Department of Family Services – Domestic and Sexual Violence Services

CONTACT INFORMATION: Monday–Friday 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
703-324-5730 TTY 711
12011 Government Center Parkway, Pennino Building, Floor 7, Suite 740
Fairfax, VA 22035
Keesha Coke
Director

Volunteer Voices – Current Issue

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Welcome to the 2025 April issue of Volunteer Voices, a monthly newsletter for current and potential Domestic and Sexual Violence Services (DSVS) volunteers.

In this Issue:

Table of Contents
  • Notes from the Staff
  • Self-Care Corner: Blame It on White Lotus
  • We Love Our Volunteers!
  • Campus Safety Tips
  • Arab American Heritage Month
  • Video Vault: “I Ask” Video Series
  • Quotables
  • Partner Spotlight: Virginia Sexual and Domestic Violence Action Alliance
  • Join the Conversations!
  • A Day in the Life … Nora Nieto, Youth Prevention Specialist
  • Reviews: American Murder: Gabby Petito
  • Birthdays
  • Fascinating Facts
  • Test Your Brain
  • Events and Educational Resources
  • Make a Note!
  • Parting Shot

 

Notes from Staff

photo of Satyam SinghHello everyone! My name is Satyam Singh, and I am a management analyst II with the Fairfax County Government. My journey in data analytics has taken me across different industries, allowing me to blend technology with impactful decision-making.

Previously, I interned with Arlington County Government as a data scientist, where I spearheaded the Fire Department Audit Review, leading cost reduction and revenue enhancement. These experiences, combined with my Master of Science in Data Analytics Engineering from George Mason University, have fueled my passion for uncovering insights through data at DSVS.

At DSVS, I’ve seen how volunteers bring a unique and essential energy to the work we do. Their dedication and compassion make a real difference in our community, and I’m grateful to be part of an organization that thrives on their contributions.

Beyond work, I’m a huge soccer fan. You’ll often find me playing over the weekends. My favorite team? Chelsea! If anyone at DSVS watches or plays soccer, feel free to hit me up. We can plan something fun! When I’m not on the field, I love playing the guitar, a hobby I picked up during my bachelor’s studies.

At home, I have a miniature Pomeranian named Genie, whose tiny size is no match for her big personality. She keeps life interesting and full of joy!

Looking forward to continuing this journey with all of you and celebrating the incredible work our volunteers do every day!

Satyam Singh
Management Analyst II

Self-Care Corner: Blame It on White Lotus

morning yoga session over looking the Bali jungleEver feel like you need a vacation to recover from your vacation? You might want to give wellness tourism a try. Traditional vacations are often busy but wellness trips exist to relieve stress and promote health so you can return to your everyday life feeling grounded and rejuvenated. This is why wellness tourism is a growth industry.


 

We Love Our Volunteers!

The world would be a much lonelier place if it wasn’t filled with the likes of caring people like you. Our volunteers prove the accuracy of this statement every day! We hope each paper you file, each hotline call you take, each ADAPT group you facilitate, each policy you review, each resource fair you attend, and each hospital or court accompaniment you make, you feel the impact you’ve had on the lives of someone else. Thank you! The team at DSVS always appreciates you for who you are and all you do; we're doing this special shout out during Volunteer Appreciation Week April 20-26.

 

April Is Sexual Assault Awareness Month

April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month logoSexual violence is a major public health, human rights and social justice issue that impacts every person in Fairfax County. The purpose of Sexual Assault Awareness Month is to raise public awareness about sexual violence, educate our community on how to prevent it and share resources available to those impacted by sexual assault. Learn more about sexual violence. Stay on top of the ways Fairfax County is observing SAAM. And help do your part by sharing awareness-raising messages on social media from our Sexual Assault Awareness Month Community Engagement Toolkit.

 

 

Campus Safety Tips

college students in lectureCampus violence is a legitimate worry for the roughly 72 million students enrolled in colleges and universities in this country. That violence includes sexual violence. Studies show if you're a college student or college-age adult, you're at particularly high risk of being sexually assaulted, likely by someone you know. You can reduce your risk for all forms of violence, include sexual violence. Learn how.

 

April Is Arab American Heritage Month

April is Arab American Heritage Month graphic April is Arab American Heritage Month. Research shows Arab Americans impacted by sexual and domestic violence often face barriers accessing culturally specific services or find only support that amplifies stereotypes or adds to the history of hate crimes and surveillance of their communities—all of which can lead to a lack of trust of the systems that provide resources. Learn more about the intersection between gender-based violence and Arab American communities.

 

 

Video Vault

Consent video series graphicAs part of our observance of Sexual Assault Awareness Month, we ask you to watch these four short videos about consent from the National Sexual Violence Resource Center’s “I Ask” video series.

 

Quotables

clipart people holding a heart“Volunteering is the one addiction that’s good for you!”–Anonymous

 

 

 

 

 

Partner Spotlight

Virginia Sexual and Domestic Violence Action Alliance Logo The Virginia Sexual and Domestic Violence Action Alliance Is a Powerful Domestic and Sexual Violence Services Teammate

The Virginia Sexual and Domestic Violence Action Alliance is the state’s anti-violence coalition operating on behalf of Virginia’s 71 sexual and domestic violence agencies. The coalition connects communities to policy work, training needs, and best practices, serving as a resource hub and a statewide systems navigator. Jonathan Yglesias, the Action Alliance’s director of mission advancement, shared thoughts with Volunteer Voices about the collaboration between his organization and DSVS. Hint: It’s a win-win situation!


Each newsletter will include this section to help share reviews, spotlight the people who support Domestic and Sexual Violence Services, recognize birthdays and list upcoming trainings and meetings.

 

Join the Conversations!

unscripted logoDomestic and Sexual Violence Services’ podcast, Unscripted: Conversations about Sexual and Domestic Violence, is real talk on tough topics! Stay in the know with these biweekly discussions. If you have ideas for topics you’d like to hear addressed on Unscripted, email them to DSVS’ communications specialist Kendra Lee.
 

A Day in the Life …

Nora Nieto, youth prevention specialist on the Prevention, Education, and Coordination Team in Domestic and Sexual Violence Services, hasn’t been on the team long—almost 18 months—but it’s been an eventful year and a half. Nora’s position was created to fill a gap in DSVS’ teen-facing services: talking about healthy relationships, setting boundaries, and dating violence to teens who speak Spanish. As you can imagine, her days are busy designing a curriculum to meet the needs of this population. “A day in my life looks like getting into work and checking my emails. Then I meet with my co-worker and counterpart to divide up any tasks that need to be done for our joint group, The Teen Advocates Program,” she says. “From there, I will work on PILAS para padres workshop to have it ready to share with the Hispanic community before this summer. Finally, I end my day with planning out what tasks are time-sensitive and need to be prioritized for the next day.”

Reviews

photo of Gabby Petito“American Murder: Gabby Petito”

Unless you were living under a rock in August 2021, you are probably familiar with the Gabby Petito and Brian Laundrie story.

So many factors made this story stand out and attract so much attention. For one, this couple was all over social media portraying young love and happiness as they filmed their lives to share with the world on YouTube. Adding to the intrigue was a video that went viral of them being pulled over by the police in Utah, during a road trip, in which a witness reported observing Brian “slapping” Gabby repeatedly.

Then, when Brian returned to his parents’ home from this road trip without Gabby, refused to cooperate with authorities about her whereabouts, and disappeared only to be found dead in a national park, more questions emerged. Among them: Did Brian kill Gabby? And if so, why? Did Brian’s parents know? Were they protecting their son and covering up a murder?

Spoiler alert! Brian did, in fact, murder Gabby. But why did Utah police not only let him off the hook following the eyewitness report of domestic violence, but also take him to a hotel for domestic violence victims--where they footed the bill for him to spend the night--while leaving a distressed Gabby roadside with their van and visible wounds?

All of these questions, and more, are further examined in the recently released Netflix documentary, “American Murder: Gabby Petito.”

As someone who has worked in the domestic violence field for close to two decades, there are so many moments during this documentary where I thought to myself, “If only someone intervened here, these humans would still be alive.” I say “humans” because there were two lives lost, and one life is not more valuable than the other.

In most cases, domestic violence does not go from zero to 10 in a matter of days; there are often signs significantly before something tragic happens. What is highlighted in this documentary is how domestic violence can be misunderstood or a lack of knowledge about domestic violence, even among professionals, results in a lack of timely intervention.

In this instance, when Utah police pulled over the couple, Gabby had a bruised eye and marks on her arms. She was crying and scared, while Brian was calm and laughing. But she blamed herself for the violence, which is not uncommon, especially in relationships where there is coercive control. So police took her at her word and offered Brian assistance.

There are still a lot of unanswered questions in this case. But for all of us who work in any capacity to put an end to interpersonal violence, we can use this tragedy to reflect on our roles and where we can make a difference.

This review was written by ADAPT Supervisor Jennifer Perkins

 

Birthdays

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April’s color is cayenne, which has power characteristics such as passionate, brave, and empowered. It is believed cayenne will help April babies reach their goals by increasing their mental and physical stamina. So April volunteers, if you need a boost of courage, cayenne is your color.


Nikita “Niki” Dickey, 1
Debra “Debi” Carmel, 5
Kendra Lee, 7
Elisa Clifton, 9
Katrina Hush, 10
Tarun Ramesh, 21
David Throckmorton, 28
Maci Nordone, 23

 

Fascinating Facts

woman in exam roomIn FY2024, there were 36 SANE exams at Inova Fairfax Hospital. Some of those exams were combination SANE/strangulation. HASA volunteers completed 18 out of the 36.

 

 

Test Your Brain

Bookworms, step to the front! Test your book knowledge on this quiz:

1. Which character in Frankenstein by Mary Shelly is Frankenstein?
A. The monster
B. The orphan
C. The medical student

2. Which Jane Austen novel does Bridget Jones’ Diary use for inspiration?
A. Emma
B. Pride and Prejudice
C. Sense and Sensibility

3. What is the name of the first published Stephen King novel?
A. The Shining
B. Carrie
C. IT

4. Which animal isn’t part of the If You Give … children’s book series?
A. Cat
B. Moose
C. Bear

5. What is the best-selling novel of all time?
A. Moby Dick
B. Don Quixote
C. A Tale of Two Cities

6. Which book is not by a female author?
A. The Great Gatsby
B. A Wrinkle In Time
C. The Handmaid’s Tale

7. Which book was not written by Alice Walker?
A. The Temple of My Familiar
B. The Color Purple
C. Beloved

Answer Key: 1. C, 2. B, 3. B, 4. C, 5. B, 6. A, 7. C

 

Events and Educational Resources

HASA Networking Meeting
Tuesday, Apr. 15, 2025
6:30-7:30 p.m.
Virtual
Contact Kendal Cristaudo

 

Make a Note!

notepad and pen

Please take a moment to log on to your Volunteer Management System (VMS) account and log your hours for the month of March. Please also log any time you spent on training under “volunteer training.” If you do not see this selection under your opportunities, please reach out to volunteer liaisons, who will log on to add it to your account.  

Please enter your hours for each day you volunteered and not as a lump sum. If you need to log hours for a previous month, contact volunteer liaisons to let them know so they can be aware of the entry and expedite the approval process.

 

Parting Shot

Staff setting up training roomOutreach volunteers like Katrina Hush help keep in-person trainings on track by being part of the setup crew.

 

 

 

 

DSVS Wants You!

Interested in becoming a volunteer? Contact Advocacy Services Program Manager Angela Yeboah.


Check out past issues of Volunteer Voices.

 

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