Department of Family Services – Domestic and Sexual Violence Services

CONTACT INFORMATION: Monday–Friday 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
703-324-5730 TTY 711
12011 Government Center Parkway, Pennino Building, Floor 7, Suite 740
Fairfax, VA 22035
Keesha Coke
Director

Volunteer Voices – Current Issue

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Welcome to the 2025 August issue of Volunteer Voices, a monthly newsletter for current and potential Domestic and Sexual Violence Services (DSVS) volunteers.

In this Issue:

Table of Contents
  • Notes from the Staff
  • Self-Care Corner: 8 Self-Care Tips for Back-to-School Season
  • Video Vault: Back to School and Safety on Campus
  • Quotables 
  • Partner Spotlight: GMU
  • Join the Conversations! 
  • A Day in the Life: Kendal Cristaudo
  • Reviews: PBS Frontline’s Sex Trafficking in America
  • VV FAQs
  • Birthdays
  • Fascinating Facts 
  • Test Your Brain
  • Events and Educational Resources
  • Make a Note!
  • Parting Shot

 

Notes from Staff

photo of CarolineAfter starting in my role in April, I have had an amazing summer working in our Volunteer Program! This summer, we completed our first volunteer recruitment cycle after a break from DSVS volunteer recruitment–and we have successfully recruited new Hotline, HASA, and ADAPT volunteers! We are so happy to be building our team again. Thanks to all our longstanding volunteers and welcome to all of our new teammates! Going through this recruitment cycle has shown me how dedicated our volunteers are in learning new skills and bringing their own unique expertise to their role. I also thoroughly enjoyed working with my colleagues to ensure new volunteers are supported in starting their role. I am so thankful to DSVS staff for showing me the ropes and for creating a culture where people so clearly love working with our volunteers.

The most fun part of this summer for me has been meeting many of you. I was able to spend a lot of time with new volunteers through the recruitment process, but our well-established volunteers also have welcomed me with open arms! So many of you scheduled meetings with me or joined us at meetings and events. Many of you also gave me wonderful insight into your volunteer experience, why you have found fulfillment in your role, and how you would like to see DSVS Volunteering grow and change in the future. Your willingness to share your knowledge has been invaluable in settling into my role and learning how I can support each of you going forward.

Finally, I was able to meet many of you in person at our Summer Volunteer Appreciation celebration! We had an amazing time enjoying snacks, playing games, and getting to know each other. We are so lucky to host and be a part of these events, where we can make connections and celebrate all you’ve done this year. Thanks to all who joined us–and I hope to see many of you at our next celebration in the winter!

Wishing each and every one of you a great finish to your summer.

Caroline Croghan
Volunteer Manager

 

Self-Care Corner: 8 Self-Care Tips for Back-to-School Season

kids with bookbagsSchool bells are beginning to ring, so it's essential for parents to prioritize self-care amidst the flurry of activities necessary for getting their students (and themselves) ready for study schedules, after-school clubs, and fall sports leagues. Here are eight effective strategies to help you manage stress and maintain your well-being during this busy time.

 

Video Vault

college students sitting at tableThis month, students of all ages will head back to school for the new year, including college students starting a new adventure and returning to campus.

College campuses are places of expression, support, and growth. Unfortunately, some of the most common crimes on campuses across the country are rape and other sexual offenses (USA Today).

How can students support each other to create a safe, healthy, and happy environment on their campus? Visit RAINN’s website to learn more about bystander intervention and how people can step in to support each other and prevent sexual assault. You can also watch this video from UN Women to see some examples on how bystanders might intervene.

Starting at a new university, returning to campus after a summer at home, or returning to campus after a summer abroad can be a difficult adjustment for any student–especially those that may have experienced sexual assault since they were last on campus. Watch Returning Home, a video from RAINN that focuses primarily on students who return from study abroad, but also might be helpful for any students finding re-integration into campus life challenging following a sexual assault.

 

Quotables

phone with text on the display“You don’t choose the day you enter the world and you don’t choose the day you leave. It’s what you do in between that makes all the difference.” -–Anita Septimus

 

 

Partner Spotlight: GMU

gmu logoGeorge Mason University and Domestic and Sexual Violence Services Join Forces to Support Students George Mason University’s Student Support and Advocacy Center has existed since 2012. It sometimes had a different name—it started as Waves, but its mission has remained the same: assisting students encountering life crises or barriers to their success. One way the center supports students is through violence reduction and education, which is how it intersects with Domestic and Sexual Violence Services. Volunteer Voices recently sat down with several SSAC staff to talk about the center’s mission and its collaboration with DSVS. Learn more about this collaboration.


Each newsletter will include this section to help share reviews, spotlight the people who support Domestic and Sexual Violence Services, recognize birthdays and list upcoming trainings and meetings.

 

Join the Conversations!

UnscriptedDomestic and Sexual Violence Services’ podcast, Unscripted: Conversations about Sexual and Domestic Violence, is real talk on tough topics! Stay in the know with these biweekly discussions. If you have ideas for topics you’d like to hear addressed on Unscripted, email them to DSVS’ communications specialist Kendra Lee.

 

 

 

A Day in the Life …

"A day in my life as the Hospital Accompaniment Program Specialist starts a bit later than that of my Domestic and Sexual Violence Services colleagues,” says Kendal Cristaudo, who began her career with DSVS as a volunteer before transitioning to the full-time Hospital Accompaniment Program Specialist. Her days may start later but they are no less busy. “I begin my day at 1:30 pm at the Inova FACT Department’s Dunn Loring clinic, typically with my lunch in hand. While eating lunch, I check my emails and debrief with the FACT nurses about the previous day’s appointments or upcoming ones,” she says.

“My afternoons are typically spent preparing for presentations within the medical community or managing tasks related to the Hospital Accompaniment Support Advocates (HASA), such as creating the monthly HASA calendars and coordinating hospital accompaniment requests. Around 7 p.m., the FACT night nurse and I drive to the Inova Fairfax Hospital, where I end my day at 10 p.m. I close out by creating my to-do list for the next day.”

Reviews

video screenshotSex Trafficking in America is a PBS Frontline documentary focused on how law enforcement has worked to stop the trafficking of girls and women in Phoenix, Arizona.

Sex Trafficking in America was released in 2022 and began filing in 2016, so it highlights some ways in which the trafficking system has evolved in order to build more of an online presence and how it has tried to stay one step ahead of law enforcement. One police officer in the film highlighted that law enforcement is mostly reactive to changes in trafficking operations, so unfortunately it can feel like a wheel of harm that doesn’t necessarily stop; it just adjusts in order to avoid detection. This made me think about the work we do at DSVS – particularly about prevention and education with young people around teen dating violence, digital abuse, and teen trafficking. This prevention work, as well as punitive efforts by law enforcement, are both key tools in stopping this wheel.

As I was watching Sex Trafficking in America, I was interested to learn about the police department’s approach to sex trafficking, but the film was largely focused on the legal and criminal justice system. I would be interested to learn more about survivor support outside of court that exists in Pheonix. How do social services and the third sector support individuals who have experienced trafficking, and how do these services collaborate with police? At DSVS, we do so much to work collaboratively with law enforcement–like through the LAP Line--and to support victims and survivors through legal proceedings with our DVAC partners. I would be interested to know how this ecosystem operates in Phoenix with a more bird’s-eye view.

Though the primary focus of the documentary is the Phoenix Police Department, the film also shines a light on the experience of survivor Kat, who was a victim of trafficking as a teenager. Kat’s story is devastating, and I was truly inspired by her ability to share her experience with the filmmakers and in the public, including recounting traumatic events and revisiting the sites where she experienced violence. Her story provides key context to why the work of the Pheonix police department is so important. Kat also played a key role in identifying several people who participated in trafficking operations, thanks to her ability and willingness to recount highly specific information to law enforcement. Kat’s ability to do this has helped make her community safer. I truly appreciated learning about Kat and how she has been able to find community and support after her experiences.

Sex Trafficking in America is about one hour and can be watched for free on PBS’s website: Sex Trafficking in America | FRONTLINE.

This review was written by Volunteer Manager Caroline Croghan.

 

VV FAQs

We have officially completed fiscal year 2025! Our volunteer team provided so much support to staff and clients. Here is a quick glance at the hourly contribution you made to our programming last fiscal year:

DSVS Volunteer Hours by Program
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Birthdays

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All of us at DSVS wish our dedicated volunteers a happy August birthday!

  • Terry King, 5
  • Ashley Kotania, 5
  • Justina Johnson, 14
  • Bindi Mandava, 15
  • Tina Mather, 18
  • Wendy Werner, 18
  • Faith Harris, 22
  • Lilia Gashin, 27
  • Ruth Berben, 27

 

Fascinating Facts

Woman using blood pressure deviceVolunteering decreases the likelihood of high blood pressure development by 40%.*  (*WebMD)

 

 

 

Test Your Brain

In the best of all possible worlds, you have been enjoying some summer travel! These jumbled phrases hide the names of eight capital cities around the world. Can you unscramble these phrases to name those cities?

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Events and Educational Resources

Teen Advocates Program Recruitment
The Teen Advocates Program application for the fall semester (and full school year) is now open and will remain available until Friday, September 19. The application is bilingual in both English and Spanish.
This program is designed for teens who are passionate about being community leaders and raising awareness about dating violence. Participants will meet twice a month during the school year to learn about healthy relationships, consent, and dating, while also planning impactful events and creating resources. Eligibility:

  • Teens ages 12-19 who are:
    • Fairfax County residents;
    • Attending Fairfax County Public Schools; or
    • Involved in Fairfax County programs (e.g., community centers, foster care, etc.)

Volunteer Orientations
If you or someone you know is interested in volunteering with us, they can register for one of our upcoming orientations in August:

  • Tuesday, August 5 10-11:30 a.m.
  • Tuesday, August 5 6-7:30 p.m.
  • Thursday, August 7 Noon-1:30 p.m.

Sexual Violence Tier One
Saturdays, Sept. 13 & 20, 2025
8 a.m.-5 p.m.

Fairfax County Health Department Kelly Square
Rowland Training Rooms A&B
10777 Main Street
Fairfax, VA 22030
Registration for the fall session of Sexual Violence Tier 1, a 16-hour training on understanding sexual violence, systems responding to sexual violence in Fairfax County, and resources available in our community, is now open. For full credit, all 16 hours must be completed. This training is free, but registration is required. Questions? Contact Victoria Nevel-Babla


Domestic Violence Tier One
Wednesdays and Thursdays, October 29-November 20
6-8 p.m.

 

Make a Note!

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Please take a moment to log on to your Volunteer Management System (VMS) account and log your hours for the month of July. Please also log any time you spent on training under “volunteer training.” If you do not see this selection under your opportunities, please email Caroline Croghan, and she will log on to add it to your account.  

Please enter your hours for each day you volunteered and not as a lump sum. If you need to log hours for a previous month, please email Caroline Croghan to let her know so she can be aware of the entry and expedite the approval process.

 

Parting Shot

DFS employees at tabling eventNew Hotline volunteer Joann Sazama takes a turn spinning the DSVS Power & Control Wheel at the Summer Volunteer Appreciation Picnic while Hospital Accompaniment Specialist Kendal Cristaudo watches.

 

 

 

 

 

DSVS Wants You!

Interested in becoming a volunteer? Contact Caroline Croghan.


Check out past issues of Volunteer Voices.

 

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