Department of Family Services – Domestic and Sexual Violence Services

CONTACT INFORMATION: Monday–Friday 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
703-324-5730 TTY 711
12011 Government Center Parkway, Pennino Building, Floor 7, Suite 740
Fairfax, VA 22035
Toni Zollicoffer
Director

Volunteer Voices – 2023 August

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Welcome to the 2023 August issue of Volunteer Voices, a monthly newsletter for current and potential Domestic and Sexual Violence Services (DSVS) volunteers.

In this Issue:

Table of Contents
  • Notes from the Staff
  • Self-Care Corner: Coloring Is Good for Your Health
  • TED Talk: “What Doctors Should Know about Gender Identity”
  • Show You CARE: RAINN Bystander Intervention
  • Quotables
  • Program Spotlight: Tahirir Justice Center
  • Reviews: “She Said”
  • Raising My Voice: Meet Levette Fondaumiere, Hospital Accompaniment Support Advocate 
  • Birthdays
  • Test Your Brain
  • Educational Resources
  • Make a Note!
  • Parting Shot

 

Notes from Staff

image of Kelly JacksonI joined the Domestic and Sexual Violence Services division in December 2022. In my role, I handle subpoenas and FOIA requests, quality assurance reviews of the notes of the clinical staff, reviews of clinical records and processes, help identify quality assurance risks and gaps, and improve system processes, and supervising intake coordination.

When I began college, I believed I wanted to be a registered nurse. I took several courses to align with my goal and was accepted into a nursing program. The summer prior to the start of the nursing program I met with my college advisor who suggested I complete a career assessment. That assessment identified a list of helping professions I could consider with social work at the top of the list. I began to explore what it meant to be a social worker by taking a Social Work 101 course that summer, which prompted a change in my major. I applied to the school of social work and was accepted for fall entrance. While working on my Bachelor of Social Work degree I decided to complete an additional bachelors in Sociology and prior to graduation was accepted into a master’s degree program for Social Work and graduated summa cum laude.

I am proud of these milestones mainly because I was a single parent of small children while trying to complete college. I love to learn, which may be why I am currently completing my Ph.D. in general psychology. I have held positions of medical social worker, clinical director, and program manager, and I am a licensed clinical supervisor and licensed clinical social worker in Virginia, D.C., California, and Maryland. I am a Brene Brown Daring Way facilitator, Brainspotting consultant and therapist, and am an Internal Family Systems therapist. Over the years I have been trained in TF-CBT (certified), EMDR, and mindfulness. In 2016 and 2017 I helped develop the U.S. Department of Health & Human Services SOAR Against Human Trafficking curriculum and facilitated the training to other professionals. I truly have a passion for the work that I do.

As I reflect on my educational journey, I can’t help but realize I have been supporting the community for almost 25 years and have a heart full of gratitude for every life I have had and will have the opportunity to positively impact from a micro and macro level. After years in the field of social work, I have personally learned the value and importance of self-care and can proudly say I have completed my dissertation research on social worker self-care.

I am a mom to my four adult children, one teen, and one 5-year-old. I love to travel, which is justified as a means for my own self-care. My favorite places to travel to have warmer climates and clear water. I am fascinated by the ability to see fish swimming next to me. I like the outdoors. I like sports, hiking, cycling, and being out in nature--even if that means sitting by a body of water and reading a book.

I look forward to my journey with Fairfax County and meeting all the amazing people who have taken on the love of helping others.

Kelly Jackson
Quality Assurance Clinical Supervisor

Self-Care Corner: Coloring Is Good for Your Health

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Remember how much fun you had coloring when you were young? It’s time to pull out those crayons and colored pencils because coloring isn’t just for kids. Adult coloring books are a little more intricate than the simple designs and cartoon characters in your child’s books, but mental health experts say they are a good mental health tool. Here's why

 

 

Ted Talk: What Doctors Should Know about Gender Identity

ted talk speakerKristie Overstreet, clinical sexologist and psychotherapist, is on a mission to ensure that the transgender community gets their health care needs met. In this informative, myth-busting TED Talk, she provides a primer for understanding gender identity and invites us to shift how we view transgender health care so everyone gets the respect and dignity they deserve when they go to a doctor.
 

Show You CARE: RAINN Bystander Intervention

Show you CARE graphicYou have the power to prevent sexual violence. Being an active bystander means looking out for each other and showing you care for everyone’s safety. You can do this by noticing the potentially dangerous situation and identifying if and how it’s safe to intervene. After assessing, if you feel comfortable doing so, step in; intervention starts when you show CARE.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Quotables

small plant growing“Without community service, we would not have a strong quality of life. It’s important to the person who serves as well as the recipient. It’s the way in which we ourselves grow and develop.” –Dorothy Height


Each newsletter will include this section to help share reviews, spotlight the people who support Domestic and Sexual Violence Services, recognize birthdays and list upcoming trainings and meetings.

Tahirih Justice Center

Tahirih Justice Center graphicTahirih Justice Center, a Domestic Violence Action Center partner, serves women, girls, and other immigrants fleeing gender-based violence. The organization combines free legal services and social services case management with policy advocacy, training, and education. Learn more about this partnership.

Reviews

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“She Said”

For years, it had been rumored that Oscar-winning producer Harvey Weinstein was a sexual predator who had gotten women in the industry--actors and producers alike—humiliated and blackballed if they dared rebuff his sexual advances (or outright rapes) or hint of going public. His misdeeds were covered up by his studio and hush money payments with non-disclosure agreements attached.

“She Said,” released theatrically last fall, is the film about the two New York Times reporters who hustled, researched, and persuaded women to go on record for the explosive 2017 expose that outed Weinstein and caused a ripple effect in Hollywood, toppling other top executives and forcing systemic changes that have opened opportunities and provided protections for women in the film industry and beyond.

In the style of “Spotlight” and “All the President’s Men,” this film uses journalism procedural to unravel Hollywood’s secretive web of assault, abuse, and bullying. In the midst of the “fake news” era, it’s refreshing to see the integrity and work ethic of the reporters and their editors, who honored the bravery of the women impacted by Weinstein’s criminal behavior while striving to include the troubled producer’s voice in their published piece.

It is frustrating, however, to know journalism movies of this ilk don’t attract the attention of the very folks who scream the loudest about misinformation. Even more heartbreaking is how rare it is to see newspapers with New York Times resources to devote to a long-term investigative project, especially in 2023, when many print products have gone the way of dinosaurs. “She Said” does an impressive job of storytelling in spite of these roadblocks. “She Said” is rated R for language and descriptions of sexual assault.

This review was written by Kendra Lee, communications specialist in the Department of Family Services.
 

Raising My Voice

photo of Levette FondaumiereMeet Levette Fondaumiere, Hospital Accompaniment Support Advocate 

“I wish I could have more resources and capacity to address the systemic issues of domestic and sexual violence,” says Levette Fondaumiere, Hospital Accompaniment Support Advocate. “My efforts are valuable, but contributing to larger-scale initiatives that aim to prevent violence, raise awareness, and promote healthy relationships would be incredibly fulfilling.” Read more of Levette’s volunteer story.

 

Birthdays

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Sammar Butt, 4
Ashley Kotania, 5
Alicia Cannon, 8
Justina Johnson, 14
Himabindu (Bindi) Mandava, 15
Tina Mather, 18
Wendy Werner, 18
Levette Fondaumiere, 23
 

Test Your Brain

Sudoku might seem frustrating, but it actually helps develop concentration power and sharpens focus skills. Give this puzzle a try!

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Answer Key

Educational Resources

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August 2023
Summer Volunteer Orientation

Sign up to learn about DSVS, the services the division provides and the population it serves. Discover how volunteers can contribute to the DSVS mission and the application process. Orientation is free but registration is required. Multiple dates, starting Tuesday, Aug. 1, 2023, are available. Choose the one that works best for you.

Volunteer Game Night
Friday, Aug. 4, 2023

6-8 p.m.
12011 Government Center Parkway
Fairfax, VA 22035
Join the Domestic and Sexual Violence Services volunteers for a night of fun! Contact Tanisha Cox for more information.

Unpacking Gender
Tuesday, Sept. 12, 2023

7-8:30 p.m.
Chantilly Regional Library
4000 Stringfellow Road
Fairfax, VA 22035
Participants will explore the messages we are taught about gender and how they can affect our relationships with ourselves, loved ones, and community. We will discuss the impact gender roles and stereotypes have on everyone and how this knowledge can help us prevent violence. This workshop is aimed at parents, guardians, family members, and other caregivers interested in learning how to talk about gender with the children, teens, and young adults in their life. This workshop is free, but registration is required.

Make a Note!

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Please take a moment to log on to your Volunteer Management System (VMS) account and log your hours for the month of July. Please also log any time you spent on training under “volunteer training.” If you do not see this selection under your opportunities, please email Tanisha Cox, and she will log on to add it to your account. 

  • Please enter your hours for each day you volunteered and not as a lump sum.

  • If you need to log hours for a previous month, please email Tanisha Cox to let her know so she can be aware of the entry and expedite the approval process.

 

Parting Shot

 training with DFS employeesDSVS volunteers packed the house to take Sexual Violence 101 training.

 


 


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