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703-324-7500 TTY 711
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Volunteer Voices – Current Issue

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Welcome to the 2026 August issue of Volunteer Voices, a monthly newsletter for current and potential Domestic and Sexual Violence Services (DSVS) volunteers.

In this Issue:

Table of Contents
  • Notes from the Staff
  • Self-Care Corner: 7 Ways to Use Self-Care to Be Kind to Yourself
  • TED Talk
  • Quotables
  • Join the Conversations!
  • A Day in the Life …
  • Raising My Voice: Meet Laura Faino, Hotline Volunteer
  • Reviews: Betrayal, Season 5
  • Birthdays
  • Test Your Brain
  • Events and Educational Resources
  • Make a Note!
  • Parting Shot

 

Notes from Staff

Hello!

I recently joined the DSVS team as the clinical services coordinator and have felt very welcome since coming aboard. I have over a decade of experience supporting survivors and working with individuals impacted by domestic and sexual violence. 

Before joining DSVS, I worked at a domestic violence shelter, where I gained invaluable experience supporting survivors through different stages of their journey. From helping clients plan their safety to connecting them with transitional housing, rental assistance, and everything in between, I had the privilege of walking alongside them as they worked toward safety and stability. I also had the honor of witnessing clients overcome challenges and accomplish their goals while in shelter, and that made it all worthwhile. 

When I am not supporting individuals impacted by DV/SV, I enjoy spending time outdoors, whether on a walk or a hike. I feel very lucky to call Virginia home and appreciate all the beauty it has to offer. From amazing restaurants to breathtaking views of the Blue Ridge Mountains, I love it all! Additionally, I enjoy creating art in my free time and often find inspiration while exploring nature or wandering through the city. 

I look forward to doing great work together!

Katia A. Vega
Clinical Services Coordinator 
 

Self-Care Corner

7 Ways to Use Self-Care to Be Kind to Yourself

Kindness starts with how we treat ourselves. Check out these seven small ways that can help you reset and recharge.

 

 

 

 

TED Talk 

August is National Wellness Month to encourage people to focus on their own well-being, prioritize self-care, and think about their physical, mental, and social health. This is a very important topic for DSVS Volunteers. Our volunteers engage in very demanding roles supporting people in crisis, and it is so important that we all take care of ourselves to continue supporting others. Watch The Missing Ingredient in Self-Care by Portia Jackson-Preston about her journey to developing her self-care plan and the importance of community in individual self-care.

 

Quotables

"Don't spend your precious time asking, ‘Why isn't the world a better place?’... The question to ask is ‘How can I make it better?” –Leo Buscaglia

 

 

 

 

Join the Conversations!

Domestic and Sexual Violence Services’ podcast, Unscripted: Conversations about Sexual and Domestic Violence, is real talk on tough topics! Stay in the know with these biweekly discussions. If you have ideas for topics you’d like to hear addressed on Unscripted, email them to DSVS’ communications specialist Kendra Lee.

 

A Day in the Life …  

As the volunteer manager, two of my favorite days at work were our summer and winter volunteer socials! In June, we hosted our Summer Volunteer Picnic to show our appreciation for our volunteers, celebrate their achievements, and provide an opportunity for volunteers to connect. 

There is a lot of planning that goes into these events. To start, I meet with the wonderful volunteer liaisons for a brainstorming session. This year to go along with the outdoor picnic theme, we wanted to have lots of activities where people could enjoy the outdoors–like cornhole! We were excited to invite volunteers and their friends and family to join us. After the brainstorming session, there is a lot of work to order food and supplies, promote the event with volunteers, and create decorations and activities. 

On the day of the event, I packed my car with snacks, drinks, and games, and the volunteer liaisons picked up catering orders and helped set up for the event. We arrived at Providence Park in Fairfax, put on some music, and started decorating! As the event was all set to go and the volunteers started to arrive, DSVS staff and I had the opportunity to enjoy the event and visit with our volunteers! Stacy Ziebell, our Prevention, Education, and Coordination Team program manager, shared a speech about the hard work our volunteers do and how appreciative we are. It was a wonderful day, and I always love the opportunity to spend time with our volunteer team! Thanks to everyone who joined us at the event, and I hope to see many of you at our next event this winter!


Each newsletter will include this section to help share reviews, spotlight the people who support Domestic and Sexual Violence Services, recognize birthdays and list upcoming trainings and meetings.

 

Raising My Voice 

Meet Laura Faino, Hotline Volunteer 

“I completed Domestic and Sexual Violence Services Tier 1 training to fulfill Court Appointed Special Advocate continuing education requirements,” says Hotline volunteer Laura Faino. “I knew nothing about the landscape of domestic violence services prior to doing Tier 1, and the training was very eye opening. I was motivated to learn more in part because I had come to see that many of the families I was working with as a CASA have also experienced domestic violence.” Read more of Laura’s volunteer journey.

 

 

Reviews 

Betrayal is a podcast series and Hulu docuseries that shares stories of individuals who experienced significant betrayal in their intimate partner relationships. The most recent podcast season, season 5, takes place in Montgomery County, Maryland, not too far from Fairfax County, Virginia. It is a gripping and important listen, especially in how it confronts marital rape and the laws surrounding it. 

Instead of treating rape as something that only happens between strangers, this season dives into the gray, often-ignored reality of sexual violence within marriage and challenges the harmful myth that a spouse is ever “owed” sex. The show weaves the survivor’s story with clear, accessible context about the history of the marital rape exemption and the gap between what the law says and how cases are actually treated. 

In this case, the law was such that marital rape was not considered a criminal act unless it can be proved the victim showed outward signs of resistance during the sexual act. In this instance, the victim was unconscious due to being heavily medicated when the sexual acts took place and was therefore unaware they were happening, not showing signs of resistance; so the sexual assault could not be prosecuted (only one act was successfully prosecuted because the victim/survivor woke up briefly from their drugged state during the sexual act and tried physically moving their spouse off of them). 

This series is emotionally heavy but thoughtfully told, refusing to soften the word “rape” just because the person causing harm is a husband. For listeners interested in true crime that educates—about consent, coercion, and how the legal system has failed people who have been abused by their spouses—this season is both powerful and necessary.

This review was written by Jennifer Perkins, behavioral health senior clinician with the ADAPT program.

 

Birthdays

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  • Kadidia Zebsonre Ouedraogo - 08/03
  • Ashley Kotania - 08/05
  • Blain Tariku - 8/11
  • Justina Johnson - 08/14
  • Terry King - 08/18
  • Tina Mather - 08/18
  • Wendy Werner - 08/18
  • Rebecca Pierce - 08/20
  • Faith Harris - 08/22
  • Ruth Berben - 08/27
  • Lilia Gashin - 08/27
  • Ana Jurado - 08/28

 

Test Your Brain

Can you spot the difference in these photos?

 

Answer Key

 

Events and Educational Resources

Justice Clearing House: Stress Relief and Communications
Stress is unavoidable in helping professions, especially in roles where incoming information is often urgent, emotional, or traumatic. Over time, that strain can affect well-being, performance, and communication. In this webinar, Tracy C. Ertl explores how stress shows up in public safety work and how intentional communication and practical coping strategies can help reduce its impact. The session looks at the relationship between stress, fear, and communication, and why addressing these factors is critical for both individuals and organizations. Registration is free but required.

 

Make a Note!

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Please take a moment to log on to your Volunteer Management System (VMS) account and log your hours for the month of July. Please also log any time you spent on training under “volunteer training.” If you do not see this selection under your opportunities, please email Caroline Croghan, and she will log on to add it to your account.  

Please enter your hours for each day you volunteered and not as a lump sum. If you need to log hours for a previous month, please email Caroline Croghan to let her know so she can be aware of the entry and expedite the approval process.

 

Parting Shot

Lilia Gashin stands ready to share Domestic and Sexual Violence Services resources at the Bridging Mind Art Gallery event.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

DSVS Wants You!

 

Interested in becoming a volunteer? Contact Caroline Croghan.


Check out past issues of Volunteer Voices.

 

 

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