Department of Family Services – Domestic and Sexual Violence Services

CONTACT INFORMATION: Monday–Friday 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
703-324-5730 TTY 711
12011 Government Center Parkway, Pennino Building, Floor 7, Suite 740
Fairfax, VA 22035
Keesha Coke
Director

Volunteer Voices – Current Issue

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Welcome to the 2025 September issue of Volunteer Voices, a monthly newsletter for current and potential Domestic and Sexual Violence Services (DSVS) volunteers.

In this Issue:

Table of Contents
  • Notes from the Staff
  • Self-Care Corner: Fall into Self-Care
  • Ted Talk: Labor in Our Context: Labor Day and Human Trafficking 
  • Hispanic Heritage Month
  • Quotables 
  • Partner Spotlight: HACAN
  • Join the Conversations! 
  • Reviews: Hulu’s Call Me Alex
  • VV FAQs
  • Birthdays
  • Fascinating Facts 
  • Test Your Brain
  • Events and Educational Resources
  • Make a Note!
  • Parting Shot 

 

Notes from Staff

Margarita HernandezHi everyone!

My name is Margarita Hernandez and I am a clinical counselor on the Anger and Domestic Abuse Prevention and Treatment (ADAPT) team. I recently obtained my master’s in social work from George Mason University. During graduate school, I completed two internships with the Department of Family Services—one with Child Protective Services and the other with Domestic and Sexual Violence Services (DSVS).

Both experiences played a key role in my development as a clinician. I came into graduate school with experience as a rapid re-housing case manager for individuals fleeing domestic and sexual violence, and my internships helped deepen my knowledge and expand my skillset. They gave me meaningful opportunities to serve the community in new and impactful ways.

Interning with DSVS was truly an enriching experience. The team was not only kind and generous but also genuinely empowering. From the beginning, they made me feel like a valued part of the team and actively invited my input on various topics—including thoughtful conversations about redefining the mission statement and developing goals for the program. As an intern, I hadn’t expected to be included in those kinds of discussions, so being part of them was both surprising and deeply rewarding.

I encourage you, as volunteers, to seek opportunities to connect with employees in the departments that interest you. We’re here to support you and help you grow both personally and professionally. Your goals and ideas matter to us. If you have any suggestions or see ways the county can improve, please don’t hesitate to share them with us. We want to hear from you!

With gratitude,
Margarita

Self-Care Corner: Fall into Self-Care

person wearing gray socks standing on stairsAh, fall—that season where you have permission to slow down and indulge yourself. The shorter, cooler days give way to cozy rituals that focus on pampering you. And September invites opportunity for realignment and growth. This can include setting new intentions for the season, preparing for the upcoming holidays, reconnecting with your daily routine, and building different daily habits. Check out these 10 activities to prioritize emotional well-being as the seasons change.

 

 

 

TED Talk: Labor in Our Context: Labor Day and Human Trafficking

Labor DayThe first Monday in September is Labor Day, which became a federal holiday in 1894 during the Industrial Revolution. A time of huge technological advances, the Industrial Revolution was also a time of significant worker exploitation. Workers, including children, were often forced to work 12-hour days at incredibly low wages. Unions came together and fought for labor rights. This movement is what we have to thank for the modern five-day workweek and standard weekend, minimum wage, and protections for children in the workplace. 

Unfortunately, not all of us are able to experience our full right to work without fear of exploitation or coercion. While the Labor Movement’s achievements have been enshrined in law, there are still many people whose labor is exploited through human trafficking, including in our own community. To hear from those who have experienced human trafficking and those who work in the field, take a look at these TED Talks: 

 

Hispanic Heritage Month

Hispanic Heritage Month Hispanic Heritage Month is observed each year from September 15 to October 15 to celebrate the histories, culture, achievements, and contributions of American citizens whose ancestors came from Spain, Mexico, the Caribbean, and Central and South America. This time period encompasses the Independence Day celebrations of multiple Latin American countries, including Costa Rica, El Salvador, Guatemala, Honduras, Nicaragua, Mexico, and Chile. It also includes Día de la Raza on October 12, a holiday celebrating the combining of Spanish and indigenous culture in Latin America. Hispanic and Latin communities are incredibly diverse in cultural background, experiences, and needs, and assessing the impact of domestic and sexual violence on such a wide group can be difficult to encompass. Learn more about how Hispanic Heritage Month and interpersonal violence intersect.

Quotables

person reaching for black heart cutout paper“Selfless giving is the art of living.” – Frederic Lenz


 


 

 

Partner Spotlight: HACAN

HACAN: Strong Families, Strong CommunitiesDSVS and HACAN Join Forces to Support Immigrant Families

HACAN was founded in 1985 by Carmen Fernandez, an advocate for Hispanic immigrant families. In its 40-year existence, HACAN has expanded to become a nonprofit educational and advocacy organization that nurtures resilience and unity in families through education, advocacy, and support. Volunteer Voices recently sat down with Nathan Aguirre, HACAN board member, to talk about the organization’s partnership with Domestic and Sexual Violence Services. Read more.

 


Each newsletter will include this section to help share reviews, spotlight the people who support Domestic and Sexual Violence Services, recognize birthdays and list upcoming trainings and meetings.

 

Join the Conversations!

UnscriptedDomestic and Sexual Violence Services’ podcast, Unscripted: Conversations about Sexual and Domestic Violence, is real talk on tough topics! Stay in the know with these biweekly discussions. If you have ideas for topics you’d like to hear addressed on Unscripted, email them to DSVS’ communications specialist Kendra Lee.

Reviews

Hulu’s Call Me Alex and Armchair Expert: Alex Cooper’s Story

Call Her DaddyAlex Cooper is the creator and host of Call Her Daddy, a podcast about relationships, sex, and dating from the female perspective and Cooper’s personal experiences. The podcast highlights key gendered and feminist issues throughout the series, including power dynamics, sexism, and reproductive health care. 

Recently, Hulu released a documentary miniseries focused on Alex Cooper and Call Her Daddy, called Call Her Alex.  In the show, Cooper alleges publicly for the first time her experience of sexual harassment from her Boston University soccer coach, Nancy Feldman, while she was an athlete. When Cooper first joined the team, Feldman seemed hyper-fixated on her, more so than any other player. Cooper would consistently receive comments about her body and her looks and questions about her sexual partners. Feldman also added additional rules, which only applied to Cooper, including required time alone between Cooper and Feldman and barring Cooper from sleeping off campus. Feldman eventually kicked Cooper’s friend off the team to exert control over Cooper’s behavior. It took some time for Cooper and her support system to understand this behavior. Cooper’s mother states in the documentary, “I didn’t realize she had a personal issue with my daughter, and there was another year before I realized there was a sexual component.”

When Cooper, along with her parents, finally came forward to BU to bring complaints of sexual harassment, BU refused to bring any action against Feldman or the BU women’s soccer program. 

Cooper’s story is one that highlights many things we often observe around sexual violence: a power imbalance allowing the coach to gain access and exert control over Cooper, the shame and confusion Cooper felt, and the fact that a powerful institution refused to respond effectively to serious allegations--despite BU’s own sexual harassment policy. Boston University has not responded to the allegations since the release of Call Her Alex. 

Cooper stated she never wanted to discuss this part of her past publicly, but she changed her mind while filming the documentary. In an interview on the podcast Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard, Cooper said the main reason she felt ready to speak publicly was because she now is a wealthy, powerful woman with a platform--and so she does not need to be as concerned about retaliation. Cooper acknowledges that while she feels it is important to share her experience to help others, it is devastating that those who have less power may never feel comfortable in coming forward, and this is a systemic issue that may never have been resolved at the university. 

Cooper has been regarded by some as a trailblazer and a feminist, and it is impossible to deny her level of success. Call Her Alex shows her in an entirely new light and adds context behind Call Her Daddy as a feminist platform informed by her experience of sexual harassment and taking back power around her experience of relationships and dating. I sincerely enjoyed Call Her Alex, which can be streamed on Hulu. 

This review was written by DSVS Volunteer Manager Caroline Croghan.

 

VV FAQs

According to research by AmeriCorps and the US Census Bureau*, the DMV has a wonderful community of volunteers! Compared to other metropolitan areas, the Washington, D.C., area ranked among the top cities. 27.9% of individuals reported engaging in formal volunteering activities, placing us at #2 in the country for formal volunteering engagement! 

*Volunteering in America: New U.S. Census Bureau, AmeriCorps Research

 

Birthdays

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All of us at DSVS wish those celebrating their birthday in September a very Happy Birthday and a successful year ahead!

  • Kimberly B., ADAPT Volunteer: 9/12
  • Laura F., Hotline Volunteer: 9/12
  • Victor B., HASA, Hotline, and Community Engagement Volunteer: 9/12
  • Maria S., Hotline Volunteer: 9/19
  • Ronda D., HASA and Hotline Volunteer: 9/25
  • Audrey A., ADAPT and Community Engagement Volunteer: 9/28
  • Lucinda A., HASA Volunteer: 09/28

 

Fascinating Facts

group of volunteersVolunteering is as old as time. Aristotle (b. 384 BC) once said: “The essence of life is to serve others and do good.


 

 

 

Test Your Brain

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Events and Educational Resources

Teen Advocates Program Recruitment
The Teen Advocates Program application for the fall semester (and full school year) is now open and will remain available until Friday, September 19. The application is bilingual in both English and Spanish.
This program is designed for teens who are passionate about being community leaders and raising awareness about dating violence. Participants will meet twice a month during the school year to learn about healthy relationships, consent, and dating, while also planning impactful events and creating resources. Eligibility:

  • Teens ages 12-19 who are:
    • Fairfax County residents;
    • Attending Fairfax County Public Schools; or
    • Involved in Fairfax County programs (e.g., community centers, foster care, etc.)

Quarterly Volunteer Meeting
Tuesday, Sept. 16, 2025 
6–8 p.m.

During the meeting, partner organizations Ayuda and Tahirih Justice Center will offer a training to supporting communities with diverse cultural and immigration backgrounds. The training portion of the meeting will count toward the Continuing Education requirement. For more details, contact Volunteer Manager Caroline Croghan.


Domestic Violence Tier One
Wednesdays and Thursdays, October 29-November 20
6-8 p.m.

DV Tier 1 is a training on the dynamics of domestic violence, the systems that respond to those crimes, and available resources in our community. This training is free, but registration is required. For full credit, all 16 hours must be completed. Seats fill quickly, so sign up now.


MCASA’s Sexual Assault Victim Advocate Training Series
Please find virtual and self-directed trainings offered as a part of Maryland Coalition Against Sexual Assault’s Sexual Assault Victim Advocate Training Series:

Make a Note!

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Please take a moment to log on to your Volunteer Management System (VMS) account and log your hours for the month of August. Please also log any time you spent on training under “volunteer training.” If you do not see this selection under your opportunities, please email Caroline Croghan, and she will log on to add it to your account.  

Please enter your hours for each day you volunteered and not as a lump sum. If you need to log hours for a previous month, please email Caroline Croghan to let her know so she can be aware of the entry and expedite the approval process.

 

Parting Shot

DSVS info tables set up outsideCommunity Ambassador Lilia Gashin held down the tabling event at the Lorton Back to School Event in August. (She’s taking the photo of the gorgeous sky backing our beautiful DSVS tablecloth; that’s why you don’t see her face.]

 

 

 

 

 

DSVS Wants You!

Interested in becoming a volunteer? Contact Caroline Croghan.


Check out past issues of Volunteer Voices.

 

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