Department of Family Services

CONTACT INFORMATION: Monday–Friday 8 a.m.–4:30 p.m.
703-324-7500 TTY 711
12011 Government Center Parkway, Pennino Building
Fairfax, VA 22035
Michael A. Becketts
Director

October Is Domestic Violence Awareness Month

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October Is Domestic Violence Awareness Month: Crafting Healthy Relationships

Domestic violence is a family, community and public health issue with widespread ripple effects that impact all parts of our community. It will take all of us to build a peaceful and safe Fairfax County.

Did you know?

  • 1 in 4 women and nearly 1 in 10 men will experience sexual violence, physical violence or stalking by an intimate partner during their lives.
  • More than 43 million women and 38 million men will experience psychological aggression by an intimate partner in their lifetime.

Research also shows survivors of domestic violence have significantly higher rates of long-term health problems, including diabetes, frequent headaches, chronic pain, difficulty sleeping, asthma, depression and post-traumatic stress disorder.

We can prevent domestic violence across our community by addressing the root causes of the problem. We can eliminate attitudes, beliefs, behaviors, environments and policies that contribute to domestic violence and promote strategies that stop it. Together, we can reduce our acceptance and tolerance of violence, and reject norms, practices and policies that place girls and women at increased risk. We can confront gender and racial injustices.

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Learn about county activities and resources honoring the month and check out our community engagement toolkit for ways you can share the message!


Domestic Violence Awareness Month Community Quilt Project

 DVAM Community Quilt Project FlyerDid you know quilting and art have long been integral to the movement to end sexual and domestic violence? Art and activism are linked, and creating art can be therapeutic for those who have experienced domestic violence.

For Domestic Violence Awareness Month in 2025, Fairfax County Domestic and Sexual Violence Services is collecting quilt blocks created by the community with the theme of “Crafting Healthy Relationships.” The finished quilt will be displayed in Fairfax County Public Libraries in 2026. Get more information about creating a quilt block. 


Is Your Relationship Healthy?

couple with moving boxesIn Domestic and Sexual Violence Services, we talk so much about interpersonal violence, people who cause harm, and knowing the signs of abuse that we sometimes push the promotion of healthy relationships to the back burner. What, exactly, is a healthy relationship, and how do you know if yours is one?


2024 DVAM Proclamation

Tuesday, October 14: Domestic Violence Awareness Month Proclamation

Government Center Board Auditorium
Fairfax County Government Center
12000 Government Center Parkway
Fairfax, VA 22035
9:30 a.m.

Join Domestic and Sexual Violence Services and the domestic violence community as the Board of Supervisors proclaims October Domestic Violence Awareness Month.


Saturday, Oct. 11: National Coming Out Day

Department of Family Services logoNational Coming Out Day is dedicated to honoring the bravery of LGBTQIA+ individuals who decide to come out and live openly. Coming out is often the first step toward living authentically. Take time to support and help those in your life who have chosen to come out, and check the Human Rights Campaign's Coming Out Resources Center for information about living openly.


Thursday, Oct. 16: Purple Thursday!

Purple Out: Thursday, October 16Turn Fairfax County purple to support survivors of domestic violence on Purple Thursday, Oct. 16, 2025. Wear purple, take selfies, and tag the Department of Family Services on Facebook. Send photos to Abby Picard.


Friday, Oct. 17: Domestic and Sexual Violence Community Annual Meeting

Until Everyone is SafeFairfax County Government Center
12000 Government Center Parkway
Fairfax, VA 22035

8:30-11:30 a.m.

Join the Council to End Domestic Violence, the Domestic Violence Network, the Sexual Assault Response Team, and the Fairfax County interpersonal violence community as they celebrate the milestones met over the past year and recommit to continuing the work until everyone is safe. Featured events include a networking breakfast, an art therapy project, and the domestic and sexual violence Community Awards.


Friday, Oct. 17: Start Anew One-Day Clinic

1126 16th Street NW
Washington, D.C. 20036

11 a.m.-4 p.m.

Designed to meet the immediate needs of survivors, Start Anew’s clinic services include wrap-around and job readiness services, such as resume and interview workshops; job applications and job fair with employers; no-cost professional workwear; criminal record expungement, vacatur, and sealing; financial literacy sessions; mental health and wellness sessions; and more. Participants will also be provided with lunch, public transportation stipends, and Hope Bags with personal care items and supporter donations.


Saturday, Oct. 18: Annual K-9 Krawl

K9 Krawl 5KPublic Safety Headquarters
12099 Government Center Parkway
Fairfax, VA 22035 

9-11 a.m. (check-in begins at 8:30 a.m.)

Lace up your sneakers and bring your four-legged family for this unique opportunity for dog lovers to come together to observe Domestic Violence Awareness Month and bring awareness to the connection between domestic violence and animal cruelty. Registration suggested.


Saturday, Oct. 18, 2025: Silence No More Movement Red Affair Fashion Show


Carashot Conference & Collaboration Center
11493 Sunset Hills Road, Suite 100
Reston, VA 20190
6-9 p.m.

Come to the Sixth Annual Red Affair Fashion Show, a fundraiser by Silence No More Movement featuring the P7 (Powerful Seven) models—community leaders and domestic violence survivors who rehearse for four months to walk the runway with purpose.


Listen to Domestic and Sexual Violence Services’ Podcast

Unscripted

Give a listen to these domestic violence related episodes of Unscripted: Conversations about Sexual and Domestic Violence:

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