Department of Family Services

CONTACT INFORMATION: Monday–Friday 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
703-324-7500 TTY 711
12011 Government Center Parkway, Pennino Building
Fairfax, VA 22035
Michael A. Becketts
Director

Volunteer Voices – Current Issue

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Welcome to the 2026 January issue of Volunteer Voices, a monthly newsletter for current and potential Domestic and Sexual Violence Services (DSVS) volunteers.

In this Issue:

Table of Contents
  • Notes from the Staff
  • Self-Care Corner: 10 Health Benefits of Meditation
  • January Is Human Trafficking Awareness Month
  • Emotional Self-Care vs Physical Self-Care
  • January Is Stalking Awareness Month
  • TED Talk
  • Quotables
  • Join the Conversations!
  • A Day in the Life …
  • Raising My Voice: Meet Hotline Volunteer Kadidia Zabsonre Ouedraogo
  • Reviews: Netflix’s “Adolescence” Episode 4
  • Birthdays
  • Test Your Brain
  • Events and Educational Resources
  • Make a Note!
  • Parting Shot

 

Notes from Staff

January is Human Trafficking Awareness Month in the United States, and in my role as the Human Trafficking and Sexual Violence coordinator, I bring together key stakeholders in Fairfax County (like you!) to participate in this important campaign.

It might seem confusing why we need an awareness month for this crime; after all, there’s been so many high-profile cases in the media lately right?! Well, educating teachers, parents, healthcare providers, law enforcement, and more allowed many of the victims we work with to be identified and receive help in the first place.

Many people don’t know the first comprehensive federal law addressing human trafficking was only passed in 2000 and Virginia did not legally define and criminalize sex trafficking until 2015. With the average age in Fairfax County being 38 years old, that means these laws didn’t exist when most of us were born! 

So of course, the language and laws are still new and most of us still have a lot to learn, including responders, community members, and even victims themselves. We’re so proud to be part of the team working toward the goal of supporting survivors of human trafficking here in Fairfax County and we’d love for you to join us at the proclamation at the Government Center, at the Annual Training led by key experts on January 15, or on social media by posting a picture for wear Blue Day on January 11. 

Can’t wait,
Victoria

Self-Care Corner

hand in meditation pose10 Health Benefits of Meditation

One great way to practice self-care is to add meditation to your repertoire. And there is an added benefit: better health. A number of studies show meditating regularly can make you healthier in lots of ways, including improved memory, lower blood pressure and less anxiety. Find out more about how meditating can give you a health boost. Learn more.


 

January is Human Trafficking Awareness Month

person resting their head on another person's shoulder Human trafficking is the control and exploitation of another person's labor or commercial sex work by force, fraud, or coercion. Forcing someone to engage in commercial sex work against their will is a form of sexual violence. Commercial sexual exploitation includes using force, fraud, or coercion to facilitate the exchange of sex acts for anything of value, including money, drugs, or basic needs such as food, clothing, or shelter. Get more information about this crime and learn how DSVS is observing the month. And check out this County Conversation podcast with Stacy Ziebell, program manager of DSVS’ Prevention, Education, and Coordination team, where she discusses human trafficking misconceptions, gaps in service, and resources and support with host Jim Person.

Emotional Safety Planning vs Physical Safety Planning

woman wrapped in blanket with mug in handSafety planning is key to helping domestic violence survivors feel secure. Both emotional and physical safety planning are essential and interconnected. But even after physical safety is established, emotional wounds may linger. Survivors often say emotional safety planning helps them heal, rebuild trust, and regain independence long after the danger has passed. Check out what emotional safety planning looks like.
 

January is Stalking Awareness Month

Legal definitions of stalking vary between jurisdictions, but a good working definition of stalking is: A pattern of repeated, unwanted contact directed at a person that makes them fear for their safety or the safety of others, or suffer substantial emotional distress. It is a crime in all 50 states and Washington, D.C. Learn more about stalking and how DSVS is observing the month.

 


 

TED Talk: Celebrate New Year All Year Long!

woman talkingHappy New Year! All of us at Domestic and Sexual Violence Services have been so grateful for the work of our volunteers in 2025. Looking back at the support provided last year is inspiring. Looking ahead: There is still lots of work to do in 2026! 

Many people make new year’s resolutions. For many, January offers a time to reflect and motivate. However, we don’t always have to wait for the calendar to change to make a change ourselves or in our community. Watch this talk, Why I Celebrate New Year on September 1st, about how we can re-frame time to make a difference all year round. 
 

Quotables

planet“Volunteers are the only human beings on the planet who reflect this nation’s compassion, unselfish caring, patience, and just plain love for one another.” – Ernie McClintock
 

 

 

 

Join the Conversations!

UnscriptedDomestic and Sexual Violence Services’ podcast, Unscripted: Conversations about Sexual and Domestic Violence, is real talk on tough topics! Stay in the know with these biweekly discussions. If you have ideas for topics you’d like to hear addressed on Unscripted, email them to DSVS’ communications specialist Kendra Lee.
 

 

 

 

A Day in the Life…

“No day is ever the same in my world, as with so many of our DSVS programs,” says Brittany Vera, child witness to domestic violence coordinator. “I lead the Step Up 4 Kids Coalition, the county’s coordinated community response to children who experience domestic violence. I convene workgroups to support the work of the Coalition, focusing on training professionals, educating the community about the impact of domestic violence on kids, and much more! I also supervise the fantastic Children and Youth Services Unit within the Prevention, Education, and Coordination (PEC) Team. This small but mighty unit focuses on multiple teen dating violence prevention efforts with youth. Working with youth means getting creative and learning what teens need; sometimes they even tell us what they need so we don’t have to guess! 

“I facilitate trainings between Domestic Violence Tier One, Sexual Violence Tier One, and other requests we receive throughout the year from partners and community members. I support workgroups for the Council to End Domestic Violence (CEDV), focused on increasing access for victims to the justice system. I love being able to work with professionals and community members in DSVS and across systems to be able to create programs or services that meet the needs of the community! There is never a dull moment in a day!”

Raising My Voice

headphone graphicMeet Kadidia Zabsonre Ouedraogo, Hotline Volunteer

“Every human being should be treated with dignity regardless of any consideration related to their race, gender, religious beliefs, age, political affiliation, or sex and sexual orientation. This mindset has always prompted me to assist any member of my community who needs my support,” says Hotline volunteer Kadidia Zabsonre Ouedraogo. “Being a volunteer makes me a full part of the community or represents a way to give back to the community.” Learn more about Kadidia’s volunteer journey.


Each newsletter will include this section to help share reviews, spotlight the people who support Domestic and Sexual Violence Services, recognize birthdays and list upcoming trainings and meetings.

Reviews

Netflix’s “Adolescence” Episode 4

adolescence netflix owen cooperAdolescence is a Netflix limited series focused on the murder of a young girl, Katie, in Liverpool, UK–where the prime suspect is one of her classmates, a 13-year-old boy, Jamie. The series explores themes of gender, innocence, culture, and violence. This is the final installation of a four-part media review where we have explored each episode. 

In Episode 4, we have gone forward 13 months, and it is Jamie’s father Eddie’s birthday. His family is trying to have a normal, good day, even though Jamie is still detained. At the beginning of the episode, someone vandalizes Eddie’s car with the British slang for “pedophile.” Eddie tries to clean off the word but is unable. This establishes an episode where Jamie’s family is trying to manage shame, backlash from their community, feelings of powerlessness, and trying to recover from this traumatic year. 

Eddie and Jaimie’s mother, Amanda, are the focus of this episode. They feel shame and guilt about the way they raised Jamie, and they do not understand how he is capable of murdering an innocent girl. This episode highlights the effect violence has on communities and families, even if they are not directly affected by the violence and how many things can contribute to a young person’s worldview. Jamie’s parents talk about how they did their best with him but feel powerless because they could not change the outcome of his actions. 

This connects to how rape culture and violence do not have one direct cause. All the ideas we have discussed in this series of reviews--misogyny, school support, class oppression, poverty, and social media--have manifested in the show through sports, conversations between teachers and students, and the character’s friendships. All these phenomenon, not just Jamie’s parents, have contributed to the violence Jamie perpetrated. 

At the end of the episode, Jamie calls his family. He has decided he will plead guilty. His mother, father, and sister cry silently and try to be supportive, highlighting how those who cause harm are members of our community, often with loved ones who also are impacted. 

The series ends in an unresolved way, leaving the viewer with the impression violence is so engrained in our society that it feels hopeless, as we feel the powerlessness of Jamie’s family. However, we can also see the systems at play and how those systems can be improved to better support young people and promote empathy among a community. The story shows how if this Northern English community had more resources and education for young people, maybe Katie would still be alive. 

I have sincerely appreciated breaking down this powerful story over the last four months, and would highly recommend Adolescence because of the incredible acting, artistry, and symbolism of the show. 

This review was written by Volunteer Manager Caroline Croghan.

Birthdays

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  • Brahma Koodallur, January 4
  • Antionette Russel-Oliver, January 6
  • Suzan Osman, January 8
  • Jean Guerrettaz, January 10
  • Torri Mumm, January 11

 

Test Your Brain

Find the difference in these photos.

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Answer Key

 

Events and Educational Resources

Volunteer Orientations
Thinking about becoming a DSVS volunteer? Get more information at a new volunteer orientation. Registration is free but required. Next new Volunteer Orientations:

  • Monday, January 5, 2026: Noon-1:30 p.m.
  • Wednesday, January 7, 2026: 6-7:30 p.m.

Annual Human Trafficking Training
Thursday, Jan. 15, 2026
1:30-3:30 p.m.
Join Domestic and Sexual Violence Services during Human Trafficking Awareness Month for an eye-opening training on the impact of exploitation and violence in our communities. In this presentation and multidisciplinary panel, we will delve into:

  • The reality of human trafficking in Fairfax County and beyond
  • Connections between human trafficking and other forms of violence
  • How you can recognize the signs, support survivors, and refer to local resources

Congregation Olam Tikvah
3800 Glenbrook Road
Fairfax, VA 22031
This training is free, but registration is required.


Sexual Violence Tier One
Saturday, Jan. 31, 2026 (in person)
8 a.m.-5 p.m.
Wednesdays and Thursdays Feb. 3 & 4 and Feb. 10 & 11 (virtual)
6-8 p.m.
This training is free, but registration is required.


Domestic Violence Tier One
Saturdays, Mar. 7, 2026 & Mar. 14
8 a.m.-5 p.m.
This training is free, but registration is required.

 

Make a Note!

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Please take a moment to log on to your Volunteer Management System (VMS) account and log your hours for the month of December. Please also log any time you spent on training under “volunteer training.” If you do not see this selection under your opportunities, please email Caroline Croghan, and she will log on to add it to your account.  

Please enter your hours for each day you volunteered and not as a lump sum. If you need to log hours for a previous month, please email Caroline Croghan to let her know so she can be aware of the entry and expedite the approval process.

 

Parting Shot

photo of Lynne Shapiro and Abby PicardOur DVAM Quilt Project saw lots of community participation. Lynne Shapiro, community engagement volunteer, helps Education and Outreach coordinator Abby Picard organize all the block submissions.

 

 

 

 

 

DSVS Wants You!

Interested in becoming a volunteer? Contact Caroline Croghan.


Check out past issues of Volunteer Voices.

 

 

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