Department of Family Services – Domestic and Sexual Violence Services

Fairfax County, Virginia

CONTACT INFORMATION: Monday–Friday 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

TTY 711

12011 Government Center Parkway, Pennino Building, Floor 7, Suite 740
Fairfax, VA 22035

Toni Zollicoffer,

February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month

February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month banner graphic

Teen dating violence is a pattern of harmful and destructive behaviors used to exert power and control over a dating partner. It usually involves a series of abusive behaviors where one partner has more control or dominance over another. Many teens experience some form of intimate partner violence even before graduating from high school.

The purpose of Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month is to raise public awareness about the impact of dating violence on youth, educate young people about healthy relationships, and encourage the community to get involved to disrupt cycles of violence among teens. 


5 Ways for Teens to Be a Healthy Bystander

By building teens' abilities to identify and respond to unhealthy relationships, we can encourage our young people to interrupt the cycle of violence through bystander intervention. Let's ensure people know dating violence is never tolerated, everyone deserves to feel safe in their relationships, and everyone knows how to act when they observe unhealthy behaviors.

  1. Speak out against statements, attitudes, or behavior that may perpetuate a culture endorsing violence as acceptable or inevitable.
  2. Name and stop situations that could lead to assault or violence. 
  3. Step in during a high-risk incident, whether by disruption, distraction, speaking up or calling for help so others can step in.
  4. Support and believe others when they feel uncomfortable or hurt.
  5. Help others respond to problematic situations.

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Have questions or need help?

  • Domestic and Sexual Violence 24-Hour Hotline 703-360-7273
  • Domestic Violence Action Center 703-246-4573 
  • Domestic and Sexual Violence Services Main Office 703-324-5730 
  • If the threat is immediate, call 911.

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