Department of Family Services

CONTACT INFORMATION: Monday–Friday 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
703-324-7500 TTY 711
12011 Government Center Parkway, Pennino Building
Fairfax, VA 22035
Michael A. Becketts
Director

Volunteer Voices – Current Issue

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Welcome to the 2025 July issue of Volunteer Voices, a monthly newsletter for current and potential Domestic and Sexual Violence Services (DSVS) volunteers.

In this Issue:

Table of Contents
  • Notes from the Staff
  • Self-Care Corner: Celebrate Yourself!
  • TED
  • Quotables 
  • Program Spotlight: It’s All in a Name: DSVS’ Prevention, Education, and Coordination Team Is the Missing Link
  • Join the Conversations! 
  • A Day in the Life: Melody Vielbig
  • Reviews: Survivor Made Provides a Fresh Perspective
  • Donor Spotlight
  • VV FAQs
  • Birthdays
  • Fascinating Facts 
  • Test Your Brain
  • Events and Educational Resources
  • Make a Note!
  • Parting Shot

 

Notes from Staff

Kendal and Irvin, DSVS employees Caroline, our new volunteer manager, has been catching up with volunteer liaisons to learn more about how volunteers make DSVS services run. Caroline was so inspired by feedback from our program teams that she wanted to share what she heard; take a look!

“ADAPT simply wouldn't have achieved its level of success without the kind, empathetic, dedicated, compassionate, and wonderful work of our volunteers. As staff, we benefit not only from their contributions but also from their collaborative efforts, co-presenting, supporting, and encouraging participants to integrate and implement all the tools provided. It takes a special person to do this work voluntarily, giving back to the community in a meaningful and immeasurable way." – Irvin, ADAPT Volunteer Liaison

“DSVS Hotline volunteers play a crucial role in the domestic and sexual violence program, enabling us to maintain 24/7 hotline coverage. They are kind and dedicated individuals who provide empathetic, knowledgeable, and immediate assistance to those in crisis. I appreciate partnering with our hotline volunteers because they make it possible for us to deliver comprehensive support and drive meaningful change in the lives of those affected by domestic and sexual violence.” – Hewan, Hotline Volunteer Liaison

“I love our volunteers because they choose to spend their free time learning about domestic and sexual violence and how to support those affected. Their dedication truly makes a difference in the operations of our programs and in the lives of the clients they work with.” – Kendal, HASA Volunteer Liaison

 

Self-Care Corner: Celebrate Yourself!

bench in a parkWe hope you have had time so far this summer to get into nature, enjoy local parks, and sit in the sunshine! A big part of self-care is finding community and connecting with others, which is a big reason so many of us choose to volunteer.

This month, take care of yourself by joining us at our Summer Volunteer Appreciation Picnic! We will enjoy good food and good company–and celebrate all you have accomplished through your hard work and dedication.

Keep an eye on your email inbox for more information about the event. But for now, Save the Date: Summer Volunteer Appreciation Picnic, Saturday, July 19.
 

Ted Talk

woman in a wheel chairJuly is Disability Pride Month! The term disability can mean so many different things, and advocates in this space fight for everything from accessibility in services to a paradigm shift when talking about disability. Take a look at some of these videos, which touch on confidence, healthy relationships, and how we think of the word disability:

 

Quotables

hands making a heart“What we have done for ourselves alone dies with us; what we have done for others and the worlds remains and is immortal." –Albert Pike

 

 

Program Spotlight

virtual teams meeting with employeesTwo years ago, Domestic and Sexual Violence Services’ Countywide Coordination Team evolved into the Prevention, Education, and Coordination (PEC) team to strengthen the response to domestic violence, sexual violence, human trafficking, and stalking. Recently, Volunteer Voices sat down with PEC Team Program Manager Stacy Ziebell to talk about why this change was necessary and how it’s going as it approaches its second anniversary. Find out what we learned.

 


Each newsletter will include this section to help share reviews, spotlight the people who support Domestic and Sexual Violence Services, recognize birthdays and list upcoming trainings and meetings.

 

Join the Conversations!

UnscriptedDomestic and Sexual Violence Services’ podcast, Unscripted: Conversations about Sexual and Domestic Violence, is real talk on tough topics! Stay in the know with these biweekly discussions. If you have ideas for topics you’d like to hear addressed on Unscripted, email them to DSVS’ communications specialist Kendra Lee.

 

 

 

A Day in the Life …

Melody Vielbig, clinical services program manager, manages three programs that support Clinical Services: Counseling Services, ADAPT (Anger & Domestic Abuse Prevention & Treatment), and Quality Assurance. She has been part of DSVS for 2 years. “As the program manager for Clinical Services, each day is unique and filled with tasks that support our exceptional Clinical Services programs, which ultimately serve people in need,” she says. “A typical day involves meeting with staff--other leaders in DSVS and DFS--to enhance and improve our efforts. My daily schedule includes multiple meetings centered around grant funding, ensuring accurate data management, and supervising the dedicated supervisors within Clinical Services.

“One of the highlights of my role is learning more about the excellent work being done by ADAPT and Counseling Services. I take great satisfaction in supporting these teams as they continue to expand and deliver high-quality, trauma-informed services to individuals affected by domestic and sexual violence, human trafficking, and stalking.”

Reviews

woman and children looking at christmas treeSurvivor Made Provides a Fresh Perspective

Last year, with support from Executive Producer Padma Lakshimi, a group of women and nonbinary people released Survivor Made, a documentary by survivors, for survivors. The documentary focuses on Sonya Passi, CEO of FreeFrom (an organization focused on ending gender-based violence through safety and economic freedom), and women who own businesses supported through FreeFrom. Part of the work of FreeFrom established GIFTED, a marketplace where survivors of gender-based violence can sell products and build their own business.

I really enjoyed the film for two reasons.

First, Survivor Made represents a very diverse group of people and focused significantly on the way identity intersectionality affects people’s experience of gender-based violence, people’s resiliency, and people’s relationships. Stories from survivors in the film frequently mentioned how their identity as a black woman, a queer nonbinary person, indigenous background, or their religion or national origin informed their world view and their experience. The film also provides stark commentary on the intersection of economic independence and violence. I thought this offered a unique and often un-sung view on the importance of person-centered work and support systems within our communities.

Second, I enjoyed that Survivor Made focuses primarily on the women’s supportive relationships, stories of resilience, tenacity, intelligence, and business success--instead of focusing on stories of the harm they experienced. Some, though not all, of the women shared about the abuse they endured, and when these stories were discussed it was framed in a reflective way, where the women sharing were concurrently identifying how they have grown from their experiences and what they are looking forward to in the future. Not only did I find this an (unfortunately) uncommon way in which gender-based violence is framed in media, but I also found this lens to make for an entertaining, uplifting, and heartwarming documentary. There are lots of women lifting each other up in this movie, which is always a great energy to bring into a movie night!

Survivor Made can be accessed for free or by donation. I highly recommend watching with a few friends; I’m sure you will identify with some of the women and people in the film and finish the movie feeling inspired.

This review was written by Volunteer Manager Caroline Croghan.

 

Donor Spotlight

collage of women artworkThis month, we shine a light on the Zonta Club of Fairfax County, which partners with the Domestic Violence Action Center (DVAC) to support our clients. Zonta Club of Fairfax County is a local chapter of Zonta International, which has a global cause to expand opportunities for women and girls through education and social projects.

Each month, Zonta members take turns shopping for requested supplies such as foodstuff, diapers, baby formula, and personal hygiene products. The Zonta Club also supports us with special and seasonal requests, including coordinating gift cards for clients and writing holiday cards around the festive time of year.

We are so appreciative of everything the Zonta Club does to support DVAC and members of our community. Having access to basic and essential supplies in an accessible place makes all the difference for our clients accessing services.

 

VV FAQs

woman talking in a group settingDid you know: The ADAPT program was run by one part-time staff and a group of committed volunteers for the first seven years of its existence? ADAPT began as A Men’s Program in June, 1983, thanks to a one-year grant obtained by the Virginia Family Violence Prevention Program. During that first year, from July, 1983, to June, 1984, 39 clients participated in either a self-help group or a conflict management group, and four clients were referred to the community education series. Besides the half-time program coordinator, the program was staffed by 22 volunteers and groups were facilitated by former participants. The first full-time staff wasn’t hired until 1990! The program is so successful now thanks to the continued involvement of our dedicated volunteers.

 

Birthdays

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The birth flower for the month of July is larkspur, a tall, vibrant flower that is usually purple, the same color for domestic violence awareness. Larkspur has often been a symbol for love and positivity. We hope you can bring this positivity into your routine this July! All of us at DSVS are wishing our dedicated volunteers with a birthday this month a happy one!

  • Adrienne Williams
  • Amanda Snelgrove
  • Christine Royer
  • Jacqueline Huynh
  • Julie Collins
  • Monty Johnson
  • Sasala Challa

 

Fascinating Facts

bowl of fruitAccording to an AmeriCorps report*, people who volunteer over 100 hours a year are some of the healthiest people in the U.S.

*40 Volunteer Statistics That Will Blow Your Mind | VolunteerHub
 

 

 

Test Your Brain

It’s summer blockbuster season! How many of these 20 famous romantic movies can you name from the simple cartoons of famous scenes?

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Answer Key

 

Events and Educational Resources

As we enter into a new fiscal year, we want to give a huge thanks to our current volunteers who completed their continuing education requirements for FY2025! Keep checking this section of Volunteer Voices regularly to find training opportunities throughout the year.


Domestic Violence Tier 1
Wednesday and Thursday, July 9-10, 2025

Fairfax Church
11451 Braddock Rd Fairfax, VA 22030
8 a.m.-5 p.m.
Registration for the summer session of Domestic Violence Tier 1, a 16-hour training on the dynamics of domestic violence, systems responding to domestic violence in Fairfax County, and resources available in our community, is now open. Seats fill quickly, so sign up now for this training for professionals, volunteers, and community members looking to learn about the dynamics of domestic violence and its impact on individuals, families, and communities. For full credit, all 16 hours must be completed. This training is free, but registration is required. Questions? Contact Abby Picard.


Consent Series by Cardea
Cardea
is offering a series of trainings around consent, designed for educators and advocates working with youth. Workshops in the series focus on the intersection between consent, violence, and health and highlight the needs of youth and communities often not prioritized in family education. You can find the full series here, which includes monthly workshops through December 2025.

 

Make a Note!

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Please take a moment to log on to your Volunteer Management System (VMS) account and log your hours for the month of June. Please also log any time you spent on training under “volunteer training.” If you do not see this selection under your opportunities, please email Caroline Croghan, and she will log on to add it to your account.  

Please enter your hours for each day you volunteered and not as a lump sum. If you need to log hours for a previous month, please email Caroline Croghan to let her know so she can be aware of the entry and expedite the approval process.

 

Parting Shot

Linda McMillen at a tabling eventLinda McMillen, Fairfax hotline and community outreach volunteer, mans the table at County Youth Move (formerly the Healthy Minds Youth Advisory Council) Bridging Arts Gallery at Sully Community Center in April.

 

 

 

 

 

DSVS Wants You!

Interested in becoming a volunteer? Contact Caroline Croghan.


Check out past issues of Volunteer Voices.

 

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