Department of Family Services – Domestic and Sexual Violence Services

CONTACT INFORMATION: Monday–Friday 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
703-324-5730 TTY 711
12011 Government Center Parkway, Pennino Building, Floor 7, Suite 740
Fairfax, VA 22035
Keesha Coke
Director

Volunteer Voices – Current Issue

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Welcome to the 2025 October issue of Volunteer Voices, a monthly newsletter for current and potential Domestic and Sexual Violence Services (DSVS) volunteers.

In this Issue:

Table of Contents
  • Notes from the Staff
  • Self-Care Corner
  • Domestic Violence Awareness Month
  • DVAM Community Quilt Project
  • The Video Vault
  • Quotables 
  • Program Spotlight: Volunteer Community Partnership Network Provides Space for All Family Services Volunteers
  • Join the Conversations! 
  • Raising My Voice: Lynne Shapiro, Hotline Volunteer
  • Reviews: Netflix’s “Adolescence” Episode 1
  • VV FAQs
  • Birthdays
  • Fascinating Facts 
  • Test Your Brain
  • Events and Educational Resources
  • Make a Note!
  • Parting Shot 

 

Notes from Staff

Simrat GrewalHello! My name is Simrat Grewal, and I recently joined Domestic and Sexual Violence Services (DSVS) as a management analyst. I am excited to contribute to the important work that supports DSVS’ mission through data collection, analysis, and reporting. Before joining Fairfax County, I worked in childcare for several years, which strengthened my ability to listen, adapt, and connect with people–skills that continue to serve me well in my current position.

My passion for the analysis field began during my internship with the Fairfax County Police Department, where I learned the essential functions of crime analysts and saw firsthand how their work informs decision-making and improves community safety. I also had the opportunity to shadow various specialty units, including Child Exploitation, Sex Crimes, and Domestic Violence. The most impactful part of my internship was the time I spent with a Victim Services Advocate. Seeing the compassion, dedication, and resilience required to support survivors highlighted the human side of the justice system and reinforced my commitment to pursue a career where data analysis can drive meaningful, people-centered change. That experience inspired me to deepen my understanding and pursue a master’s degree in criminal justice, with a concentration in data analysis.

I’ve had the pleasure of meeting some of the dedicated volunteers at DSVS, and it’s clear their compassion and commitment play a vital role in supporting our mission and serving the community. Thank you for all you do!

Outside of work, I enjoy running, hiking, and discovering new food/coffee spots–recommendations are always welcome! I believe balance is important, and exploring nature is one of the best ways to recharge.

I’m grateful to be part of such an important mission and look forward to working alongside you all!

Simrat Grewal
Management Analyst I

Self-Care Corner

Audre LordeWhen we center our own care, we show up whole, grounded, and restored to be able to support survivors. Or as the late writer and poet Audre Lorde said: “Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.”

 

 

 

October Is Domestic Violence Awareness Month

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month Domestic violence is a family, community, and public health issue with widespread ripple effects that impact all parts of our community. It will take all of us to build a peaceful and safe Fairfax County. Get more information about this form of interpersonal violence and the ways in which Domestic and Sexual Violence Services observes DVAM. And find out how you can help raise awareness about domestic violence through social media.

 


 

DVAM Community Quilt Project

DVAM Community Quilt ProjectQuilting and art have long been integral to the movement to end sexual and domestic violence. Fairfax County Domestic and Sexual Violence Services is collecting quilt blocks created by the community with the theme of Crafting Healthy Relationships. The finished quilt will be displayed in Fairfax County Public Libraries in 2026. Find out how to host your own event or join one in the community.

 

The Video Vault

woman on stageThis month is Domestic Violence Awareness Month; it’s an important time where staff and volunteers within DSVS and the broader Fairfax County community work extensively to spread awareness and participate in additional prevention programming. See these talks about domestic violence and why all individuals need to unite to speak up to address the issue: The Power of Speaking Up about Domestic Abuse; Jackson Katz: Violence Against Women—It's a Men's Issue

The DSVS vision to create peaceful, thriving, powerful communities where all people are safe and free from oppression, fear, and violence is a lofty goal–and we cannot do it alone! That is why awareness months are so important. Watch this talk about the importance of community in achieving goals: The Power of Community to Help You Achieve Your Goals.

 

Quotables

lorax character“Oh the wonderful way you’ll feel, you hear? If you just go out and volunteer … A bird … a worm … a guzzle-bivvit, could all use some help if you’ll just give it. You might say, ‘No! Not I! No way! I’ve nothing to give—not today anyway.’ But you’ll see if you look deep inside of you, you’ve lots to give! It’s true! You do!” – Dr. Seuss



 

 

 

Program Spotlight

Volunteer Community Partnership Network Provides Space for All Family Services Volunteers

diverse handsThe Department of Family Services Volunteer and Community Partnership Network, or VCPN, is in its tenth year of existence. The network brings together all DFS division volunteer coordinators to better manage the disparate volunteer programs in the agency, as well as provide support for each other. Recently Volunteer Voices sat down with Nadia Hoonan, Volunteer Solutions partnership coordinator and VCPN co-chair, to talk about how the network operates. This is an excerpt from that conversation.


Each newsletter will include this section to help share reviews, spotlight the people who support Domestic and Sexual Violence Services, recognize birthdays and list upcoming trainings and meetings.

 

Join the Conversations!

UnscriptedDomestic and Sexual Violence Services’ podcast, Unscripted: Conversations about Sexual and Domestic Violence, is real talk on tough topics! Stay in the know with these biweekly discussions. If you have ideas for topics you’d like to hear addressed on Unscripted, email them to DSVS’ communications specialist Kendra Lee.

Raising My Voice

Meet Lynne Shapiro, Hotline Volunteer

black and brown headset near laptop“In the past five years, due to news stories and the media in general, domestic violence has become a focus. I came to the realization that being safe in home and work environments was nothing to take for granted and was bothered by the fact that so many people did not have that basic comfort,” says Hotline volunteer Lynne Shapiro. “As I was searching one day on the Fairfax County volunteer website, I came upon the DSVS opportunities. It immediately lit up for me as something I needed to look into.” Read more.

 

 

Reviews

Netflix’s “Adolescence” Episode 1

adolescence netflix owen cooperAdolescence is a Netflix limited series focused on the murder of a young girl, Katie, in Liverpool, England, where the prime suspect is one of her classmates, a 13-year-old boy, Jamie. The series explores themes of gender, innocence, culture, and violence. This is part one of a four-part media review where we will dive into each episode’s commentary around violent culture, how it intersects with gender, and how gender-based violence affects a community.

Episode one describes Day 1 following the murder of Katie. It focuses on the arrest of Jamie and the first 24 hours he is detained by police.

The show is based in Liverpool, a northern city in England most famous for being the birthplace of the Beatles. It is also a city with a strong working-class culture with a reputation for history, culture, and industrialization – but also significant crime rates, low-income levels, and historical marginalization by wealthier southern cities and lawmakers in London. If you are familiar with UK accents, you will notice right away that Jamie and his family have thick Liverpool accents, a sign of a working-class family that has likely been in the city for generations. In this context, that social class is important.

The first 10 minutes of the episode depict Jamie’s innocence--not necessarily in relation to the crime. Jamie is small and thin, with no signs of stubble; simply put, he looks like a child. When police first accost Jamie, he is so frightened he urinates in his clothes, and this representation of youth and innocence persists. Jamie behaves like one would expect any child to: He cries throughout the episode, reasserts his innocence, has difficulty understanding legal processes, and continuously asks for his father.

The viewer is shown security camera footage which clearly depicts Jamie attacking Katie at the time of the murder in a parking garage and is compelled to believe Jamie has committed the murder. This juxtaposition between Jamie’s youthful portrayal and the undeniable evidence is disturbing, and it will be interesting to see how this plays out through the rest of the series and through his character development.

Another theme introduced in Episode 1 is the effect of the situation on Jamie’s family. They are traumatized by the initial interaction with police, where their door was broken down and Jamie is taken into custody. The shots frequently focus closely on the father’s face during stressful situations within the legal process, clearly highlighting his stress, doubt, and fear. This effect on the wider individuals will be explored in more depth in coming episodes.

After watching only the first episode, I can already see the connections of this topic to our work, including the objectification of women, the way young boys communicate, and how these may contribute to the “Rape Culture Pyramid” discussed in Sexual Violence Tier One training. I am looking forward to exploring this show and how these ideas intersect with gender-based violence.

This review was written by Volunteer Manager Caroline Croghan.

 

VV FAQs

map of fairfax countyOver 29,000 dedicated volunteers engage in volunteering for Fairfax County, contributing an estimated value of at least $14.4 million annually!

 

 

 

 

 

Birthdays

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Happy birthday, October volunteers!

  • Shawn Desai, 10/9
  • Caitlin Bowdler, 10/13
  • Dipti Maniar, 10/25
  • Sophie Truax, 10/27
  • Amal Gohar, 10/29
  • Amy Talley, 10/31

 

Fascinating Facts

purple awareness ribbonDomestic Violence Awareness Month was first observed in 1981. Read more about the history of domestic violence as well as the intersection of domestic violence and other public services in this 2019 Newsletter published by the VA Department of Criminal Justice Services.

 

 

Test Your Brain

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Events and Educational Resources

Building Healthy Relationships with Boundaries
Thursday, Oct. 23, 2025 
3-4:15 p.m.

This webinar will explore the importance of setting and maintaining healthy boundaries in both personal and professional relationships. It will provide practical strategies for recognizing when boundaries are being pushed, understanding why boundaries are essential for emotional well-being, and how to assert them effectively. The webinar will also address common challenges such as dealing with difficult people, accepting responsibility when you are the problem, and handling boundary violations without taking them personally. At the end of the webinar, participants will gain the tools and confidence to redefine and protect their boundaries, leading to more balanced and fulfilling interactions. This webinar is free, but registration is required. It counts toward volunteer continued education hours.


Volunteer Orientations
Thinking about becoming a DSVS volunteer? Get more information at a new volunteer orientation. Registration is free but required.

2025

  • Tuesday, October 28: 6–7:30 p.m.
  • Monday, November 17: 11:30 a.m.-1 p.m.
  • Wednesday, December 10: Noon-1:30 p.m.
  • Wednesday, December 10: 6-7:30 p.m.

2026

  • Monday, January 5: Noon-1:30 p.m.
  • Wednesday, January 7: 6-7:30 p.m.

 

Make a Note!

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Please take a moment to log on to your Volunteer Management System (VMS) account and log your hours for the month of September. Please also log any time you spent on training under “volunteer training.” If you do not see this selection under your opportunities, please email Caroline Croghan, and she will log on to add it to your account.  

Please enter your hours for each day you volunteered and not as a lump sum. If you need to log hours for a previous month, please email Caroline Croghan to let her know so she can be aware of the entry and expedite the approval process.

 

Parting Shot

photo of Tarun RameshPreparation for our Tier 1 trainings would be a lot more difficult without the help of our administrative volunteers. Here, Tarun Ramesh puts together Sexual Violence Tier 1 packets.

 

 


 

 

DSVS Wants You!

Interested in becoming a volunteer? Contact Caroline Croghan.


Check out past issues of Volunteer Voices.

 

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