Department of Family Services

CONTACT INFORMATION: Monday–Friday 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
703-324-7500 TTY 711
12011 Government Center Parkway, Pennino Building
Fairfax, VA 22035
Michael A. Becketts
Director

Volunteer Voices – Current Issue

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Welcome to the 2026 February issue of Volunteer Voices, a monthly newsletter for current and potential Domestic and Sexual Violence Services (DSVS) volunteers.

In this Issue:

Table of Contents
  • Notes from the Staff
  • Self-Care Corner: Take care of You Without Breaking the Bank
  • February Is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month
  • Setting Healthy Digital Boundaries
  • TED Talk
  • Quotables
  • Join the Conversations!
  • A Day in the Life …
  • Program Spotlight: The Data Analytics Team Uses Numbers to Analyze Trends
  • Raising My Voice: Meet Sophie Truax, Hotline Volunteer
  • Reviews: Finding Me by Viola Davis
  • Birthdays
  • Test Your Brain
  • Events and Educational Resources
  • Make a Note!
  • Parting Shot

 

Notes from Staff

Happy New Year, DSVS Volunteers! I hope your January was a wonderful start to 2026. We accomplished so much together last year. The impact our volunteers make cannot be measured. The skills you bring, the trust you build with the community, and the knowledge you share cannot be shown in data points. However, I do want to share some amazing statistics from 2025; this is just a sliver of the work our volunteers have done! DSVS Volunteers contributed more than 3,800 hours to the division’s programs in 2025! 

  • HASA Volunteers: 2212 hours
  • ADAPT Co-Facilitator Volunteers: 153 hours
  • Hotline Volunteers: 1179 hours
  • Community Engagement Volunteers: 29 hours
  • Domestic Violence Fatality Review Volunteers: 14 hours
  • Admin Volunteers: 12 hours
  • Court Accompaniment Volunteers: 228 hours 

Thank you to each and every volunteer, donor, and community member who supported the mission of DSVS last year. I am so excited to see what we accomplish together in 2026!

Caroline
Volunteer Manager

 

Self-Care Corner

Did you know cooking can be an inexpensive form of self-care? Taking care of ourselves with kindness and gratitude is crucial to our well-being, but self-care doesn’t have to mean digging deep into your pockets. Learn more about inexpensive or free options you can try.


 

February Is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month

person resting their head on another person's shoulder Dating violence is a pattern of harmful behaviors that can be used to exert power and control over a dating partner. This can happen in different ways, including physical violence, emotional and verbal violence, sexual violence, financial control and digital violence. Many teens experience some form of intimate partner violence even before graduating from high school. 

The purpose of Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month is to raise public awareness about the impact of dating violence on youth, educate young people about healthy relationships, and encourage the community to get involved to disrupt cycles of violence among teens. 

Learn more about teen dating violence. Stay on top of teen dating violence awareness events happening in Fairfax County this year. For social media posts, go to the Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month Community Engagement Toolkit.

Setting Healthy Digital Boundaries

All relationships need healthy boundaries--appropriate behavior that keeps everybody in the relationship safe. This is especially true in intimate partnerships. And, in an age where our lives are increasingly lived online, it is crucial that we set digital boundaries, as well. What do healthy digital boundaries look like? Find out.
 

 

TED Talk: Teen Dating Violence 

February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness month. We do a lot of preventive work to stop teen dating violence in our community, including running trainings and events for teens and parents. Watch a few TED Talks about how we learn about healthy relationships, and how experiences when we are young can shape our future: Preventing Teen Dating Violence from the Inside Out, The Difference Between Health and Unhealthy Love, and Breaking the Chain of Unhealthy Relationships.

 

Quotables

“The work of volunteers impacts on all our lives, even if we are not aware of it.” – Antony Worrall Thompson
 

 

Join the Conversations!

Domestic and Sexual Violence Services’ podcast, Unscripted: Conversations about Sexual and Domestic Violence, is real talk on tough topics! Stay in the know with these biweekly discussions. This month we’re focusing on wo episodes: Unscripted: Conversations about Sexual and Domestic Violence--Violence and Child Development and Unscripted: Conversations about Sexual and Domestic Violence--Preparing Parents for Tough Conversations. If you have ideas for topics you’d like to hear addressed on Unscripted, email them to DSVS’ communications specialist Kendra Lee.

 

A Day in the Life…

“My ‘typical day’ is spent connecting service providers and experts to survivors and community members in need of resources or education,” says Victoria “Tori” Nevel-Babla, human trafficking and sexual violence coordinator, who hit the ground running with Domestic and Sexual Violence Services 15 months ago. The fast pace hasn’t let up yet. 

“In the mornings and afternoons, you will often see me discussing our goals with our Human Trafficking Group or SART (Sexual Assault Response Team), made up of direct services providers, lawyers, and law enforcement. We are in constant communication to make referrals and improve services for survivors, while also partnering on our Annual Human Trafficking Awareness Month Training and hosting Sexual Violence Tier One three times per year to build capacity for allied professionals, staff, volunteers, and community members.” 

Tori’s day doesn’t end Monday through Friday at 4:30 p.m. “In the evenings and on weekends, you will often see me answering my phone during on-call shifts to support survivors or packing up my resource bin to raise awareness in the larger community, like, educating students at George Mason University or training soldiers and civilians to support survivors of violence at Fort Belvoir.”

Program Spotlight

The Data Analytics Team Uses Numbers to Analyze Trends

Just the facts: In Fairfax County, 35% of all homicides have a domestic violence component (on par with Virginia and national statistics). Over the five-year period from 2020-2025, there was a 25% increase in the number of victims of interpersonal violence served. During those same years, calls to the Domestic and Sexual Violence 24-Hour Hotline increased 65%. This is the type of data the Data Analytics team in Domestic and Sexual Violence Services collects. Sandra McGovern, operations manager and the leader of this team, talked to County Conversation podcast host Jim Person about the ways they review data from multiple sources to analyze trends, evaluate outcomes, and identify future focal areas in interpersonal violence.


Raising My Voice

Meet Sophie Truax, Hotline Volunteer

“The best part of volunteering is being able to connect with people during training. During the Sexual Violence Tier One training, I was able to meet a group of Inova FACT forensic nurses. In getting to know them, I learned a lot about what they do and the services they provide,” says Hotline volunteer Sophie Truax. “A couple of weeks after that, the first Hotline call I took was from a nurse from the FACT Department and made me feel a little more comfortable and familiar with the information I needed to get from them.” Read more.


Each newsletter will include this section to help share reviews, spotlight the people who support Domestic and Sexual Violence Services, recognize birthdays and list upcoming trainings and meetings.

Reviews

Finding Me by Viola Davis

Viola Davis, award-winning actress and producer, shares a personal and touching account of her life in her 2022 memoir Finding Me. The memoir begins with school-age Viola and continues into her 50s. Finding Me primarily relates to our work at DSVS as Davis has lived experience of sexual violence and witnessed continuous domestic violence in her own household during her young life. Davis grew up in poverty, one of the few Black children in a primarily White town in Rhode Island. This isolated her and her family from the rest of the community. Viola’s father had difficulty keeping work and was physically abusive to Viola’s mother. In Finding Me, Viola describes several instances of severe physical abuse, including an incident where her mother’s head was split open by her father. 

Though these accounts are extremely disturbing, the thing that stuck with me most from Finding Me is the evolution of Viola’s relationship with her father. When Viola was a child, she hated her father because of the abuse and his continuous drinking. She was afraid of him. At one point when Viola is young, her father stops breathing while he is asleep. She prays he will die in his sleep so he could not hurt their family anymore. Her father does wake up after this episode, to young Viola’s disappointment. As time goes by, Viola’s parents stay married, and she describes how with age, he becomes more calm, less angry, and stops abusing Viola’s mother. He takes on responsibility for several of his grandchildren in his old age and supports them with tenderness and love. 

Near the end of the memoir, Viola’s father passes away. She reflects that her prayers at the end of her father’s life are so different from that time when she was a child. She prays for her father to stay, to become healthy again–and she cannot imagine their family moving forward without him. This part of the story is a touching example of how individuals who cause harm can change and become supportive family members. Viola’s view of her father completely changed throughout her life, and it made me hopeful when thinking about those who cause harm and how cycles of violence can be interrupted with the right support. 

I highly recommend Finding Me. I personally listened to the audio book, which I would also recommend, as it is read by the wonderful Viola Davis herself. The audiobook also helped Davis become the ninth person of color to achieve the EGOT accolade (winning an Emmy, Grammy, Oscar, and Tony awards); she won a Grammy Award for the memoir’s audiobook. The book is an inspiring and moving read, casting light on many pockets of society Davis saw throughout her influential life.

This review was written by Caroline Croghan, DSVS volunteer manager.

Birthdays

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  • Allison Lowry, 8
  • Jayne Paschall, 9
  • Asha Nimmalapudi, 16
  • Joann Sazama, 17
  • Kylie Angiel, 22
  • Madhu Somayajula, 25

 

Test Your Brain

Spot the difference in these photos

Answer Key

 

Events and Educational Resources

Teen Advocates Gameshow Night
Thursday, Feb. 5, 2026
6-8 p.m.
James Lee Community Center
2855 Annandale Road 
Falls Church, VA 22042
Join the Fairfax County Teen Advocates as they host gameshow event to raise awareness about teen dating violence. This event, which will feature team-based competitions, cool prizes, and more, is free and open to Fairfax County teenagers and their families. Questions? Contact Debra Miller.


Domestic Violence Tier One
Saturdays, Mar. 7 & 14, 2026
8 a.m.-5 p.m.
Little River United Church of Christ
8410 Little River Turnpike
Woodburn, VA 22003
Tier One is a 16-hour training on the dynamics of domestic violence, systems responding to domestic violence in Fairfax County, and resources available in our community. Registration is free but required!


 

Make a Note!

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Please take a moment to log on to your Volunteer Management System (VMS) account and log your hours for the month of January. Please also log any time you spent on training under “volunteer training.” If you do not see this selection under your opportunities, please email Caroline Croghan, and she will log on to add it to your account.  

Please enter your hours for each day you volunteered and not as a lump sum. If you need to log hours for a previous month, please email Caroline Croghan to let her know so she can be aware of the entry and expedite the approval process.

 

Parting Shot

What’s one of the most important parts of Tier 1 training? Set up! In this Parting Shot, Kimberly Bell and Karen Bilak tackle this task for SV Tier 1.

 

 

 

 

 

DSVS Wants You!

Interested in becoming a volunteer? Contact Caroline Croghan.


Check out past issues of Volunteer Voices.

 

 

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