awareness Month Event: Meet Author Rachel Louise Snyder
Saturday, Oct. 21, 2023

11 a.m.-12:30 p.m.
Virtual

Journalist Rachel Louise Snyder provides crucial context for what we don't know we're seeing. As she lays out in her award-winning book No Visible Bruises, the scale of domestic violence in our country is obscured by commonly-held myths: that if things were bad enough, victims would just leave; that a violent person cannot become nonviolent; that shelter is an adequate response; and most insidiously that violence inside the home is a private matter, sealed from the public sphere and disconnected from other forms of violence. Joe Meyer, executive director & CEO of Shelter House, Toni Zollicoffer, division director of Domestic and Sexual Violence Services, and other experts will discuss local resources available for those experiencing domestic violence. This event is free, but registration is required.

 

Make a Note!

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Please take a moment to log on to your Volunteer Management System (VMS) account and log your hours for the month of September. Please also log any time you spent on training under “volunteer training.” If you do not see this selection under your opportunities, please email Tanisha Cox, and she will log on to add it to your account. Please enter your hours for each day you volunteered and not as a lump sum. If you need to log hours for a previous month, please email Tanisha Cox to let her know so she can be aware of the entry and expedite the approval process. 

  • Please enter your hours for each day you volunteered and not as a lump sum.

  • If you need to log hours for a previous month, please email Tanisha Cox to let her know so she can be aware of the entry and expedite the approval process.

 

Parting Shot

 back to school booth setupAs summer vacation drew to a close, DSVS volunteers helped get kids ready for the new school year at several back-to-school events around the county. In this photo, volunteers Rizwann Groover and Seth Woehrle table at the Lorton event.

 

 


 


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