Department of Family Services – Domestic and Sexual Violence Services

CONTACT INFORMATION: Monday–Friday 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
703-324-5730 TTY 711
12011 Government Center Parkway, Pennino Building, Floor 7, Suite 740
Fairfax, VA 22035
Keesha Coke
Director

Volunteer Voices – Current Issue

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Welcome to the 2025 June issue of Volunteer Voices, a monthly newsletter for current and potential Domestic and Sexual Violence Services (DSVS) volunteers.

In this Issue:

Table of Contents
  • Notes from the Staff
  • Self-Care Corner: Rediscover Reading
  • Disasters and IPV
  • Gun Violence Awareness Day 
  • June Is Pride Month
  • On Juneteenth 
  • Quotables 
  • Program Spotlight: Advocacy Services 
  • Join the Conversations! 
  • Reviews: When Hollywood Gets It Right
  • VV FAQs
  • Birthdays
  • Fascinating Facts 
  • Test Your Brain
  • Events and Educational Resources
  • Make a Note!
  • Parting Shot

 

Notes from Staff

Caroline CroghanMy name is Caroline Croghan, and I am so excited to join your volunteer team as the new DSVS Volunteer Manager! I have already learned so much about our volunteering programs and I am inspired by our volunteer's hard work and dedication for our communities. I am looking forward to meeting you all and hearing about your experiences volunteering with DSVS. 

I became passionate about volunteering as a teenager - growing up in Annandale - and volunteering for DC Central Kitchen and Capital Area Food Bank. I loved meeting other volunteers and learning about how community services supported my neighbors. I come to DSVS from the charity world, where I have worked for organizations supporting veterans and members of the US military, people with a background of forced migration and refugees, and people experiencing homelessness. In all these organizations I oversaw volunteering programs where volunteers played a key role in building relationships within our community, fostering trust with clients, and providing essential services.

Though I grew up in Annandale, I have lived overseas in London and Korea for the past 5 years - so I am excited to re-discover the DMV! In my free time I love to cook, hike, and shop second hand - so please share your favorite restaurants, thrift stores, or trails if you have a recommendation for me. Thank you for all the time and dedication you have already given to DSVS - I look forward to working with all of you to support and empower Fairfax Country residents!

 

Self-Care Corner: Rediscover Reading

woman reading a bookStudies have found a correlation between reading and mental stimulation and brain function, lower heart rate, decreased blood pressure and stress reduction. In fact, just six minutes of a page-turner is more calming than other de-stressors, such as a cup of tea or listening to music. Learn ways to rediscover reading.



 

Understanding the Connection Between Natural Disasters and Interpersonal Violence

wildfireNatural disasters do not cause domestic or sexual violence, but the physical, mental, and socioeconomic effects of disaster can escalate interpersonal violence. As hurricane season kicks off this month, learn more about the increase in reports of domestic and sexual violence after a natural disaster and how this increase impacts the entire community.

 

 

Friday, June 6 Is Gun Violence Awareness Day

Friday, June 6 Is Gun Violence Awareness Day The Department of Family Services Domestic and Sexual Violence Services division supports policies to remove firearms from potentially deadly situations. It’s the law: Gun owners in Virginia who have been served a final protective order must surrender their firearms. (We encourage taking it to the Sheriff’s office: 703-246-4405). By doing so, victims, their families, and our communities are safer. Learn more about the intersection of guns and domestic violence. Get additional information about Fairfax County’s resources to prevent gun violence. 



 

June Is Pride Month

June Is Pride MonthOn June 27, 1969, New York police raided Stonewall Inn, a bar located in New York City’s Greenwich Village, well known to the city’s LGBTQIA+ community. Police raids on gay bars were common, and on this night, the growing tensions set off a riot against the brutality and discrimination LGBTQIA+ people were facing. While this was not the first protest of its kind, activist groups, including The Mattachine Society, Gay Activists Alliance, and the Gay Liberation Front, organized a march on the anniversary of the riots with the theme of “Gay Pride.” In the years that followed, other organizations and cities developed pride parades across the country and these celebrations expanded to the entire month of June. President Bill Clinton issued the first proclamation of Pride Month in the United States in 1999. Research shows LGBTQIA+ communities face significant barriers to accessing support when experiencing violence. Learn more about the intersection of interpersonal violence and LGBTQIA+ communities.

On Juneteenth

Juneteenth FlagIn On Juneteenth, Pulitzer Prize-winning historian Annette Gordon-Reed tells the sweeping story of Juneteenth’s integral importance to American history and provides a historian’s view of the country’s long road to Juneteenth, recounting both its origins in Texas and the enormous hardships that African Americans have endured in the century since, from Reconstruction through Jim Crow and beyond. 


 

Quotables

shadow of heart“If you want to touch the past, touch a rock. If you want to touch the present, touch a flower. If you want to touch the future, touch a life.” –Unknown


 

 

Program Spotlight: Advocacy Services 

two women hugging Domestic and Sexual Violence Services’ Advocacy Services is designed to help individuals, families, and community members impacted by domestic and sexual violence, human trafficking, and stalking. The main goal of Advocacy Services is to provide survivors/victims with support, information, and resources they need to make their own decisions on how to stay safe while navigating the legal system in a way that considers their past experiences. Learn more about how this program supports the community.


Each newsletter will include this section to help share reviews, spotlight the people who support Domestic and Sexual Violence Services, recognize birthdays and list upcoming trainings and meetings.

 

Join the Conversations!

UnscriptedDomestic and Sexual Violence Services’ podcast, Unscripted: Conversations about Sexual and Domestic Violence, is real talk on tough topics! Stay in the know with these biweekly discussions. If you have ideas for topics you’d like to hear addressed on Unscripted, email them to DSVS’ communications specialist Kendra Lee.
 

Reviews

Big Little LiesWhen Hollywood Gets It Right

Raising awareness is important, because while sometimes domestic violence can be quite blatant, it’s often difficult to recognize--both by the person being harmed and the people around them. Research shows domestic violence can have serious consequences, including mental health issues, physical injury, and death.

So, raising awareness about this issue is important, including books, TV shows, and movies. When done right, media portrayals can bring awareness to the ways domestic violence may be more covert or subtle. But not all media is created equal. The way domestic violence is depicted in fictional accounts can help or cause more harm. Here are three picks experts say are accurate and appropriately sensitive.

  1. Brothers (2009). In this film, children witness their father Sam Cahill (Tobey Maguire), abuse their mother Grace Cahill (Natalie Portman). Sam has just returned from Afghanistan after initially being presumed dead in a helicopter attack and suffers from severe post-traumatic stress disorder. In one scene, Sam breaks things in the kitchen during a fight with Grace. Their daughter sees this. Not only could this be domestic violence — aggression and intimidation — but depending on the state, it could also be reported as child abuse because the child witnessed the violence. Even if the person causing harm targets a romantic partner, children may be exposed to that violence and develop trauma. Children who witness domestic violence or experience abuse themselves have an increased risk of mental and physical health problems in the long term.
     
  2. Big Little Lies (2017). People who live seemingly perfect lives--like wealthy Celeste Wright (Nicole Kidman) in this HBO series--can be victims of domestic violence, too. Celeste appears happy with a loving marriage to her husband Perry (Alexander Skarsgård), but in private, he is physically abusive to Celeste. Perry’s abuse becomes public after Celeste decides to leave him. Celeste’s friends, who witness this beating, accidentally kill Perry. After Perry’s death, Celeste grieves his loss, even though he’d abused her. This accurately shows how survivors can have complicated relationships with people who have harmed them. Victims may stay in a violent relationship for myriad reasons, such as feeling the relationship is a mix of good times and bad times, lacking financial means to support themselves, or fearing they’ll lose custody of their children. The depiction of domestic violence in Big Little Lies is accurate, from the types of abuse, how the perpetrator acted toward their children, how the wife hid it, and the emotional impact on Celeste and her children.
     
  3. Maid (2019). In her book, Maid—adapted into a 2021 Netflix series—author Stephanie Land shined a light on the stories of America’s working poor. To support her daughter after leaving an abusive relationship, Land worked as a maid while living in poverty and navigating complicated government assistance programs. Maid does an excellent job of depicting the difficulties of leaving a relationship plagued by domestic violence, especially if the victim lacks the financial means to support herself and her children. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, low income is one risk factor for intimate partner violence.

This review was written by Kendra Lee, a Department of Family Services communications specialist.

VV FAQs

Q: When does Domestic and Sexual Violence Services add to its volunteer corps?
A: All year.  
 

Birthdays

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June colors are pale orange and pearl, which tie to moon symbolism. This makes sense since June is named after Juno, the Roman goddess of marriage and childbirth, who is often connected to the moon and its cycles.

  • Lynne Shapiro 1
  • Melissa Montgomery 7
  • Yesenia Claros 7
  • Sandy Guy 13
  • Willmara Moye 28
Fascinating Facts

coffee mug on tableOn average, people in America spend an average of 52 hours per year volunteering their time.*

*Bureau of Labor Statistics

 

 

Test Your Brain

Bite-sized doesn’t mean easy. Some of these riddles are pretty tricky.

  1. Riddle: Mississippi has four S’s and four I’s. Can you spell that without using S or I?
  2. What is at the end of the rainbow?
  3. Name three consecutive days without naming any of the seven days of the week.
  4. Which letter of the alphabet has the most water?
  5. What kind of ship has two mates but no captain?

Answer Key

Events and Educational Resources

ADAPT Engaging Facilitation Skills
Saturday, June 7
10 a.m.-Noon
Virtual

Contact your volunteer liaison for login information.


HASA Networking Meeting
Wednesday, June 18
6-8 p.m.
Virtual

Contact your volunteer liaison for login information.


Sexual Violence Tier 1
Wednesday & Thursday, June 25-26
8 a.m.-5 p.m.

Registration for the summer session of Sexual Violence Tier 1, a 16-hour training on understanding sexual violence, systems responding to sexual violence in Fairfax County, and resources available in our community, is now open. Seats fill quickly, so sign up now for this training for professionals, volunteers, and community members looking to learn how and why sexual violence happens; the impact of sexual violence on individuals, families, and communities; and how to support those impacted. For full credit, all 16 hours must be completed. This training is free, but registration is required. Questions? Contact Victoria Nevel-Babla.


Domestic Violence Tier 1
Wednesday & Thursday, July 9-10
8 a.m.-5 p.m.

Registration for the summer session of Domestic Violence Tier 1, a 16-hour training on the dynamics of domestic violence, systems responding to domestic violence in Fairfax County, and resources available in our community, is now open. Seats fill quickly, so sign up now for this training for professionals, volunteers, and community members looking to learn about the dynamics of domestic violence and its impact on individuals, families, and communities. For full credit, all 16 hours must be completed. This training is free, but registration is required. Questions? Contact Abby Picard.

 

Make a Note!

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Please take a moment to log on to your Volunteer Management System (VMS) account and log your hours for the month of May. Please also log any time you spent on training under “volunteer training.” If you do not see this selection under your opportunities, please email Caroline Croghan, and she will log on to add it to your account.  

Please enter your hours for each day you volunteered and not as a lump sum. If you need to log hours for a previous month, please email Caroline Croghan to let her know so she can be aware of the entry and expedite the approval process.

 

Parting Shot

Seth WoerhleCommunity engagement volunteer Seth Woehrle holds down the table at George Mason University’s Consent Carnival.


 

 

 

 

 

DSVS Wants You!

Interested in becoming a volunteer? Contact Caroline Croghan.


Check out past issues of Volunteer Voices.

 

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