Department of Family Services – Domestic and Sexual Violence Services

CONTACT INFORMATION: Monday–Friday 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
703-324-5730 TTY 711
12011 Government Center Parkway, Pennino Building, Floor 7, Suite 740
Fairfax, VA 22035
Keesha Coke
Director

Volunteer Voices – Current Issue

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Welcome to the 2025 May issue of Volunteer Voices, a monthly newsletter for current and potential Domestic and Sexual Violence Services (DSVS) volunteers.

In this Issue:

Table of Contents
  • Notes from the Staff
  • Self-Care Corner: 10 Self-Care Trends That Reinforce Renewal
  • People Living with Disabilities Are at Increased Risk of Domestic Violence
  • May Is Asian American Pacific Islander Heritage Month
  • TED Talk: If I Should Have a Daughter
  • Quotables
  • Partner Spotlight: Domestic Violence Action Center Partnerships — Shelter Options
  • Join the Conversations!
  • Reviews: Netflix’s “American Nightmare” Proves Kidnapping and Sexual Assault Might Not Be the Only Things That Cause Bad Dreams
  • VV FAQs
  • Birthdays
  • Fascinating Facts
  • Test Your Brain
  • Events and Educational Resources
  • Make a Note!
  • Parting Shot

 

Notes from Staff

Photo of Sandra McGovernHello! My name is Sandra McGovern, and I’m honored to serve as the operations manager for Domestic and Sexual Violence Services (DSVS). In my role, I work behind the scenes to support our incredible programs through administrative functions; data analytics; and management, process improvement, and strategic planning. By ensuring our systems run smoothly and our data tells the full story of our impact, I help our teams—and all of you—focus on what matters most: supporting survivors and promoting safety and healing in our community.

Before joining DSVS in November 2024, I spent 25 years in call center and healthcare leadership roles, focusing on operations, data analytics, and improving both employee and client experiences. This background has equipped me with a deep understanding of how to drive organizational effectiveness, streamline processes, and support teams, while always keeping people and compassion at the center of the work.

Volunteers are essential to everything we do. You extend our reach, provide critical support, and bring compassion and care to survivors at some of the most vulnerable times in their lives. Your time, energy, and presence help create a stronger, more responsive support system, and we’re so grateful for all that you do.

When I’m not at work, I enjoy spending time in nature, studying behavioral economics, and diving into creative projects like digital art and crafting guided meditation experiences. These outlets allow me to explore ways of bringing beauty, peace and a sense of calm into everyday life--for myself and others.

Thank you for being such a vital part of the DSVS mission. I look forward to continuing this important work alongside you!

Sandra McGovern
Operations Manager

 

10 Self-Care Trends That Reinforce Renewal

acupunctureThe importance of self-care has never been more evident. Recent surveys have found more people are recognizing the important link between self-care and mental health. This points to one fact: Self-care should no longer be thought of as a luxury; it is essential for managing mental health and maintaining a sense of balance and well-being. While we can't predict the future, we can certainly share some emerging trends in self-care that might continue to grow and evolve. Check out these 10.


 

People Living with Disabilities Are at Increased Risk of Domestic Violence

girl looking in mirrorDomestic violence can impact anyone. But the challenges people living with disabilities and experiencing domestic violence face can be atypical. It’s important to know the specific challenges they face, why it’s important to understand their experiences, and ways to help.

 

 

May Is Asian American/Pacific Islander Heritage Month

Asian American Pacific Islander Heritage Month graphicComprehensive data of sexual and domestic violence among Asian Americans can be difficult to capture as Asian Americans are commonly undercounted by Census data and underrepresented in studies on domestic and sexual violence. Researchers have also found that Asian and Pacific Islander (AAPI) women who experience violence are more likely to seek support from community rather than formal authorities, meaning traditional methods of data collection undercount the true number of AAPI victims and families impacted. Learn more about the connection between Asian Americans and interpersonal violence.

 

TED Talk: If I Should Have a Daughter

photo of Sarah KayIn honor of Mother’s Day, we invite you to watch “If I Should Have a Daughter,” spoken word poet Sarah Kay’s story of her metamorphosis from wide-eyed teenager soaking in verse at New York's Bowery Poetry Club to a teacher connecting kids with the power of self-expression through Project V.O.I.C.E.

 

 

Quotables

hands making a heart“If you don’t have any charity in your heart you have the worst kind of heart trouble.”–Bob Hope

 

 

 

 

 

Partner Spotlight

Domestic Violence Action Center Partnership graphicDomestic Violence Action Center Partnerships — Shelter Options

The Domestic Violence Action Center, or DVAC, partners with Shelter House and Bethany House to provide a secure environment, including advocacy, emotional support, case management, court accompaniment, financial assistance, and transportation assistance, to victims of domestic violence, stalking, and human trafficking. Learn more about shelter options.


Each newsletter will include this section to help share reviews, spotlight the people who support Domestic and Sexual Violence Services, recognize birthdays and list upcoming trainings and meetings.

 

Join the Conversations!

unscripted logoDomestic and Sexual Violence Services’ podcast, Unscripted: Conversations about Sexual and Domestic Violence, is real talk on tough topics! Stay in the know with these biweekly discussions. If you have ideas for topics you’d like to hear addressed on Unscripted, email them to DSVS’ communications specialist Kendra Lee.
 

Reviews

Netflix American Nightmare promo graphicNetflix’s “American Nightmare” Proves Kidnapping and Sexual Assault Might Not Be the Only Things That Cause Bad Dreams

Netflix seems to be finding its stride in producing true crime documentaries, and “American Nightmare,” about a home invasion and kidnapping, is a doozy.

The three-episode documentary details the harrowing 2015 night when Aaron Quinn and Denise Huskins, a Vallejo, California, couple, were startled out of their sleep by an intruder who drugged, blindfolded, and handcuffed them before kidnapping Denise and driving her away in the trunk of Quinn's Toyota Camry. Quinn was told to wait for a ransom call.

Meanwhile, Huskins was taken to a remote area, held captive in a house, and sexually assaulted multiple times. She was led to believe her kidnapper was part of some sort of consortium that trafficked the people they kidnapped. Days later, she was released by her captors near her parents’ home 400 miles away.

It was just the beginning of their nightmare, as authorities first tried to pin the crime on Quinn, theorizing he had killed Huskins because he didn’t contact them for several hours after the incident, even though he told them he had been sedated.

Once Huskins was released, law enforcement suggested their bizarre story was a hoax and drew parallels to David Fincher’s “Gone Girl.” The 2014 thriller, starring Ben Affleck and Rosamund Pike, centers around a woman who fakes her own abduction to frame her husband. Vallejo police even held a press conference where they announced unequivocally that Huskins had faked her kidnapping, costing the department manpower and money and creating a panic in the community.

“There is no evidence to support the claims that this was a stranger abduction or an abduction at all,” authorities said at the time. “Given the facts that have been presented thus far, this event appears to be an orchestrated event and not a kidnapping.” They threatened to charge Huskins and implied if convicted, she could face up to 18 months in prison.

The media sensed blood and ran with the “Gone Girl” story.

Huskins hired an attorney to defend herself, while the public believed she had faked her abduction. The couple received hate mail and were vilified via social media.

The already strange story took an even stranger turn when the abductors appeared to feel guilty and began emailing a San Francisco Chronicle reporter. “We cannot stand to see two good people thrown under the bus by the police and media, when Ms. Victim F (Huskins) and Mr. Victim M (Quinn) should have received only support and sympathy,” the kidnappers wrote. “We are responsible for the victims’ suffering and the least we can do is come forward to prove they are not lying.”

Months later, a former Marine and disbarred attorney was arrested in a nearby town for a similar crime. Evidence linked him to Huskins’ case. He pleaded guilty to kidnapping and rape and was sentenced to 40 years in prison. The couple filed and won a defamation suit against the city of Vallejo and received a $2.5 million settlement. Huskins and Quinn are now married and have two children. emailing The San Francisco Chronicle about it.

Though all is well that ends well, my blood was boiling within the first 15 minutes of the first episode. I know it’s “always the boyfriend,” but Vallejo police locked in on Quinn almost immediately, and their tunnel vision wouldn’t allow them to contemplate a different scenario. Their treatment of Huskins—at one point refusing to let her go the hospital for a forensic exam until she spent hours giving them a detailed statement that they kept trying to twist—was unconscionable. The FBI even got in the mix, lying to Quinn about a polygraph test he volunteered to take. (For even more intrigue, there’s a side story about Quinn’s ex-girlfriend and her relationship with the lead FBI agent on the case; he didn’t recuse himself and was never really questioned about his possible involvement.) The only law enforcement with any compassion was the lone female officer who helped crack the case. None of the officers involved was disciplined; one was even named officer of the year the same year this case was unfolding.

Filmmakers Felicity Morris and Bernadette Higgins do an excellent job building the suspense and documenting the incompetence of law enforcement—without calling them bumbling fools. They let them hang themselves so viewers can draw their own conclusion. Grade: A.

This review was written by Kendra Lee, a Department of Family Services communications specialist.

 

VV FAQs

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Birthdays

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May’s color is bud green. Its main characteristics are revitalizing, energizing, or turning over a new leaf, which makes sense given the month of May is deep into spring! If you want to start a new beginning or to energize your current situation, consider bud green as a color choice for clothing or a paint color.


Rizwana Groover, 8
Alice Change, 9
Brittney DePoto, 17
Linda McMillen, 29
Rose McKinney, 31

 

Fascinating Facts

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Test Your Brain

Use your vision powers to find the turtle. Research shows women tend to find the turtle in this ocean of sea creatures before men, though no one knows why.

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Answer Key

 

Events and Educational Resources

Continuing Education

Reminder: DSVS volunteers who have been with DSVS for over 1 year are now required to complete 10 hours of continuing education annually. This can include trainings at Volunteer Quarterly Meetings, HASA Network, and other trainings on domestic and sexual violence.

A completed and signed copy of the DSVS Continued Education Form must be submitted to your supervisor by Sunday, June 1, 2025.

If you still need hours for FY2025, check out previous editions of Volunteer Voices under "Training" and additional resources will be shared soon! Questions? Please reach out to your volunteer program liaison.


Sexual Violence Tier 1
Registration for the summer session (Wednesday & Thursday, June 25-26, 2025) of Sexual Violence Tier 1, a 16-hour training on understanding sexual violence, systems responding to sexual violence in Fairfax County, and resources available in our community, is now open. Seats fill quickly, so sign up now for this training for professionals, volunteers, and community members looking to learn how and why sexual violence happens; the impact of sexual violence on individuals, families, and communities; and how to support those impacted. For full credit, all 16 hours must be completed. This training is free, but registration is required. Questions? Contact Abby Picard.


Domestic Violence Tier 1
Registration for the summer session (Wednesday and Thursday, July 9-10, 2025) of Domestic Violence Tier 1, a 16-hour training on the dynamics of domestic violence, systems responding to domestic violence in Fairfax County, and resources available in our community, is now open. Seats fill quickly, so sign up now for this training for professionals, volunteers, and community members looking to learn about the dynamics of domestic violence and its impact on individuals, families, and communities. For full credit, all 16 hours must be completed. This training is free, but registration is required. Questions? Contact Abby Picard.

 

Make a Note!

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Please take a moment to log on to your Volunteer Management System (VMS) account and log your hours for the month of April. Please also log any time you spent on training under “volunteer training.” If you do not see this selection under your opportunities, please reach out to volunteer liaisons, who will log on to add it to your account.  

Please enter your hours for each day you volunteered and not as a lump sum. If you need to log hours for a previous month, contact volunteer liaisons to let them know so they can be aware of the entry and expedite the approval process.

 

Parting Shot

DFS employees at Women's History Month BreakfastKatrina Hush and Audrey Arnold work the resource table at the Commission for Women’s Annual Women’s History Month Breakfast in March.

 

 

 

 

 

DSVS Wants You!

Interested in becoming a volunteer? Contact Advocacy Services Program Manager Angela Yeboah.


Check out past issues of Volunteer Voices.

 

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