Department of Family Services

CONTACT INFORMATION: Monday–Friday 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
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12011 Government Center Parkway, Pennino Building
Fairfax, VA 22035
Michael A. Becketts
Director

Volunteer Voices – 2025 March

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Welcome to the 2025 March issue of Volunteer Voices, a monthly newsletter for current and potential Domestic and Sexual Violence Services (DSVS) volunteers.

In this Issue:

Table of Contents
  • Notes from the Staff
  • Self-Care Corner: Building a Stress-Free Life
  • TED Talk: Turning Pain into Power
  • Quotables
  • Partner Spotlight: The Heart Leaf Center: Where Play Therapy Gets to the Heart of the Matter
  • Join the Conversations!
  • Reviews: Black Box Diaries
  • VV FAQ
  • Birthdays
  • Fascinating Facts
  • Test Your Brain
  • Events and Educational Resources
  • Make a Note!
  • Parting Shot

 

Notes from Staff

Photo of Victoria Nevel-BablaHello! My name is Victoria Nevel-Babla, and I began as the Human Trafficking and Sexual Violence coordinator in Domestic and Sexual Violence Services last November. I convene the multidisciplinary response teams in Fairfax County as well as lead training and education on these topics. My goal is to improve our coordinated trauma-informed practices so victims can heal through community support and so all of us can experience peace.

Training as an intern on my local 24-hour crisis line, I learned so many skills for supporting people that I stayed on as a volunteer while studying at Dartmouth College. I applied active listening, reflecting, and the empowerment model to support friends, family, and strangers alike to make new connections and strengthen my relationships. This experience gave me the opportunity to work on a public health fellowship, helping start the first crisis line in Mumbai, India, and then researching psychological interventions for girls who had experienced sex trafficking. From there, I pursued a master’s in public policy in the European Union, returned to the U.S. to lead New Hampshire’s Human Trafficking Task Force, and now am continuing my journey with you all here in Fairfax County.

Becoming a volunteer quite literally changed the trajectory of my life, building my career, enabling me to connect to others, and opening so many new experiences--both on the Hotline and off it. While there are so many personal benefits to joining, it also brings an invaluable benefit to our community. The hard work our volunteers do every day shows victims they are not alone, no matter how difficult or isolating it is to experience violence. Your presence means hope, healing, justice, and a future with peace are possibilities for everyone. All you have to do is listen.

Victoria Nevel-Babla
Prevention, Education, Coordination Team

 

Self-Care Corner: Building a Stress-Free Life

collage of hobbiesWhen life is hectic, stress can show up in myriad ways. But one great side effect of self-care is alleviating that stress. Here, DSVS volunteers suggested some of their go-to activities to lower stress.

 

 

TED Talk

photo of Christine Schuler Deschryver March is Women’s History Month. To help observe the month, we recommend adding “The 5 Tenets of Turning Pain into Power” TED Talk featuring human rights advocate Christine Schuler Deschryver to your watch list. A supportive community is the key to cultivating resilience and unlocking healing, she says before sharing the story of City of Joy, a transformative recovery program for survivors of sexual violence in the Democratic Republic of Congo. She details how the organization empowers people to reclaim their lives after trauma and turn their pain into power. (Warning: This talk contains a graphic story. Discretion is advised.)
 

Quotables

holding hands“In a society that functions optimally, those who can should naturally want to provide for those who can’t. That’s how it’s designed to work. I truly believe we’re here to take care of one another.”–LeVar Burton

 

 

 

 

Partner Spotlight

Heart Leaf CenterThe mission of the Heart Leaf Center is to be able to serve those families that don’t have access to quality mental health care for their children. During covid, one of the founders of HLC realized a lot of children coming into therapy at her private outpatient clinic didn’t have insurance and couldn’t afford to pay out of pocket. Learn more about HLC’s therapeutic model and how the center has gone from accepting clients on mainly a sliding fee scale to accepting insurance—in four short years.


Each newsletter will include this section to help share reviews, spotlight the people who support Domestic and Sexual Violence Services, recognize birthdays and list upcoming trainings and meetings.

 

Join the Conversations!

unscripted logoDomestic and Sexual Violence Services’ podcast, Unscripted: Conversations about Sexual and Domestic Violence, is real talk on tough topics! Stay in the know with these biweekly discussions. If you have ideas for topics you’d like to hear addressed on Unscripted, email them to DSVS’ communications specialist Kendra Lee.

Reviews

photo of Shiori Ito“Black Box Diaries”

In 2015, after a dinner meeting with Yamaguchi Noriyuki, the Washington Bureau chief of Tokyo Broadcasting Service, about a possible job, journalist Shiori Ito woke up in a Tokyo hotel room, bleeding, bruised, and in the middle of being raped—and with no memory of anything that had happened following dinner until waking during the assault. But when she went to the police to report the attack, she was told there was no evidence.

His DNA on her bra, police told her, proved only that he touched her bra. Her recollection of what time she woke up and fled the hotel was off by about 20 minutes, so also wasn’t useful. (Ito includes a recording of a police investigator telling her she needs to be accurate down to the minute. Editor’s note: Crime victims often have murky memories.) Testimony from a taxi driver who dropped the pair at the hotel and footage of Noriyuki lifting an obviously passed out Ito from the taxi was dismissed. And Noriyuki held close ties to then-Prime Minister Shinzo Abe, which the documentary implies helped shield him from prosecution.

So, Ito set about doing what journalists do: investigating her own case. The result is the Academy Award-nominated documentary “Black Box Diaries.” Ito has spent the last decade under the media microscope as a survivor seeking justice for herself while trying to move the needle on Japan’s antiquated sexual violence norms. Her advocacy challenging these societal norms toward sexual assault, while simultaneously grappling with police obstructionism, misogyny, hate mail, and fears about her safety, is featured in the documentary.

Along the way, Ito became the face of Japan’s #MeToo Movement. Breaking her silence about her assault, a serious taboo in Japan (even her family was against her coming forward), shined a light on the legal system’s failure to take victims of sexual violence seriously.

Ito’s work was successful. Prosecutors refused to bring criminal charges against Noriyuki (who has denied he raped Ito), but she won judgment in civil court and was awarded damages worth approximately $30,000. In July 2017 the Japanese Parliament passed the first changes to the country’s sex crime laws in more than a century. Her legal victory led to her being named one of Time magazine’s most influential figures in 2020, though that wasn’t something she sought. And in 2023, the country criminalized nonconsensual sexual acts.

“Black Box Diaries” is part journal-like confessional mixed with news reports and recorded interviews. Though the documentary does touch upon women who have experienced similar violence—and who didn’t come forward—this part feels rushed. But perhaps the stories of others aren’t the point; these are Ito’s diary entries, after all. Grade: A-. (“Black Box Diaries" didn’t win the 2025 Oscar for which it was nominated. That win went to “No Other Land.”)

This review was written by Department of Family Services Communications Specialist Kendra Lee.

 

VV FAQs

Q: Are there continuing education requirements for Fairfax County volunteers?
A: Yes, as part of accreditation, DSVS staff and volunteers are now required to complete continuing education hours each fiscal year (July 1-June 30); check with your program coordinator for the number of hours, as they may vary by volunteer specialty area.

 

Birthdays

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March’s color is fair aqua, believed to raise spirits and increase compassion. The color also embodies the feeling of cloudless skies and the promise of sunny days ahead.

Katrina Hush, 10
Myriam Kunzi, 21
Dianna Escobar, 26
Roger Sabin, 28
Gabriela Pasquier, 29
 

Fascinating Facts

woman collage Women’s History Month officially began in March 1987 when the Congress designated the month to honor women’s contributions to history, culture, and society. But its roots trace back to Women’s History Week, which started in 1978 in Sonoma County, California, as a local celebration.

 

 

 

 

Test Your Brain

Challenge yourself with this month’s Sudoku puzzle. Buckle up! This one is rated “hard!”

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Answer key

 

Events and Educational Resources

Domestic Violence Tier 1

Registration for the spring session (Saturdays, Mar. 8 & 15, 2025) of Domestic Violence Tier 1, a 16-hour training on the dynamics of domestic violence, systems responding to domestic violence in Fairfax County, and resources available in our community, is now open. Seats fill quickly, so sign up now for this training for professionals, volunteers, and community members looking to learn about the dynamics of domestic violence and its impact on individuals, families, and communities. For full credit, all 16 hours must be completed. This training is free, but registration is required. Questions? Contact Abby Picard.


Spanish-Speaking Volunteers Needed
DSVS is seeking Spanish-speaking volunteers for a community outreach project. If this is you, please contact Abby Picard for more information.

 

Make a Note!

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Please take a moment to log on to your Volunteer Management System (VMS) account and log your hours for the month of February. Please also log any time you spent on training under “volunteer training.” If you do not see this selection under your opportunities, please email Angela Yeboah, and she will log on to add it to your account.  

Please enter your hours for each day you volunteered and not as a lump sum. If you need to log hours for a previous month, please email Angela Yeboah to let her know so she can be aware of the entry and expedite the approval process.

 

Parting Shot

Staff setting up art displayKatrina Hush and Audrey Arnold help hang artwork at the Teen Advocates Art Gallery event in February.

 

 

 

 

DSVS Wants You!

Interested in becoming a volunteer? Contact Advocacy Services Program Manager Angela Yeboah.


Check out past issues of Volunteer Voices.

 

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