(Posted 2024 October)
Meet Kimberly Bell, ADAPT Volunteer
Tell us a little about yourself. What is your professional background?
I am a retired Air Force veteran. My professional background consists of logistics and management, administration, human relations, and sexual assault advocacy.
How long have you been volunteering? What led to your initial desire to volunteer and serve others?
I volunteered with Fairfax several years ago. I returned recently and have been volunteering for a little under a year with the ADAPT program. I have also been volunteering with sexual assault and domestic violence for over 18 years in the military.
What interested you in volunteering with Fairfax County’s Domestic and Sexual Violence Services?
I love the program and how it has grown. I wanted to be a part of a growing organization that provided the community with tools to combat such a sensitive subject for many.
What is the most challenging part of volunteering? How did you overcome this challenge?
Not becoming too close to the subject yet not becoming desensitized. I’ve overcome this challenge by remembering my why and knowing that every choice is for the survivors. My job is just to be an active listener.
What’s the best part of volunteering? Share your most memorable experience.
The best part is seeing the breakthroughs and when ADAPT participants understand they’re part of accountability. One day, in the group, there was a person who never really shared. As they were sharing, they continued to say they didn’t care. I could tell the situation really bothered this individual, and finally they admitted it. I was thinking, “Yes, speak it.” When they finally did, it was like the gates opened, and they were freed because they kept talking. I was so excited for them.
What has been your favorite training? What did you like about it? What did you learn?
I am learning tools for myself. Just understand there are other ways to be able to figure out why you’re hurting. I learned about core hurts. This was eye opening for me.
What are your three greatest strengths? How have you been able to display and use these strengths when serving others?
My ability to admit when I’m wrong, have empathy, and cheer on others. I believe being humble and admitting when I’m wrong, especially as a leader, has allowed others who follow me to respect me more. Having empathy shows my sensitive side, and cheering for others shows my positivity.
What advice do you have for people who may be thinking about becoming a DSVS volunteer?
Ask yourself why. Are you prepared to hear stories that might be difficult and, at times, potentially triggering? There is a team of people who are here for you and have your back.
What do you wish you could do more of as a volunteer?
As of right now, no. I love what I do. One day, I hope to support the legislative review team. For now, I will continue to learn in the ADAPT program.
What are some of your hobbies and interests?
My hobbies include hanging out with friends and family, dancing, attending concerts, traveling as much as possible, cheering on my Philly teams--especially my Eagles--and volunteering for causes near and dear to my heart.
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