Department of Family Services – Domestic and Sexual Violence Services

Fairfax County, Virginia

CONTACT INFORMATION: Monday–Friday 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

TTY 711

12011 Government Center Parkway, Pennino Building, Floor 7, Suite 740
Fairfax, VA 22035

Toni Zollicoffer,

Awareness About Domestic and Sexual Violence

Transform the Norm

This is an important time to be aware of healthy relationships. Given the continuous major changes the community and agencies are facing, we're focusing on positive transformation and coping with change.

The 2021 theme is Transform the Norm. This speaks to how the “norm” will be changed post-COVID-19 and how our communities can adjust, while also uplifting a positive interpretation of shifting away from unhealthy societal norms around intimate partner violence, sexual violence, human trafficking, teen dating violence, strangulation and stalking.

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Domestic and Sexual Violence Services provides a variety of trainings throughout 2021. Mark your calendar for these free trainings.

Participate in a Variety of Trainings

Sexual Violence Learning Series

Transform the Norm DSVS 2021 Sexual Violence Learning SeriesDomestic and Sexual Violence Services presents a year-long sexual violence learning series to expand knowledge about all aspects of sexual violence. All sessions are free, but registration is required.

Friday, July 16 Reproductive and Sexual Coercion
10 a.m.-Noon
Participants will learn about reproductive and sexual coercion using a reproductive justice framework, an intersectional approach created by SisterSong that treats reproductive health in a holistic way. The presenter will discuss how local partners can collaborate; how to improve providers’ procedures regarding clients’ sexual activity and sexual health; and how to better identify and support survivors. Register now.  

Wednesday, Aug. 4 Incarcerated Victims of Sexual Violence
9-11 a.m.
Incarcerated individuals face much higher rates of sexual violence and are also disproportionately likely to have been sexually abused before incarceration. Just Detention International will explain the incidence and dynamics of sexual abuse in detention and provide guidance on addressing the impact of sexual violence on incarcerated survivors, including the Prison Rape Elimination Act (PREA) standards. JDI will also discuss how to challenge cultural assumptions about sexual violence in detention so “rape is not part of the penalty.” Register now

Monday, Nov. 15 Sexual Harassment
10 a.m.-Noon
Sexual harassment can include a wide range of unwelcome behavior of a sexual nature, and can occur in a workplace, learning or housing situation. The speaker will address how to be aware of and respond to sexual harassment, whether you are a victim, witness or advocate. This presentation will enable participants to raise awareness and decrease tolerance for sexual harassment. Register now

Economic Advocacy

Personal safety and economic security are inextricably linked for victims of domestic violence. Research from the Centers for Financial Security shows financial abuse is present in 99% of domestic violence cases. Join Domestic and Sexual Violence Services as they present the Allstate Foundation’s Moving Ahead Curriculum to help trainers learn how to support domestic violence survivors as they get their financial lives in order. This training is free, but registration is required.

Tuesday, Oct. 12 Working with Domestic Violence Survivors on Their Financial Safety
2:30-4:30 p.m. 
This workshop will share how to help domestic violence survivors question the messages and implicit lessons they have learned from society and abusers about financial relationships and decisions. Participants will learn how financial abuse impacts survivors and how to work with them on financial fundamentals such as budgeting, credit and long-term planning, using the Allstate Foundation's Moving Ahead Curriculum. Participants will also learn about local resources available to help survivors with other economic issues, including housing and employment. Register now.

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Domestic and Sexual Violence Services provides select education and outreach materials to increase knowledge that helps create a future with positive relationships and safer communities.

Access Education and Outreach Materials

different books with multiple color bindingCounty Conversation Podcast: Sexual Violence Learning Series
In an effort to raise awareness about all aspects of gender-based violence, Domestic and Sexual Violence Services is hosting a year-long Sexual Violence Learning Series. Find out more on the County Conversation podcast where host Jim Person chatted with Michelle Mueller, Countywide Human Trafficking and Sexual Violence Coordinator.

Quiz – Sexual Assault
How much do you know about sexual assault? There is a lot of misinformation out there about sexual assault, including what it is, who it affects and myths about perpetrators. Take this short quiz to test your knowledge.

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See how Fairfax County and Domestic and Sexual Violence Services acknowledges the work the division does to raise awareness and transform the norm through a series of events.

Participate in Events and Activities

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Take this quiz to learn about sexual assault.

May 2021 Teen Dating Violence Art Contest and Talent Showcase

Submissions by Friday, May 21

  • Teen Dating Violence Awareness Art Contest flyer graphicFairfax County teens, help shine a spotlight on Teen Dating Violence. Use your creativity to promote this year’s awareness theme: Transform the Norm. 
  • Teens ages 12-19 are invited to submit paintings, sculptures, posters and short films to community centers or teen centers by Friday, May 21. Performance audition videos should be submitted by the same date.

Teen Talent Showcase on Friday, June 4

  • Come to a night of art and performance celebrating a positive interpretation of shifting away from unhealthy societal norms around teen dating violence.

Get more information by contacting Helen McDonald, Shanise Allen or Solomon Melson.

Orange Out! flyer graphicWednesday, June 2 is Orange Out!

Wear orange to make sure people know dating violence is never the norm. Everyone deserves to feel safe in their relationships.

Email your Orange Out! photos to Helen McDonald. Photos may be shared online.

#FairfaxCountyFamilyServices #TransformTheNorm #OrangeOut


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Learn about Domestic Violence Awareness Month in October and what you can do year-round.

#FairfaxCountyFamilyServices #DomesticViolenceAwarenessMonth #DVAM 

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